What implement do you prefer to be spanked with?

I love to spanked by a belt...as long as it isn't too hard. Repeated smacks on alternating cheeks for an extended period of time is the best. It gives a nice penetrating ache that stays with you for days, without leaving a mark. The sensation of sitting down the next day or the day after and still feeling the ache of the spanking is the best feeling in the world!

A wooden kitchen spoon.

CuriousBetty, the sensation you describe so well is exactly what I aim for using my small, soft paddle with a feathered edge. Just the right size to deliver swats between the parted cheeks yet large enough with just enough weight to give a good pinking!

Because it is small, I can work on each area of the cheek as I desire. I like to start with the "sitspot" just above the crease at the bottom of the cheek and get it nice and warm because that gives the best and most unavoidable reaction for the next few days! Then I work up the cheek until I'm ready to spread them apart and work on the sensative area that seldom gets much attention.

Please let me know how you feel about this. I like it because it does not "cut" the skin or leave single marks, just overall pink to red.

StephenS, I'd love your idea if you replaced the medical settings with a luxurious bedroom and the doctor with a handsome prince who finds me irresistibly beautiful 😃 Ah well, I should probably take another look at my profile as I kind of love getting spanked, Im just not that submissive or into BDSM (don't like pain) and Im a bit scared of the more serious spanking since I don't have any experience with it outside my fantasies. I still stand with belt being my favorite implement, the thought of getting spanked with it as foreplay and seeing the marks later just seems so incredibly hot. Of course in reality it might be really painful and I might change my tune.

Hi Ruby. I understand your uncertainty about your feelings. You are quite young and still adjusting to American" culture. (May I ask what country you are from?)

You are very straight forward and honest in expressing your doubts and questions. Stick with Zity for good information. Ask a female mod if you need to know about a particular post or member. They will try to help you and are good at it.

I don't like to "beat" a girl with any tool that marks the skin. Leaving a handprint on occasion is the only exception. I have learned how to produce real discomfort without any serious harm using a small soft leather paddle, but the sensation of hand spanking a girls bottom is very erotic for me. After a spanking I usually apply soothing lotion to the skin to help the sting, (and because I love to feel female backsides.)

For me the place has to do a lot with the instrument.If we have privacy country or sound proof room i love paddle or whip ,but in my room i prefer not to annoy the neighbors.I leave the tv on and i use thin or thick chains on wet bottom mine or other,the result is good and we use water an soap bettter.For our sit spots and hole and pussy lips a tea or soup spoon,is not noisy and very pleasurable and effective.OOO you made me to stop typing and run for the spoon Bye!

For me the best is a bare hand on white cotton panties while she's bent over my knee. But a handful of nettles or trimmings off the rose bushes on a bare bottom (and elsewhere) is a fun way to turn it up some.

Almost forgot, a razor strap (for sharpening straight razors) is the perfect "belt". I has a couple of straps that slap together when it hits...marvelous!

A soft leather belt is the most eroric spanking instrument for me.

For me it's the belt. A well worn and flexible leather belt. Not a huge strap just a mans belt that would be used in a domestic discipline event. That is what was used on me as a kid so I seem to associate a "real spanking" with the belt. If I'm the one getting spanked I would want the belt used. I love seeing a women in her panties getting spanked with a belt.

I have two preferences ....one over the knee and spanked with the hand on my bare buns. For higher intensity, I enjoy the paddle but not until warmed up by hand. Once my bottom is beat red and throbbing, a nice warm enema is a special dessert followed by incredible love making after a long visit to the bathroom.

Wood Paddle

I have a Jokari works GREAT

A woman using either a paddle or a hairbrush on me.

Paddle over the knee also cane over a chair. Start with white briefs on then pulled down. After or before spanking a good mouth soaping. Always nice to finish with an enema.

Paddle or brush sometimes the belt canes are nice but i have a love hate relationship i love the first stroke or two hate the pain from the rest haha also love floggers.

If you're looking for a warm-up or something to produce that nice light pink overall glow, how about a shoe? Beach thongs work great for this purpose. So do sandals. They seem to have just the right amouint of firmness and weight to them.

Bent over a bed with ankles and wrists in restraints, target area immobilized. A senior Spencer paddle wielded by someone who knows how to use it, and does. I would love to take 50 swats in such a situation.

Depends.

Bent over....belt

Standing with hands abive head...flogger

Over the knee....hand

No to sandals or thongs. They hurt. Nothing more.

A very firm hand on a bare bottom over the knee or a nice belting bent over the bed. Mmmm(;

I really really really want to be spanked with a belt. Not sure why but it just excites the heck out of me thinking about it. Besides that, I probably deserve a good spanking, lol.

Mashie

Lately I've really enjoyed being whipped with a leather belt. I love the sound and power of it. It's tremendously sexy. I would really love to try a wooden paddle. I have wooden spoons that feel great on my tush. And by great, I don't mean pleasant. My riding crops and my lover's cane were nice, too. It turns out that I can handle much more than I thought I was capable of, which only turns me on and makes me want more.

Dianne

Fom me I prefer a leather paddle, I love the feel & smell of leather that in its self is a turn on, for the times I do the spanking of my wife she prefers my hand and will settle for the leather paddle.

Ruby, I'm new here but wanted to say that if I were spanked with a belt I am pretty darn sure I would change my tune in a hurry about wanting a RL spanking! haha My own fantasy is a lite spanking that leaves a nice PINK butt...no marks no serious pain...just a fun panties down OTK spanking, as foreplay perhaps. I know what you mean though about some fantasies not seeming realistic...but hey, we just never know. :-)

Best of luck to you!

Tryst

Freshly picked switches, canes, paddles, belts, brushes, slippers... As long as it will make my rear bruised and welted for days, bring it on!

While I admit that there is nothing like a stern, bare hand, wooden spoons, belts, and other traditional items are exquisite as well.

Incorporation of the offense is psychologically pleasing as well. Left your shoes in the hall? Swats using the soles. Forget to water the garden? Pops from a thin planting stake.

Nothing is more humiliating than an open palm across a bare bottom. Your instantly like a child. In terms of pain though and raw hide leather strap hurts even through denim. An extension cord is life changing pain. Lol.

I like it when I am naked and face down on the bed while my girlfriend spanks me with a stiff leather strap that I made for the purpose. It stings and burns so good!!!

The hand it turns me on.

I like bare hand, paddle, wooden spoon and hair brush

Wooden paddle is the best! But also enjoy lexan paddle, leather paddle / strap/ belt and the good old hand. 😃