How would you handle and feel if you had to wear diapers the rest of your life?

This was a topic I recently found on adisc.org and although it's not up for new comments I did read it and I was kind of can't stop wondering, what would I do in that situation given my physical and mental disabilities plus my advancing age.

Well in short I would embrace it fully and go back to fully becoming a baby/toddler with all the relevent supplies as in diapers, crib bottles a changing station modified for my weight as a adult, soft toys pacifiers and clothing in adult size obviously also I would have toys and lots of them.

And obviously my bed room would become my nursery and with nursery style music and story books.

I would not spare any expenses in making my new life as true to my old childhood experiances as possible, however modified for todays living not the 80's in which I was born.

I have plans to do this later in life anyway as I am only getting older and my incontinance problems aren't going away any time soon. If I won the lottery and it was a large win then I would buy a place of my own complete with careres and turn it into my abdl world in other words somewhere I could be a baby in peace and security knowing there was no stigmas and where I could regress every day 24/7 without any worries.

Anyone else feel the same?

Yours sincerely

Chinababy888.

Been there done that but i didnt burn the onesie .

I am early fifties and been using diapers 28 + years & am medically retired since 04

.SNADU Situation Normal All Diapered Up!

Being in diapers for the rest of my life, right now in my case seems inevitable, with my incontinence issues not going away. Being to diapers for over 4 years now, it's hard for me to think that one day I could get back into my adult underwear. Especially since it is my wife who manages the situation, she never misses the opportunity to remind me that I am a baby still pissing in her diapers and that I am not going to come out of it, luckily for me, she allows me to use the pot for my poo, as I have to wash my diapers and plastic panties myself every weekend, it happened to me to have to wash my dirty diapers by hand in a boiler, because I have no right to use the washer if there is a bit of poo in my diaper. My wife spanked me as punishment for getting dirty, and told me that I would receive a stricter punishment if I made a dirty mess in my diaper again, then I was spanked very lasts before I change my diaper, so now that i know i am her big baby i know my mom (wife) will take care of me for the rest of my life.?

Well I guess I'd get used to it, and if my wife "managed" it I'd probably quickly start loving it. But right now, it doesn't seem like it would be as much fun if I HAD to do it vs. only doing it when I'm "diaper horny" and in the mood.

Been in diapers full time since my prostate surgery 13 years ago. You adjust and go with it. For me it was easy since it was what I wanted since I been 12 years old.

I am just beginning to have issues with incontinence, but I have already came to the realization that I may end up in diapers 24/7. Hey it is what it is.

It wouldn't bother me in the least as I presently wear 24/7 for fun with full knowledge having to wear them is a real possibility. I'm 75 years old. I live with an insulin pump so there is one system (pancreas) in my body that has failed. I lost 100% of my hearing in 1 ear so there is another system in my body that has failed. I have chronic kidney disease (stage 3B) so there is another system in my body that is in the process of failing. I had prostate cancer and chose surgery so there is another system in my body that no longer works because it's not there. I have nephropathy in both feet and have probably less than 5% of normal feeling in them. (I broke a toe one day playing with the dog on the beach and didn't notice it for 3 or 4 hours. It was black and blue with a much swollen joint which is still swollen 10 months later.) Honestly, if all I lost was my bladder control it wouldn't be a big deal. I've been thru worse, including heart bypass surgery, and actually experienced incontinence for a while after my cancer surgery. What I think I'd find bothersome is if I developed anal incontinence at a point in time when I wasn't able to give myself enemas on a 3 or 4 day/week basis.

