Should a 40 year old wear diapers?

Revently on Quora.com, I came across this question by another user/person and it peaked my interest here's my reply

Yes, absolutely as there's nothing wrong with wearing them. Anyone, at any age, can wear diapers/nappies for any reason.

I, myself, am nearly 40 and have partial incontence although not because I choose it, so I have to occasionally wear them from time to time.

Let's face it as we get older our bodies change and if you've got a underlining medical condition and/or disability, then yes you may very well need them.

My advice is go with what feels right to you. And know this, just because you are wearing them doesn't make you less of a man or a human or that your a baby or infant for wearing something that is perceived as wrong.

Don't listen to those who would say that anyone past the age of 2 should not be wearing diapers/nappies as they are immiture themselves and don't understand the whole reasons you may or may not have choosen to wear them.

In my case I wear them because of my medical and psycological reasons but also for comfort. I think every one of us is an individual and he or she can make up their own minds. Yes I am wearing my diapers right now whilst writing this as I have to wear them for the purpose of preventing bed wetting accidents

And yes at some points in my life I do feel like an over-sized toddler but that comes with my choice to regress to that part of my life although I will go over more about that on another days reply.

Yours sincerely

Chinababy888.

There not illegal imoral or fattening unless you eat them ,so why not, if you need them use them, I was already incontinent when I turned 40 so I maybe biased .

Wear them if you need to or if you want to. It is simply the business of nobody else.

Age is not important or nothing to do with it when it comes to diapers of any kind. What is important is size, and protection needed. Simple as that.

Diapers are just specialized underwear. No more or no less. They are just underpants with a very specific function. As to the feeling they create with the person using and enjoying the diapers, who cares what people think? What can possibly be wrong with the comfort and security created by wearing underwear / diapers?

The concerns I have about the wearing of diapers are the circumstances and intentions that put the diapers on the individual. Was it a wanted or fetish related wish or was it a hurtful process to demean or punish the diaper wearer. Most AB/DLs are responsible for the way the public think about the fetish and the people that practice this fetish.

Enjoy your diapers and the fun you have in them. Please don't use diapers to demean or punish people unless that is their kink. As for Public Exposure and involving others that are not into the fetish, please don't? Being arrested for public indecency is no way to share your fetish. It is also very embarrassing seeing yourself on the evening news in AB / DL baby clothes and big diapers.

2021 is upon us tonight. Happy New Year and all the best going forward. Happy times and comfy diapers are ahead for all.

I am 41 and still love to wear nappies, I love to use them for their intended purposes, change nappies of others, and being changed myself.

Enjoyment has no age limit. Don't accept anyone telling you that it has.

Yeah I mean ultimately what you wear as your underwear is your business. It doesn't harm anyone else really either. I just turned 41 and will probably not only continue to wear diapers when I want, I'll plan to wear more in the future.....

I enjoy wearing and using diapers and have for many years. I was diapered every night until 16-17 and then finally stopped when I knew college was around the corner and bed wetting and diapers would be much more difficult. I often thought about diapers, maybe even fantasized about them off and on, but stayed away from diapers for many years. Around 35 or so I started wearing diapers and rubber pants occasionally when the urge became too strong. After a divorce I resumed wearing diaper maybe once or twice a week and in time began wearing more often especially to bed, and often waking in the morning to find my diaper wet. Today I wear nightly and most days unless its just too inconvenient. So wearing and using diapers after age 40 has been the best and most enjoyable part of my life.

Yeah I mean ultimately what you wear as your underwear is your business.

Exactly my feeling. And it applies to any underwear. I'm not one to judge what people wear under their clothes. No underwear, panties, thongs, jocks, briefs, boxers, or diapers, it doesn't affect me so why should I care?

@iamweasel2112 said: "Yeah I mean ultimately what you wear as your underwear is your business."

I agree to some extent. If you have no choice but to wear diapers in public (because of a medical condition, for instance), there's no way around it. However, if nothing forces you to wear diapers in public and that it's all about kink for you, I draw the line at the filling of a diaper: if you wear and fill a diaper in public out of kinkiness, you impose a highly unpleasant and disrupting smell onto others who didn't ask for it.

So yeah, wear whatever you want anywhere you want, but never, ever impose a kink on anyone if you can help it.

Most women should be back in nappies by that age, yes 😉

Anyway, nappies are for all ages, whether you need them, like them or just value the convenience of always having toilet facilities with you.

