I get the hesitation but honestly if you think about it, all the bodyās orifices have disgusting things pass through them, all quite naturally. Yet people still have sex.
Iām not āintoā mucous or vomit, but I love kissing a woman. Not into urine or blood or yeast infections but love eating pussy. Not into feces but love licking and fucking a womanās asshole.
The point is, we are conscientious humans and we can clean ourselves before we get sexually intimate. I guess the problem is that not everyone is 100% clean. Drunken one night stands could pose a problem I suppose.
Personally over the years of naughty sex, Iāve never got sick nor has a girlfriend that I know of. But I will admit that there have been a few occasions when Iāve come across a not totally clean anus while things were getting hot and heavy, and so I just moved the sexual activity into the shower or bath. Problem solved.
Though with one submissive woman I dated for a few months, I made her bend over for āinspectionsā and sometimes told her that her bottom hole was not clean, which led to severe embarrassment then cleaning then re-inspection then punishment. In reality she was very clean but it was a fun, nasty little game we enjoyed.
Despite all that, I did date a number of women who refused to rim me, although all of them liked to be rimmed. To each his or her own.