How did the men here discover all about pelvic exams.

Don't remember exactly but as a late teenager my girlfriend at the time had a pelvic at Planned Parenthood to get birth control pills and she told me about her experience. Needless to say, I found the whole gyno thing very hot, and read up about it as much as I could once I knew what to look for. Even now I watch YouTube videos of pelvic exams and male genital exams, wish I'd had those 40 years ago!

My sister and I spoke of it. Would it have been an issue for you had the eldest or eldest two known about when you first went?

My family didn't have an open relationship. I would have really been ashamed and embarrassed. My mother never even talked to me about anything. When I was a preteen, she had me sit at the table and she put a book in front of me opened to a chapter about menstruation.

She told me to read it to myself. She stood there while I read it. When I finished the chapter she took the book. It just scared me, I didn't even notice the name of the book.

My sister and I spoke of it. Would it have been an issue for you had the eldest or eldest two known about when you first went?

People shouldn't idealize the relations between siblings. Just because you have the same parents, doesn't turn everything into some sort of mystic bond of concord and understanding. Siblings can be quite mean to each other or let's say that one sibling can be so mean and nasty giving the other no credible means to be above such meanness.

And not to be dramatic or anything, but I do know that when it comes to doing harm (of all kinds) to others, the overwhelming percentage of perpetrators come from within a family or from among friends.

There is a saying in Dutch that goes: ‘van je familie moet je’t hebben' meaning something like 'don't be surprised if it's family that screws you over'. That is something of my motto unfortunately.

Remember preteen years of hearing how girls and women had to have a exam where they had to remove their bottom clothing and get on a table with legs and feet up and be looked at by a doctor on their private parts which gave me a erotic feeling and sensation knowing how I imagined they would be embarrassed etc. . Also remember comment on ocassions from a female about how I was lucky being a male in that I didn't have to undergo this procedure although I once during a DOT physical exam predicated by my employer was in similar condition by the practitioner and nurse to my amazement,embarassment,and humiliation when told to lie back upon the table as the nurse withdrew the stirrups and placed my feet and heels into them and said to scoot forward with buttocks a bit off table. My genitalia and anus inc. prostate were examined in this manner for the first ever time. After proclaiming to them I now know what females endure they chuckled and giggled a bit adding to my uncomfortable condition. Actually this began from the start when the nurse told me to fully undress inc. underpants ,only socks could remain on and in handing me a cloth gown proclaiming it as a dress but quickly retracting it as a exam gown. I left feeling somewhat like I had been subjected to a emasculation. I later asked a co-worker days later when it was his turn if he encountered the same procedure he quickly became blushed and responded yes. Fretter

only socks could remain on and in handing me a cloth gown proclaiming it as a dress but quickly retracting it as a exam gown. I left feeling somewhat like I had been subjected to a emasculation. I later asked a co-worker days later when it was his turn if he encountered the same procedure he quickly became blushed and responded yes.

I sometimes think that many ladies would love to dress up or feminize men just for the pleasure of causing them acute embarrassment out of some sort of sexualized empowerment. And probably enjoy it even more if the man in question then showed signs of arousal. Not as an act of bonding together in femininity, but rather embracing the men's relegation to female dress as a sort getting even for any number of real or perceived inequalities. Sort of like getting a (fun) payback of sorts.

Things on the suject of med fet was a topic at the dinner table growing up with a mo that is an RN over 60 years and me being an EMT there were numerous medical topics during dinner and mom gave me the love of enemas I would like to not she is 90 and just broke her rt femur she is doing good right now and i hope for a full recovery for her

I first learned or first paid attention at least when I was 16 and my mom brought me to her exam. I was there because she had surgery a few days before the exam so she needed help with things and no one else was available to go. Otherwise I probably wouldn’t have been there or learned lol. It really sparked my curiosity about things and made me realize I like a lot more than I thought I did lol. Later she had me go with my sister too when she got pregnant cause she wanted me to learn more about pregnancy and didn’t realize the doctor would do a full exam at the first pregnancy appointment because she said normally at the first one they just talk and discuss things at least from her experience but I got the full show there too.

