Anal play frequency

Does anyone else seem to go through periods of time where you don't play for a month or two at all and also go through periods where you play daily sometimes multiple times a day for months?

I have some sort of anal play daily, while I also have my periods of anal frenzy - usually lasts about a week or 2, and a period of quiet (not silence, just plug wearing for shorter periods) afterwards, which also lasts about a week before resuming "normal" play intensity...

I have periods when I can't have any play (business, travel etc) but I find that after 3 days my ass starts clenching involuntarily reminding me to feed it something thick 😉 If I don't have my toys, by the 5th day I'm scouting for anything that could be pushed in my ass without doing damage and going crazy by the end of the week if nothing suitable is available or if there's no time and place. Usually I'll try to get some nice produce like zucchinis, cucumbers or aubergines and blast myself into orbit.

I can not imagine myself going anal free for months...

I play pretty much every day I’m at home alone. If it’s a weekend, I’ll sometimes have a mad session starting with a big clean out on Friday.

If my guts will play along (I’m impatient) then I’ll mix it up with depth or diameter play late into the night and then on and off throughout Saturday and Sunday just lowering myself onto a big dildo for a hundred knee-bends stretching my hole and guts between errands and housework.

During the week, I’m mostly with my girlfriend at her place, so serious play is sadly out of the question as it’s not her thing.

Then it’s back into my behind as soon as I’m back at my place.

If I’ve had a hard session, I’ll give myself a few days for butt and gut to have a breather, but otherwise it’s daily.

On business trips I used to buy butternut squash, baseball bats, later even toys from amazon delivered to the hotel and then work my hole in my hotel room.

The itchiness in my hole gets the worst on summer holiday, three weeks away from my toy cupboard. That can get very distracting as I start thinking of ways to fuck myself, but not get caught....

Basically yes, i can have a time when i dont play, then suddenly I find i plugging multiple times a day, I normally cum at least twice a day but that can easily go up with anal play.

I pretty much would like to play everyday and with a part-time GF can enjoy doing so 80 percent of the time. With a big day of play I will take a recovery day as needed.

I definitely find that at times I really get fixated and will play several times during the day till exhaustion. I like plugging when I'm done.

I really enjoy starting a day off fresh out of bed with a short 15-20 minute probing session. If time allows longer is alway better. I did this morning and signed on plugged to see what was new on Zity.

As often as possible- just can’t get enough! Just received my anal snake and took it for a test drive this morning! This is definitely going to be a favorite - goes in easily and deep with minimal effort and feels soooo gooood!

I typically go 2 to 3 weeks between any sort of enema/anal play due to time constraints. It's quite a bit easier to sneak a catheter for a few hours and nobody seems to notice.

At these times.......zero to none......maybe 1 time per month if I get lucky.....and maybe I get lucky next monday ?

On my own, I would say that I masturbate with some sort of anal component only once every week or two. It just takes a moment longer to get positioned and ready, though I ought to do it more because the orgasms are so intense.

With partners it really varies depending on how into it a current partner is. I'd say it's a similar frequency though: pegging maybe once a month, some sort of anal fingering also once every week or so.

I'm currently single and would love to find someone who was as enthusiastic about playing with my ass as I am. I did date someone with whom I would engage with anal play nearly every time we had sex, which was wonderful.

Not on your life would I go a month or so without satisfying my anal cravings. IF I'm able to give myself enemas every 2 or 3 days, I will use my anal toys on a daily basis. However, once I am into the 3rd day without an enema, I'm done until I get cleaned out again. I rarely let that go more than another day or two. I simply enjoy fucking my ass, stretching it, and going deep in it. Why would I deny myself those pleasures?

I’ve gone months without without playing where I’m just not interested and also had periods where I was manic to shove something in my ass. Totally varies.

I find that, periodically, I will binge on anal play (copious enemas and a large variety of my toys) for a few days during which times my appetite for such is insatiable. At the other end of my self-indulgent spectrum however I most certainly do not go for extended periods without some form of entertainment. 7-10 days is about all I take off.

As they say, it comes and goes!

I noticed a drop in frequency after starting my testosterone blockers and going on female hormones about 5 years ago, since this greatly diminish your sexual, oh what's that word?... labido.

Anyway I went from playing at least 3 to 4 times a week, to every couple of weeks in between. After my surgery I think I waited at least 6 months or more, since I didn't want to risk injuring my new vulva, afraid the stretching of my rectum will put pressure on it.

