Proportion of Male Members to Female Members

Intetesting questions, gwhap, answering those would be possible in the same way I did my research, it would just need some more lines of code. I'm currently in more than enough work, but I will happily share my python code if someone is up for the task ?

@LittleDevil Ha! If that’s a hint for me to do it I am no programmer by today’s standards. ? What you provided is a good representation of m/f membership. More detail/insight would lead to more questions and this conversation could become a self licking popsicle! Thanks for doing it though, I was impressed!!

Besides the obvious lack of balance, the thing I have noticed is that women need almost no points to become a “bonus group member”. I had to work my ass off to become one around a year ago!

I've read a lot in various online forums mostly about wearing plastic pants and related topics. A couple of posts by women caught my attention over the years. One posted that she had known since childhood that she had an attraction for plastic pants but had never pursued it. Another woman posted that when she started college she had started to wear diapers and plastic pants, and that she had decided to continue doing so exclusively. She went on to say that she was not interested in discussing the subject, and having made that one post she would leave the forum. Okay, I know, these are just anecdotes, but these posts strengthened my belief that women are more likely to keep such matters to themselves than men are.

I've read a lot in various online forums mostly about wearing plastic pants and related topics. A couple of posts by women caught my attention over the years. One posted that she had known since childhood that she had an attraction for plastic pants but had never pursued it. Another woman posted that when she started college she had started to wear diapers and plastic pants, and that she had decided to continue doing so exclusively. She went on to say that she was not interested in discussing the subject, and having made that one post she would leave the forum. Okay, I know, these are just anecdotes, but these posts strengthened my belief that women are more likely to keep such matters to themselves than men are.

@vvp39

Did you mean to post this in a diaper thread?? This thread discusses proportion of women to men memberships.

Besides the obvious lack of balance, the thing I have noticed is that women need almost no points to become a “bonus group member”. I had to work my ass off to become one around a year ago!

Women need the same amount of points as men do.

It is what it is. I have noticed that in chat rooms there is often a 60/40 split with more women than men...on the busy periods where there are 10-12 people in a room it might switch the other way. Join a group in a chat room and say hello; we are sometimes kinky, often silly but we have a lot of fun. In a chat room, you can be whom ever and what ever you want. But its best if you are just yourself.

So females are interested more than it seems but they don't always feel the need to become members and participate.

I came here for years before I ever made an account. This was literally years ago when Zity had a totally different look. I was just really scared and nervous about getting an account and talking to the people. I was also (still am) worried about anyone in my life finding out about what I am into. I could only read the posts and the responses and knew that there were areas that I wasn’t seeing as a guest. Having an account has been much more fun than just being a guest though ?

.... How do you know someone is male or female? That's the thing about the internet, you can be almost anyone or anything you like. Rarely are claims verified in profiles. So I say enjoy reading about the different views.....

I agree with @J_Ibis ... You don't know. So I use an old fashion technique.... I ask questions. Those that are honest tend to give you a straight answer and those that aren't, you can detect pretty quickly. I have found friends here that I have met and they are, and were, as advertised. But either way, it is enjoyable reading what people on this board have to say.

Besides the obvious lack of balance, the thing I have noticed is that women need almost no points to become a “bonus group member”.

Sorry but that's totally false.

I am an engineer by trade, So I say enjoy reading about the different views and if you are looking for a hook up, I'd suggest a different site. Just my two cents worth.

Stick to driving a train. I know 3 or 4 couples that met here and are now married and lots of other folks that have met for various reasons. While there are less women here than men, there are still many that enjoy all the site has to offer.

I have nothing to back this up - just my intuition. I suspect most dating, kinky and fetish sites have comparable M/F ratios as Zity (except lesbian or gay dating sites of course).

Irrespective of the numbers and ratios, how about this idea.

Everyone interested in upping the female membership, introduce a female friend or two to Zity, if you have such a trustworthy friend.

I was recently reading some comments from years ago and there seemed, at a glance, to be more female respondants back then compared to now. Just on this page alone, of the 13 comments only 2 are from females.

