I wonder how we become submissive or dominant. Possible we are not totally one or the other. I believe we slide one way of the two options and it might depend on our early years, what we were exposed to, also certain people we were close to in everyday activities that influence our feelings. These are just a few of the possible options. I think we all have some of both submissive and dominate tendencies that are determined by situations, people we are in contact at a given time, and our mood we are in at any given time. I will write more when I have time on some of my personal opinions, I'm submissive 90 percent of the time and I feel it all started with my un-usual childhood. I would like to hear your thoughts and opinions. Also questions you might have for me.