It doesn't bother this girl at all.I only see myself as just a baby girl anyways. Here is some of my history "Yes this baby girl,always has a pacifier between my lips just sooo comforting to nurse on it. I also get 2 baby bottles of Similac sensitive baby formula per day,but all my liguids is giving to me through baby bottles. Here is some of my history and life to this day."Yes my mommy has a COMPLETE full baby girl layette for me,and my diapers are kept in full view some in our living room with changing supplies and and a changing pad,some in the bathroom and of course a full supply in my nursery.The door to my nursery is also painted a pale shade of pink and has babyginagirls nursery painted on it with sweet baby items,such as pacifiers,bottles,baby outfits,and diapers all over the door. I am always dressed as a baby girl,and in clothing that makes it easy for my mommy to check my diapers and for easy changes.I am only allowed to crawl,never allowed to walk upright without a true baby diaper waddle".

I have been bladder incontinent since 2007. There is no way I would be able to live the active life I live and have the quality of life I have without wearing and using diapers 24/7. At first it was a little concerning, but now it's so normal that I don't even own "normal" underwear. If my bladder healed itself I would continue to wear and use diapers no matter what.

Totally embarrassed that's why I like being made to wear them now.

Definitely different for everyone. I am headed there for sure.

I do struggle with it at times, after so many years in white briefs underwear, tough to just go right back in to plastic tapes diapers again. They are very different and I look and feel like just one big larger baby.

Like anything, everyone adjusts differently. Will be fine. Ha, I better, with this regression does not look like diapers are going anywhere. Add baby bottle, bib, blanky, Sesame Street clothing, and dependency too.

I might be on the way there. For 10 or more years, I have had an over active bladder. I can go potty, wash my hands and have to pee again.

I guess I am ok with the thought of my possibly being in diapers later on in life. Having my bladder hooked up to a bag (I am sorry that I forget the proper name) doesn't really look like a option for me because I get bladder infections easily.

I wear them all the time and never will be out them, i am so used to having them on i would surely miss them, to me they are dependable underwear and never leak well most times they don't leak had a few close calls at home and when at work or out, i have never know i am soaked till i feel the wetness on inner thighs from the plastic pants keeping the wetness in.

Being in diapers for the rest of my life, is completely normal for me and it's doesn't bother me that I am an adult baby because of my incontinence. It's normal that I am completely diapered and completely diaper dependent. It's normal that I am NEVER allowed to use the adult potty anymore and it's normal that I am only allowed to go in my diaper. It's why being diapered for the rest of my life means I am no longer allowed to wear adult underwear and I am confined in diapers for the rest of my life. It's why for me, I don't consider myself an adult because adult wear underwear and use the adult potty. I see myself as an adult baby because I am in diapers for LIFE and I am not allowed to use the potty anymore.

It doesn't bother this girl at all...

I know the feeling because this bother this adult baby girl at all. I see myself as an adult baby girl who will always be confined in diapers. I'm always happy in diapers

It doesn't bother this boy either. I'm pretty much there already. After longing to wear diapers and rubber pants when ever I wanted for the past 60 years and not doing so because of fear, social stigmas, disapproval of girls, and general embarrassment I finally embraced my love of wearing, wetting and messing cloth diapers and rubber pants several years ago, told a lady I dated for a while in my wet diapers and rubber pants and have never been happier. She changes me when ever she thinks its time, I love her to death and never want to struggle with my diaper fetish again.

I know I will be in nappies for the est of my life and honestly it doesn't bother me at all.

Two scenarios that cause a situation like this it's sudden and without warning or it's of my own volition. If it's the first scenario then panic would be the first thing on my plate and then dealing with my situation would be second. I'd have to figure out how to live with that new reality and it would be difficult now matter what other elements you throw into the mix. Fear would be my motivating factor in that situation which is anything but ideal.

However if it were the second scenario I'd be much better off as I'd likely already have a plan and solutions. In one plan I'd be living with someone whom either forces the need for diapers or encourages it with less the subtle implications. In this scenario it's a mutual need for me to be kept in diapers, my knowing I need to be in them, and my care giver's motivation to keep me in them. It would be far easier if it was helped along by someone rather then doing it on my own as I at times lack motivation. Forcing me into needing my diapers would be an interesting scenario to play out. My mood would range between a bratty toddler to a vulnerable sensitive toddler who needs reassurance that it's ok. Doing anything with someone else makes what ever it is you are doing far more enjoyable then doing it on your own. That is just a fact. I'd have a better mind set if I knew someone had my back during it all and could help make it enjoyable.

