Words to calm a patient while giving an enema

I did a quick search on this using the subject line as a search and it turned up nothing... was surprised? Sorry if i missed something, but i thought it a good variation/extension on the subject "Words to calm a patient during RT"

i don't self administer enemas, or pretty much any type of penetration. For me, all penetration is very much connected to the person doing the penetrating and for some reason i do not separate the action from the person psychologically (nor, honestly, do i want to). For me, enemas represent an awkward type of penetration with that erotically humiliating edge that simultaneously makes me vulnerable, embarrasses and arouses me. So the words and tone that the penetrator uses can attach to a lot of collaring points in me. Affectionate, encouraging, calming words seem to tap in and elicit the response of the erotic sub in me more than any other form. One of my more intense desires is being penetrated by a trusted Top when i'm asleep, so the words could be of particular importance when waking up to being penetrated using an enema.

1. A soft whispered: "shhhhh, you need this."

i have others, maybe i'll add later, want to see what others come up with first.

I know if I don’t take it like a good girl, il be spanked while I retain it that’s enough for me to take it calmly

Beth

I did a quick search on this using the subject line as a search and it turned up nothing... was surprised? Sorry if i missed something, but i thought it a good variation/extension on the subject "Words to calm a patient during RT"

Thanks for searching first. The management appreciates it!

I like to tell her, you are doing fine. Just relax we're almost done. Take a few deep breaths. What a good girl!

"It's just a small enema" - yea, right, hearing that while looking up at the bulging enema bag.....

"I'm just going to inflate the nozzle now"

"Come on, be a good girl, it's almost over." I looked at the bag and still saw it half full ... 😢

"Just relax."

"Let me know if you need me to stop the enema." (Not saying I'll stop it, but the thought can be comforting).

"How does this feel?". While gently rubbing the tummy.

"How does this feel?". While gently rubbing the tummy.

Oh wow, that's a good one. That would be a powerful one for me, would definitely make me feel simultaneously vulnerable and comforted... and controlled, at the same time.

I don't self administer enemas, or pretty much any type of penetration. For me, all penetration is very much connected to the person doing the penetrating and for some reason i do not separate the action from the person psychologically (nor, honestly, do i want to). For me, enemas represent an awkward type of penetration with that erotically humiliating edge that simultaneously makes me vulnerable, embarrasses and arouses me. So the words and tone that the penetrator uses can attach to a lot of collaring points in me. Affectionate, encouraging, calming words seem to tap in and elicit the response of the erotic sub in me more than any other form. One of my more intense desires is being penetrated by a trusted Top when i'm asleep, so the words could be of particular importance when waking up to being penetrated using an enema.

1. A soft whispered: "shhhhh, you need this."

i have others, maybe i'll add later, want to see what others come up with first.

I never had the pleasure of my Domme ex partner putting an enema catheter into me at night to fill me in the morning, but I'd love to. I'm a switch with a strong preference for enjoying my Domme ex giving me very intense submissive enemas. Being vulnerable, embarrassed and aroused sounds delightfully satisfying to me. And my Domme telling me all about what she's doing to me and what I'm about to endure is a big part of intensifying the humiliation, submission and arousal.

"I'm completely in control of your ass and bowels, and I'm filling you up to at least 4 quarts since I know you can take at least 5." "Feel free to moan, groan and beg, since the more I hear you struggling with your enema the more aroused I get." "And I'll just ignore you and do what I want to you anyway." "Does my rubbing your belly feel good? I just love pushing your water around with my hand and listening to it slosh around while you're moaning about how full you are." "Don't fret about the size of your enema or belly distention. I'll be be sure to make your next one much bigger and longer........." "Now since your other kinks make your enema harder to hold in but also make you more and more aroused, while you're holding your enema in I'm going to be putting you in a rubber suit, hood and gloves and heavy sneakers to add to your arousal and humiliation." I can't wait." And on and on.......

Eric

I have to say that if I was reticent about getting an enema, I would find most of the statements very patronizing and would not be especially inclined to give it a try.

"You don't want to be doing this all day do you?"

"So relax! Take a few deep breaths. Accept the necessity of it. Think of how much better you will feel this afternoon if we can get this right. And how much worse you'll feel tomorrow if we get it wrong!"

"Now accept that it can be uncomfortable at times, it won't last."

"Are we OK now?"

"Has it started?" Upon release of the metal clip ( I'd be asked this, and foolishly, perhaps to be defiant, I'd say "No" - only to see the bag then raised up much higher; and then I'd really feel it!)

Back in the early days of our marriage, hubby was not into enemas at all. But occasionally he would allow me to administer one when he needed some help. All the while I was gently cultivating his interest in enemas because I enjoyed them and I wanted someone to play with!

So my technique involved playing to his male ego. As he was receiving the enema, I'd coach him through the process, often complimenting him on how he was "taking" it and giving progress reports along the way. Comments such as, "You're doing great" or "That's my man" always seemed to bolster his confidence that yes, he could do this.

After 30+ years, he has come to see that enemas aren't so bad after all and can, under the right conditions, be fun! And they can lead to a lot of fun, too!

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

Seems gals who like enemas meet guys who don't; and guys like me who loved enemas meet gals who don't... All that it would take to get me to take your enema is to simply show me the bag.

Good question. The words I remember using are a lot about caring for the receiver how they are feeling at a given moment, but also being gently firm so we can get through the solution you're giving so the enema can do what it's supposed to. I give calm positive reinforcement all the way. I know how it feels, so I can put myself in their place. "I know what you're feeling, but you're doing great." "Tell me if you want me to stop so you can rest." This point is super important. Getting them to talk to you is just as important as you were talking to them. There's the psychological element when giving an enema, as well as tending to a physical need. Coaching throughout is good, especially reminding them to deep breathe through a cramp.

Be honest. Don't say there is just a little bit left when there's still half a bag hanging there. "I know you can get through this, and you're going to feel so much better." (At least you hope so.)

Anything that you can think of to talk about to help take their mind off cramping also a good thing, especially if you are trying to get them to retain the enema. Once I was able to have a nice chat with my older daughter at 3:30 in the morning while she was having terrible PMS. I had just given her half a bag, and she needed to keep that warmth in for a few minutes. It was a mother-daughter bonding that both of us will always remember.

Finally, it's not just what you say, it's the environment that you set. A gentle touch or massage can do wonders to relax the receiver. I have never given an enema to my husband or daughters for the heck of it. There was always a purpose that cleansing the colon would result in relieving constipation and/or making them more comfortable if (like my older daughter) was dealing with PMS or an illness.

I was in my mid 20’s(30 years ago) and had to have a Barium Enema. The Rad Tech was female in her 40’s. As she was positioning me on my left side she was explaining the procedure. When she was inserting the nozzle she said “this test can be extremely uncomfortable if you don’t stay relaxed and listen to me”

When she was inserting the nozzle she said “this test can be extremely uncomfortable if you don’t stay relaxed and listen to me”

Not the words one wants to hear - that would scare me..

I was in my mid 20’s(30 years ago) and had to have a Barium Enema. The Rad Tech was female in her 40’s. As she was positioning me on my left side she was explaining the procedure. When she was inserting the nozzle she said “this test can be extremely uncomfortable if you don’t stay relaxed and listen to me”

Not the words one wants to hear - that would scare me..

She was being absolutely honest. She wasn't pretending it was something that it wasn't, and she wasn't treating the patient as if they were incapable. If she then proceded to monitor the patient and give him relaxation tips when needed that would be pretty well done if you ask me.