She said I went with her a lot when I was younger as well but I don’t really remember much from those except I do have a vague memory of laughing at her and telling her mommy I see your butt. LOL. She said I would always ask about her hair down there too and how she told me it’s something grown ups have lol. We just talked about it recently when she scheduled her exam for this summer when she normally goes. Only thing different is for the last three years she has seen a different doctor because her other one died. She said this guy seems a lot more strict about visitors and doesn’t even like my dad going in with her so he probably would say something if I went again lol.

My mom had gone back to school to get her nurses license when I was a young teenager I would look though her text books and came across pictures of how to conduct gyn exams and it must of sparked my curiosity have since gotten married and my wife's have always interested me which she has explained what happens which I appreciate

I don't remember exactly.. Some goes from internet, or maybe before at movie who are explicit about it..

I was very curious about that, there's some exclusive knowledge for girls and women

My girlfriend told me about her pap smear and that was probably one of the biggest reasons im into medfet. Just the thought of her on the exam table or her feet in the stirups as another person gets to view her like that gets me incre turned on.

I believe I read something in a book or magazine.. started to investigate more.. and then got hooked.. LOL

My parents had a huge home medical book that had a lot of pictures, mostly old black and white, as well as sketches, including enema positions, male and female genitalia, gyno exam positions, a really thick old tome, full of very interesting material for a young inquiring mind. I still remember a section that discussed marriage rituals of different cultures, and depicted the coloring of the bride‘s nipples and shaving her pubic hair as part of the wedding preparations. That was my start down the medfet road.

Overhearing female's in conversation about the procedure with their chit chat as I acted naive in the matter . Really came into focus from discussion with my freshman h.s. girlfriend when she was given her first initial gyno exam thru the recommendation of her mother with it performed by her mother's physician. We generally walked home from school together but her appointment date arrived and her mother took her out of school earlier for her visit and I was filled in by her the next day to it's embarrassing and humiliating experience with her giving full exposure of her privates to a total stranger male physician. As she recalled the entire examination to me inc. the placement into stirrups I was simultaneously envisioning the affair becoming very aroused with the process she endured. I had just recently gotten to the point where we were engaging in heavy petting of each other inc shared masturbation and a bit of exchanged oral play so her explanation of what had occured was a major turn on . She was a perse virgin , us never performing intercourse during our affair. I had finger play with her but with her maintaining a grip on my hand due to a intact hymen. No birth control either , so intercourse was our one restriction although she on ocassions would grind and gyrate her panty crotch across and upon my underpanted groin and crotch ,it at times bringing on ejaculation from me myself in a state of agony prior to the explosive reaction. Bit of torture actually. Fretter

There is a saying in Dutch that goes: ‘van je familie moet je’t hebben' meaning something like 'don't be surprised if it's family that screws you over'. That is something of my motto unfortunately.

I am not a man! What in ell am I doing here?

I found out about it when I was exploring my medical fetish as a kid

Is this a trick question!!??!!

Having been married for decades, and even when I was single, I became aware of these things.

Overhearing female's in conversation about the procedure with their chit chat as I acted naive in the matter . Really came into focus from discussion with my freshman h.s. girlfriend when she was given her first initial gyno exam thru the recommendation of her mother with it performed by her mother's physician. We generally walked home from school together but her appointment date arrived and her mother took her out of school earlier for her visit and I was filled in by her the next day to it's embarrassing and humiliating experience with her giving full exposure of her privates to a total stranger male physician. As she recalled the entire examination to me inc. the placement into stirrups I was simultaneously envisioning the affair becoming very aroused with the process she endured. I had just recently gotten to the point where we were engaging in heavy petting of each other inc shared masturbation and a bit of exchanged oral play so her explanation of what had occured was a major turn on . She was a perse virgin , us never performing intercourse during our affair. I had finger play with her but with her maintaining a grip on my hand due to a intact hymen. No birth control either , so intercourse was our one restriction although she on ocassions would grind and gyrate her panty crotch across and upon my underpanted groin and crotch ,it at times bringing on ejaculation from me myself in a state of agony prior to the explosive reaction. Bit of torture actually. Fretter

Great story. I can't imagine how embarrassing it was for her.