Something that is most likely different for everyone. For me, would not be so easy, but, I would do it. A lot to adjust to. Stay permanently in plastic tapes disposable diapers permanently. Hopefully, someone, a very nice man, woman, or both, who would be very good to me.

Back in crib, high chair, playpen, bottle, bib, all of it. The right thing to do and gives whoever looking after me piece of mind. I’d want to really be a very good boy for them, just let go, regression naturally develop, and after a while, once daily routine, probably would not know anything else anymore anyway.

I wear nappies because it's a fetish that I have. I enjoy them thoroughly, and use them for all their intended purposes.

Also, I do like to wear out of practical reasons, like when travelling. No need to seek out a nasty, horrible public toilet when in need of a pee.

Though, quite surely, if I would get incontinent, and diapers would become something I'd rely on, I'm afraid they'd loose their initial appeal quite quickly, and become a burden for me.

I want them to be a choice.

There are times when I am just not in the mood.

I have been in diapers 24/7 for many years. At first I really hated it but after a while of my wife changing me I do not mind it.

I, much like you, been in diapers for almost half of my life. When my wife and I discussed it, the wearing of diapers was not a option anymore. Of course the male ego hit rock bottom. My wife has always treated me with respect about my wetting, no teasing me. There have been some [BIG] changes in my life. Seems like now I don't always make the decisions. She has become more dominate about things. Oh yes I have adjusted to the diapers. There is no funny stuff.

Thanks, Sport for getting us all in touch with some reality about having to use diapers. I know we all like our little scenarios but we are all guilty of losing empathy for folks without choices. Thanks for that reminder. You and your wife are great.

P.S.

True love and caring take the place of the male ego. Love and be loved only if you have the fortitude to handle it. Obviously, you do. Good on you

Naughty Elf

More than 26 years ago once I started having problems that could no longrer be hidden my wife was very understanding about it all and her being an ex nurse meant she had a very good idea of how to minimise and deal with all the problems created by my lack of bladder control.

I tried all the options available at the time and after many trials and tribulations found the only effective method of control was a nappy/diaper, throughout all of these times my wife has never seen me in a nappy and will not if I have anything to do with it , neither has she ever passed any derogatory comments on the times when it has all gone wrong and I have had catastrophic leaks on clothes and furniture.

I have noticed of late that she is happy to very mildly take the mickey suck as we were sat on some cold rocks at the beach and her bottom was freezing and she turned and told me her bottom was cold but she knew I would be nice and warm with my padded bottom, I really quite liked that mild joking around and just love her the more for it, nappies are what I have come to trust and yes at times they are inconvenient but in reality they are more convenient than not so!

She has been wonderful about it all and has her own share of limiting problems that I am very careful not to upset her about as hers are more sensitive than my own and she may well need nappies too in the not too distant future.

So handle it I must and should the day ever come when my wife needs to" handle" also she will have my utmost support and expertise on the subject.

I will wear diapers and rubber pants for the rest of my life, in fact, I asked my fiancee to be sure I'm buried in her favorite diaper and rubber pants for my funeral. After struggling for so many years trying to hide my diaper fetish from everyone but a few who discovered my diapers, I finally found a girl who could love all of me including my love of wearing and wetting and messing my diapers and rubber pants. We have lived together now for the past 5 years and she agreed to marry me in the fall. I told my sisters about my diapers as well some years ago, so now I feel completely liberated and able to enjoy my diapers and rubber pants all day and all night and everywhere we go. My lover pins fresh diaper on me in the morning after getting up, in the late afternoon and again before we go to bed. She often tells me what a wet little boy I am and how much I need a mommy to change me and help me when I potty or mess my diapers.

