What do you like best about giving enemas, either to your partner, friend, acquaintance?

What do you like best about giving enemas, either to your partner, friend, acquaintance? The other question, about getting an enema, has been asked a lot. This one may have been asked in the past, but it seems that many in our group are new, so...for the GIVERS! I'll answer my own question in another post.

There are several things I really like when giving an enema. It's a lot more intimate than massage so always a special occasion. Just making plans & deciding what I want to do is fun. Watching the reactions of the recipient to what I'm doing is a favorite, sometimes a turn-on all by itself 😁

The insertion of the nozzle thrills me as I know what it feels like touching and entering my own hole.. THEN, the water, nice. 😃 regards, irrigator333

As with many things, giving is often better than receiving. If I can administer an enema that is well received, and leaves the recipient feeling some degree of relief and relaxation, or even an orgasmic rush, I believe that reciprocation is far more likely. Seeing that someone enjoys an enema as much as I do, provides significant self satisfaction. While it may seem a bit selfish, I hope that many others find a good enema something to crave.

For me, it's the intimacy and bond created with someone who enjoys the erotic aspect of a relaxing cleanse. It's not for everyone, but those who have experienced uninhibited recreational enemas with a like-minded partner understand the pleasures of internal bathing.

I used to love, and enjoy, the "wood" that my sub got when I brought out the bag or when I woke him up by inserting the nozzle. Sadly the results are not the same now as back then.

Now I enjoy the pleasure and enjoyment he gets from receiving an enema and snuggling up with his Miss.

For me it's seeing the enjoyment that my wife gets from my gently sliding the nozzle into her and beginning the flow where she is being slowly filled with the warm soapy solution. Aside from having sex with her she insists it is one of the most caring acts that she can think of.

What isn't there to like. The blush on the cheeks as you expose her private pucker or the little grunt as the clamp is opened. The straight face as she does her best to hold her enema or the little duck walk at the end. I love it all!

The enema is the threshold, the moment, where the possibilities are many from enjoying an intimate moment with a partner, friend or acquaintance 🌹 and / or as the gateway for no holds barred fucking. 😈

The enema is the threshold, the moment, where the possibilities are many from enjoying an intimate moment with a partner, friend or acquaintance 🌹 and / or as the gateway for no holds barred fucking. 😈

What a beautiful way to say it Ms Lila. There are other ways to connect intimately.

Seeing the pleasure that it causes and knowing that it will lead to incredible intimacy

I love giving enemas. It’s a chance to make someone really feel better. I’ve given them to my wife when we were married and to a number of girlfriends. I always do my best to make it as pleasant a process as I can. That said, I really enjoy the look of embarrassment when she asked for them. I always gave SSEs with her in bed in the Sims position. That look of consternation over the shoulder at the bag brimming with soap suds was so fetching. The little gasp as I insert the nozzle— either a large bat one or double balloon. The held breath when the flow started. Her growing, bulging belly. The clenching of her anus to retain it all. Then the dash into the bathroom. I was always aroused by the process but made pains not to show it. My main objective though was to provide a comfortable, caring enema that really cleaned her out.

I love hearing the first breath as I slide the nozzle into my sub's anus. The arch of the back... which you would miss if you were not right there watching and adjusting... the muscles tensing and clenching as they accept the nozzle.

And then the fill. The chance to be in total control of their feelings, emotions, and bodily functions as you gently encourage and sooth them while they struggle to receive the water.

The anticipation.

The "giving" of an enema is very conducive to the development of a trusted & in depth friendship/relationship! As a means of illustrating this point just consider the following questions;

1) How many people have you hugged or simply kissed?

2) How many people have you you had intercourse?

3) Have many people have you had anal sex?

4) How many people have spanked you on your bared butt?

5) And now, how many people have given you an enema?

The more intimate, invasive and even "taboo" the "sharing" is it in turn becomes VERY special and in essence , "only with him or her!" That is about the best way & manner I can offer to describe this experience and I am confident once you make this happen within your life,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,you will agree.