I just turned 58, and I started wearing just after I turned 57. Due to taking generic Flomax my doctor prescribed I started having incontinence issues. And I like the kink aspect of it too. And I don't care and you shouldn't care about what anyone thinks. It's your body and choice of what you wear under your clothes. I enjoy wearing a diaper for both reasons. That's all for now, I'll step off the soap box and give someone else their turn to speak

Frank

Of course - all 40 year olds should wear diapers. In fact everyone should wear diapers in my opinion. Life would be so much simpler! I really wouldn't want to be without them

I just turned 65 have been wearing PULL UP'S a long time as I call them,, they just feel good and sometimes I have had to use it when I am busy and unable to goto the bath room I tell my wife I just tested another one…I love wearing one…

I'm 75 and wearing my cloth diapers and rubber pants as I reply to this post. Been in them since my girl changed me this morning and I suspect she will soon tell me its time for to change me again. We're going out for dinner tonight, and I will be diapered, probably a little damp when we leave and very wet when we return tonight. We plan on watching a movie and then bedtime, when she will change me again for the night. Hoping for a little action when she changes me, since my pee-pee always gets excited and she encourages me to get even more aroused. Always something fun to look forward to after all day in wet diapers.

I don't think age matters, maybe you should experiment with wearing diapers and see how they make you feel…

Well we are here in a kink/fetish site that has a large bias towards anal play and diapers are included in that, so why ask if we should wear, just get on and do it, it might be because you cant hold back from peeing or shitting for medical reasons, or that you just enjoy the feeling of wearing , so just do it .

Yes. Agree. If you add bottle, bib, pacifier, etc..it can all add to more than just going pee pees in your pants.

If the 40 year old enjoys them or finds the humiliation to their liking then go ahead. As it has been stated it is no one else's concern what one does alone or with consenting adults.

I believe there is no age to wear diapers especially if you can't resist peeing in your diaper for medical reasons like me i am in my late end fifties and have been for over 3 years now than my wife put me in diapers and that has definitely meant no way back to my normal underwear. I often have very embarrassing moments at the public exhibition, although I have to wear them to avoid accidents in my pants and my bed wetting, because all this time I am in diapers and in my plastic baby panties, besides for my part now I don't care what people think, even if they see me that I have a diaper, besides I like to wear a diaper for the two valid reasons, for my comfort and especially so as not to run around looking for a toilet because I have my toilet permanently on me.

I'm 40 and I still sleep in diapers. I was born with a medical condition that made it almost impossible to be potty trained until I was 7. I would wale up each night with a wet diaper and almost each night with a poopy diaper. The doctor had mom and dad start me on nightly enemas. It worked pretty well, though I still wet myself probably 4 or 5 nights a week. Usually I'd only poo myself once or twice every couple weeks.

I'd still have occasional accidents and when they happened, back in diapers each night until I went a week without any. I had been married to my wife for a few months and had my first accident in years. So, we, or I should say, she decided that I would sleep in diapers each and every night. She was getting to the point where she was weaning our daughter off breastmilk, but she really loved the intimate bonding she felt when she breastfed Ashley. Since I loved sucking on her breasts when she had too much extra milk, I just stepped in, and have been enjoying her breastfeeding me. There's nothing comparable to the feeling of laying across your wife's lap sucking on her tits, wearing a diaper while an enema churns away inside your gut.

Wearing my diapers and rubber pants while suckling my lovers breasts full of her sweet milk has to be the intimate experience anyone can have. I hope you and your wife can continue for as long as she continues to lactate. My ex-wife allowed me to nurse from her after both births but she did not know of my diaper fetish. My fiancee nurses me several time a day and we are trying to induce lactation, however thus far no success. But she does let me, in fact, encourages me, to wear my diapers and I love to go potty in them while suckling from her beautiful nipples.

I am 70 years old and I am happiest when I am wearing my nappies. So of course anyone can wear nappies if they want to regardless of age

I'm 75 and as I have said in other posts I have enjoyed a full on diaper fetish since I was young teen, and, if anything, my joy of wearing and wetting diapers has grown stronger the older I get. After leaving hearth and home long ago, I wore diapers only sparingly out of fear of discovery, social approbation, spousal rejection and business risks. 20 years ago, my wife and I separated and divorced and I started wearing diapers and rubber pants more and more, especially at night so return to wetting my bed and waking in the morning in a wet diaper. Started to date girls, always wore diapers on my dates, eventually told all of them and finally met my now fiancee 8 years ago and wear 24/7. Never been happier and over that time we have told several her friends about my diapers.