Currently I try to play once a week, but I probably average every 2 weeks.

I think the main reason is available time and being tired from work. (40 to 64 hours a week)

But I love it to the max. Anal play that is.

Before I stopped drinking, hangover days were the days I heavily craved anal play, which was quite often. I’ve thought about it a lot, and cannot figure out why that was a thing for me. It was a very strong carnal urge.

After I retired at 49 yrs old and widowed, I used to stuff my ass once or twice a month. One time I decided to do it as much as I could stand, but at least once a day for a week, until I came each time. The first day was once but lasted 3 hours. Second and third days I was really sore so I tried to hurry up and cum so I could stop. The rest of the week was crazy. It was almost nonstop riding toys, cucumbers and anything else I could find that I could use. After 7 days, I was so sore, I didn't even Think about doing anything for a month!

Yes, usually due to not having time due to life, but I still find time to mostly have some form of daily play, but my big enema sessions and large toy play will at times go months without doing and then when I do have the time could be as frequent as every day or a few times in a week.

My wife and I both enjoyed anal play 3-4 times a week after the kids were grown. Less when they were young, maybe more before having kids. We both were very anally erotic.

Before I was widowed it was seldom as she lost interest in tormenting me. Now, I am trying to do every 2 wks. It runs in urges with me. At the moment, I am in an urge cycle. I have played every day for 5 days straight and continue to crave more. I have purchased a few new toys that I am really enjoying. They are for stretching and/or depth play. I have a few more to buy and then will have a nice assortment. The only thing I really miss is a partner to continue pushing my limits.

Have to say that I love you guys. I don't feel like such a freak for being so anal.

I do not receive it as often as I would like. Usually it is once per month max, and only a finger. I still love it, but would prefer it a few times per month. Also, would love a pegging session every other month.

It can vary yes.

There were times when I couldn’t wait to get home from work to fuck myself. Or when I had a girlfriend, to get home and make it clear that my bottom needed her attention. Other times for various reasons my ass would go untouched by me or by her, maybe work stress or digestive issues or personal problems that took all our focus away from our bedroom life.

Sometimes the focus would be on my girlfriend’s (or friend with benefits) ass, for days at a time when I just could not get enough of her, seeing her undress, caressing her bottom, spreading her open and just looking at her anus, kissing and licking, fingering, fucking, for what seemed like hours.

What always surprised me was these women’s willingness. Even when I was wanting more, they never said No or Enough. Yes a few women I dated had anal desires that matched mine, but others were very shy, a few had never had their anal area explored or had never touched (or even seen) another person’s anus, could not even say words like ‘anus’ or ‘asshole’ out loud and never initiated our anal play, but were quite passionately into the many naughty things being done to their bottoms. And would act quite shameless, even aggressive, when turning their attention to my backside. Lucky for me.

It is definitely an obsession requiring frequent attention.

I have new to anal play, however it feels so good that I am going something daily.

Yesterday only for the first I am able to stimulate prostate with dildo and had with helping from my hand I had my first full body orgasm.

Today I will do it again, but I am thinking of not using my hand. Wanted to see if I can orgasm from anal stimulation only.

@cloud22, anal/rectal orgasms are 10X better than a penis ejaculation with something in your ass, although those are great, too! Forget about your balls letting loose with an ejaculation and work on making your ass cum!

@Like_it_deep Newbie here, can you elaborate on "work on making your ass cum!"

Right now I am in a six week break until March 3rd when I will be getting a colonoscopy. The last time I took a break was 5 years ago for the same reason and the next will be 5 years from now.

I get periods of intense desire for anal play and others when I'm not much interested. But I link it to sexual desire in general, more than to anal play in particular. As the years have gone by, periods of low desire have become more frequent.

@cloud22, anal/rectal orgasms are achievable, male or female. My wife equates a rectal orgasm to a vaginal orgasm, but more intense and a different feeling.

I can give myself very intense rectal orgasms using a single finger. Insertables with ridges, beaded shapes etc can really stimulate the sensitive spots in your rectum and beyond.

Experiment. Learn your anus and rectum. Cleaning out is important and allows your anus to open up. Take an enema, slip a finger inside and swirl it around. You will eventually find out what happens inside you. It takes time.