Their ass is clean when I fuck hem.

I really love most the idea of taking control of someone in this way that is both embarrassing and humbling to them in the process. I like having the recipient stripped, bare, exposed, and vulnerable…their bottom mine to navigate. I love the moment of insertion of the nozzle, which starts a process that can't be turned back once the flow begins.

What I like best is the view of my girlfriend's buttocks and the two beautiful holes - one for douching and the other for enemas. Then her sighing as she slowly fills. Followed by her trying to retain it as the cramps give her an ever increasing urge to expel. Finally her eneorgasm after which she expels in uncontrollable gushes until she is empty and delighted with the wonderful enema.

Inserting the nozzle is really a delight and the sounds that accompany it's progress. The real treat is the grunt that accompanies opening the clamp. Then the increasing squirming and panting as the enema flows in. Pretty soon the sounds become whimpers, as the cramps pick up. Finally the bag gives out a final gurgle and I move the nozzle and deliver a couple of slaps and off the bathroom for blessed relief.

Almost everything about it, but especially the delightful and extremely erotic sounds she makes as we progress from preparation to insertion all the way to watching and listening to her struggle to retain it. One of the great erotic delights on Earth. And the same in reverse when I switch roles and she gets to listen to me moan, groan, complain and beg.

Eric

I am usually on the receiving end of the nozzle from my Domme but on occasion I administer to her. We both enjoy enemas very much so we both know all about the feelings. I do enjoy the power I have over her (and visa-versa). You are seeing a very private part of her body that she could not ever see without the aid of a mirror. Seeing the exposed buttocks and her puckered spot and knowing that you will be invading that spot is an absolute high. Ther there is the power of filling her with the warm soapy water, hearing the sounds she will make as she is being filled. There is also the sound of the enema water running from the bag and through the tubing and nozzle. It is a thrill to hold the nozzle in her so it does not slip out and sometimes moving it in and out as the enema runs. She gets the same feelings as I experience when she makes me submit to the enema bag also

For me, it's the other person surrendering and that I'm doing something to them which removes control over one of their most intimate and most basic functions.

I love giving an enema to an attractive woman's sexy behind. Plain and simple… seeing the tubing leading up to her behind and the nozzle implanted in the cute rosebud… oh, it's it own kind of sexy! I also love the control..

I love giving an enema to an attractive woman's sexy behind. Plain and simple… seeing the tubing leading up to her behind and the nozzle implanted in the cute rosebud… oh, it's it own kind of sexy! I also love the control..

What he said for sure!

Love the sight of a pale, smooth soft tummy slowly distending….. and the sound of the much needed “panting” necessary to aid in dealing with the increasing pressure of warm soapy soapsuds being delivered and retained ……

I see I never answered my own question.

Excellent post @Doctorh3e !!!!

The question you initially posted specified what do you like BEST when giving an enema. If you had to pick one, which of the 16 items in your post do you consider to be the BEST one???

I think mine would be #4 - lubing up and relaxing the anus with my fingers,

Excellent post @Doctorh3e !!!!

The question you initially posted specified what do like BEST when giving an enema. If you had to pick one, which of the 16 items in your post do you consider to be the BEST one???

I think mine would be #4 - lubing up and relaxing the anus with my fingers,

@gwhap Thanks for the compliment.

I put down so many items because it kinda depends on the stage we're in. Like you, I like the touching, lubing, etc. If I had to put down one thing, it would be the totality of the experience--doing THIS THING to her. Other than that, it's difficult for me to separate the individual items. I will think about it, and if I come up with a better answer, I'll post it.

I too especially enjoy the “lubing up” of her rectum with my fingers. That incredibly warm feeling when my first finger enters her anus, and probes deeply inside…

Since I give to myself, the best thing about giving an enema is knowing I'm going to get one. But seriously I enjoy the preparation, nozzle insertion, opening the clamp, feeling that first rush of enema and the continuous flow and fullness.