I like the idea of everyone inviting a female friend to join but I don't think that's so easy! I can only think of one woman, maybe 2, in my life now who I'd be comfortable sharing Zity with.

The fact there are female members here period is the only reason i joined zity

Everyone interested in upping the female membership, introduce a female friend or two to Zity, if you have such a trustworthy friend.

I can say I know of no one I trust enough to even mention Zity.biz to. Let alone they reading the forum and sharing what is said on the forum, in a judgemental, negative way, with their other friends.

I wonder how long females looking for relationships remain here.... in other words; horny old geezers like myself have nowhere else to go and remain here till death do us part; whereas an available gal looking for a relationship gets swept up rather quickly...

I wonder how long females looking for relationships remain here.... in other words; horny old geezers like myself have nowhere else to go and remain here till death do us part; whereas an available gal looking for a relationship gets swept up rather quickly...

@reddevil Are the "horny old geezers" looking for a relationship or just looking for a piece to fuck or play with?

That could be the big difference for the differing number.

@MissStress: I should add to the post I just wrote - the women who do remain here are very special, and oh so appreciated; providing most interesting points of view!

True - it does seem that the male members on the site are far more actively posting than the female members. Speaking as a biologically born female and having lived all my life as I was born, I rather like being female and I think it is that women are more able to diversify their brains and can run on several tracks at the same time. I and most women I know lead rich lives of variety and keep busy. It seems to me that many male members here function with the enema track in one’s mind front and center ALWAYS. Nothing wrong with that - the male mind is what it is!

I just appreciate you guys here who can be gentlemen at the same time!

Anng, well said.

I understand what you say and I can agree with you.

I think if a Psychiatrist were to read the posts here he would not have to speak to any person and still would have enough information to write a book about perverted Moms and Dads as well as Grandpas and Grandmas.

And it would be a best seller.

As one of those old geezers I enjoy reading about others life experiences especially you girls as the things we share here were never mentioned to/with/in front of girls in my life experience. My own wife certainly won't talk about such things. It's nice to know girls, some them close to my age, actually enjoy the things I had always hoped you do that would be similar to what guys like.

Also with my age if I can be of any assistance due to experience, I want to.

I love hearing from girls and their feelings and experiences.

It seems to me that many male members here function with the enema track in one’s mind front and center ALWAYS.

@anng they also have "getting some pussy" in the top two or three. As you said it is just how they are and how they are made.

Women do have other things they think of. It just moves among many of those things. Depending on the day, the time, and life activities.

@arttemp

Besides the obvious lack of balance, the thing I have noticed is that women need almost no points to become a “bonus group member”. I had to work my ass off to become one around a year ago!

I can only go on my own experience

My bonus points are 8989, recent 1799 and my posts are a total of 828

Just to repeat in case anyone still hasn't seen @Webby's earlier statement, female members do not need almost no points to become a bonus member.

The requirements for bonus membership are the same for all.

Can't remember when I said it, but as a male with plenty of libido, I used to say that I had a "one-crack mind..." as others of the "fair sex" have mentioned (whoever wrote that has never read modern divorce law), women have "other" interests, especially after menopause...too bad, too, because that's when sex is the most fun.

I used to say that I had a "one-crack mind..."

haha- thanks for giving me a laugh. Yup, I also have a "one-crack mind"; as well as a "one-slit mind"...

I’ve been here for a few years and I didn’t join looking for a relationship. I’m in my seventies, widowed and I’d like to believe I am one of the regular participants.

I am here because of one thing: the absolute LOVE OF ENEMAS. They are my physical, mental and emotional desire and a huge aspect of my enriching life.

It is fascinating to read posts, blogs, stories and look at photos. That alone, strikes a match and lights a burning flame in my sexual desire and enema interest. I love and need enemas, period. I like to connect with other folks who had somewhat of an upbringing as I did. I thoroughly enjoy reading about the old days and comparing our upbringing. Zity.biz and its delectable content and several interesting personalities help to satisfy my enema-related life. By the way, I was lurking here for a few years even though I wasn’t a member before I got up the courage to take the step to join and post/submit content.

I am a klismo and a female. Long live the love of enemas! 🌸