A little ironic situation has arisen as I have aged into my 70s. I actually need the diapers I have used all of my life. I am not happy but very comfortable wearing and living the rest of my days in diapers. I am not alone either a lot of my friends and associates are having problems of their own.

I too, have to wear nappies for medical reasons. It was only after this that I discovered the ab/dl community. So I suppose this is a form of serendipity.

I answered a few months ago but it's since changed I don't have to I'm pretty close. I pissed myself probably five or six times last year sleeping . That was really my fault than couldn't help it. Didn't go when I should have.

I just miss it now I don't know why I've been thinking about this cuz I've been writing when I was 22 in that dom sub relationship.

And I just want to wear them. And there is some sexual fetish in there I'm sure I'm going to enjoy beating off of them.

Really what I want is other people to know about it. I want people to find out that I'm wearing diapers. Did humiliation but now it's almost an excitement. I wanted to stick out of my pants I bought biggest thickest ones I could.

And I'm old enough now I'm 50 out of that old enough but I look old enough that nobody's going to really say anything about me wearing diapers I don't think but great if if they ride me for it.

It's a humiliation thing and I just want to wear them now.

As I have now spent about ⅔rds of my life in diapers, I would not mind it. As it stands now, I would be greatly surprised if I was not in diapers for the rest of my life.

I have a life-long overactive bladder. I think it was the trigger to my pants wetting fetish at 3 yo. I find out the diaper fetish late, at 28 yo, and became a DL right after trying the first diaper. I started wearing a lot, everywhere, but I would go for weeks without wearing. Sometimes diapers wasn't practical. But I was addicted about diapers and about the idea of becoming a bedwetter, untraining my bladder and becoming diaper dependent. I tried for years, without success. I was frustrated and I decided to give up, I accepted I would never become a bedwetter. After this decision, I was happy. I couldn't be a real bedwetter, but I could be a deliberately bedwetter if I wanted. All I had to do was wearing a diaper for sleep and use it at bed if I had a urge to pee.

Two years ago my overactive bladder became terrible worse. I lost the ability to hold my pee after about 2 minutes from the slightest sign of urge. Two major accidents in public and I made an appointment to an urologist. I had no idea of what happened, but after telling the doctor that I always had OAB, he immediately asked if I had Covid. What? Yes… There are many reported cases of people with OAB loosing the bladder control as a sequel of Covid. So he tried medicines and the 3rd worked for me. I can say I'm lucky, because for some people no medicine allows to control bladder spams.

I made the choice of not taking the medicine and wear diapers as a solution to my incontinence few months later. Myrbetric, the medicine, makes my bladder too strong and when I try to wet between the intervals of 4~6 hours, I can't succeed. I was frustrated because the medicine made me loose the ability of wetting myself on purpose. It's an addiction, but it only makes me happy. So I decided to embrace my love of wetting and wearing diapers. It wasn't difficult at all, because I already was a DL, I've already experienced going 24/7 for almost a year when I followed the 12 Month Diaper Training Programa and I could take Myrbetric when I find that diapers aren't the practical choice, like when traveling.

In the past two years I've learned to overcome the fear of wearing in different situations, learned that there's some social stigma, but in general people are very understanding, some people will give support but some will go away. Nothing was so surprising and I wasn't bothered of having to wear diapers the rest of my life. I enjoy the humiliation and embarrassment when I have to affirm I'm incontinent to strangers. It's a new pleasure for me!

I'm sure that I did the right decision, because I couldn't be happier in my life. I didn't realized until living the dream that being in wet diapers all day long wetting constantly was all I ever wanted. I've read in many places people warning “be careful with what you want, because once you loose your bladder control maybe you can't have it back" and I became afraid of having bladder issues. But it isn't that terrible. In fact, I found comfort and a sense of freedom, never having to look for a toilet anymore. There are few times diapers are inconvenient, actually having to wear them is more convenient than not.

I hope to be in diapers for the rest of my life!