I was always curious about how girls had their physical exams growing up. I stumbled on the old govteen.com site and there was a section going into detail about the exams for both girls and boys. From there I was intrigued. I found a stuff on yahoo groups, geocities, and then speculumpages.

I learned everything about it after my college girlfriend went to gynecologist to get new prescription of birth control pills. Doctor was male, and not only I found out about pelvic exams, but breast exams too as he did a full check up of her.

Thinking about her being intimately exposed and touched by some stranger she saw for the first time just because she needed a pill, grown into my strong medfet.

I first found out about pelvic exams when I accompanied my first wife to several of her pre-natal and first post-natal exams. My second wife froze me out completely for ANY doctor appointment, but Zity and several other sites have been a help. My second wife's total freeze-out was the thing that piqued my interest in medfet, especially OB/GYN stuff - the mystery of it all!!! It also drove me crazy about her exposing herself to another man. Now older. I don't care, or might even find it exciting to have her examined by another man - hard to tell at this point.

When I was in college, my girlfriend told me that she had just been to her “annual” exam. Curious, I asked her what that was. She then proceeded to describe the entire exam to me. Needless to say, I was fascinated, especially when she described the speculum to me. From then on I have had the interest.

@KYDOC2 Seems a lot of our beginning memories go back to the college days.. for the men at least. For the women, most of whom had experienced an exam by then, the memories go back a lot further.. and much more personal and in depth.

This would be the perfect story to write.

"I went with my first wife to her first ever pelvic exam. I did not really know what would happen. It was AMAZING!

I can't find the words to describe the feelings. To see my wife, who was a virgin when we got together, totally under the command of this strange man was sooo hot. He looked at her bare chest and felt her up for a long time.

And he did not mind if I moved to get a good view of what he was doing. When he picked up the metal speculum—what I now know was a Graves medium—i was dumbfounded. I absolutely could not believe he was going to push that huge instrument into her tiny vagina.

But push it in he did. He wet it with water first, but water is not really a very good lubricant, so it looked like it ripped its way into her. She made a horrible face.

That speculum was absolutely the biggest thing that had ever been in her vagina.

And then he started cranking it open! Oh My God! I really could not believe it. And from the look on my wife’s face, neither could she.

It was so hot. So abusive. So painful. She had to be so submissive. And believe me this is not a submissive woman.

I watched as he used a wooden thing to collect a pap smear. She jumped and cringed when he did that.

And again, neither of us really knew what would happen, so I was shocked when he finally took the speculum out and just rammed two fingers into her vagina and just started fingering her. Finishing it off with a finger in her bottom and one in her vagina.

We got lots of books from the library after that and I read everything I could about examining women.

And one point from earlier I disagree with. Someone said you could never find the ovaries as an amateur. Actually it is really easy on a thin woman. My wife goes up and down in weight and we can see it in her weight gains. When she is thin finding her ovaries is very easy. It is a long reach, so you need long fingers, and when you do squeeze them your woman will scream. They are very sensitive. Which is how you, or a doctor, knows you have found them, cause the woman screams.

It is much more difficult, or impossible, to find them on a heavier woman. My wife goes from about 110 to 150. At 150 I have a really hard time palpating her ovaries. At 110 it is easy."

My grandmother was an obstetric. I enrolled in Medicine and followed the courses of Obstetrics and Gynecology. Unfortunately...

Unfortunately, because it would have been nicer to discover the med fet without all the pathologies. 😃