Calming effects of an enema

I have actually found that after I have taken a warm and salty enema that my blood pressure actually goes down into the normal range without blood pressure medicine. I have been checking my blood pressure after I take an enema for the past two weeks and after each enema the blood pressure has gone down by an average of 25 points both on the systolic and diastolic range.

I would tend to agree with this. As a "lively" 9--12 year old boy ('59-'63) I had a lot of constipation issues which a soapy water enema bag enema would always resolve. Getting any enema took the wind out of my sails for atleast several hours.Then I'd get my boyhood energy back..

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Agree, when they are on the gentle side of the spectrum. Cares disappear, the mind is calmed and a nice nap or nights sleep carries you away.

On the other side, those taken or given for punishment or correction only produce that state after some time elapses. It's hard to relax after a forced long retention of some noxious fluid roils you for a while. A subsequent rinse may put things right for you eventually.

Ritualized enemas, as opposed to those strictly for health, are often viewed as essentially masochistic. Many types are far less so than others. Those are the ones that calm both your mind and body.

Enemas have a way of focusing our mind inward, not thinking of anything except for the sensations we are experiencing physically and mentally. I've often felt that enemas are a vacation for the mind. Adding a gentle massage with light touches "here and there" by a loving partner can be absolutely euphoric, followed by a wonderful feeling of relaxation. An enema bag can do much more for a woman than cleanse our internal upsets!

As others have commented, the enema can relax and decrease Blood Pressure for a period of time. I often check mine about an hour after and find the BP is done 10 points or so. 😉

I too find that after an enema series, I am much calmer and also feel empty. I think the part that I like the most is the empty feeling, which lets me know that I am clean inside. I have also found that a chamomile enema in the evening helps put me in the mood to sleep.

Does it count if I add wine to my enemas? Very calming after a stressful day.

I tried wine enemas when I was younger, but have stopped using them because they are too harsh on the colon. Most people will tell you that alcohol enemas are unsafe.

Is it the enema or that many masturbate as part of enema play - and it's the masturbation that is really the calming factor... Or, doing all the work of setting up, then sitting on the toilet for almost an hour, then cleanup are what's really tiring me and thus calming me...

Giving a nice enema or two relaxes me every time!

I am admittedly messed up. I have been through several very disturbing deployments and spent over 30 years as a public servant back home dealing with the worst that society can throw at me. I am not ashamed to say that I have contemplated suicide on several occasions in my lifetime as things just seemed to become overwhelming to the point of no return. The VA had me on all types of psychotropic drugs to the point that I was taking 19 different pills a night.

Enemas have always been a fetish for me and I have been taking and giving them for years. Both my ex-wifes gave me enemas (and one received), but they always gave them in a BDSM or sexual manner to try and excite me further. Nobody correlated the therapeutic benefits of enemas.

My wife now (and I hope to God my final) is a nurse who embraced giving me enemas for more than just sexual gratification. She and I have discussed this very topic in the past regarding how enemas have a psychologically calming effect on me. Not just during the enema or expulsion, but long before and after they take place.

If my wife recognizes that I am dropping into a spiral, she will suggest enemas for later that evening. That immediately focuses my mind on enemas and off of what was triggering me. She breaks the cycle quite nicely. During the enemas she takes a para-motherly approach and gives me them in a calming manner that usually triggers a sexual response anyway.

After expulsion, my head is clear and my body relaxed. I have learned to place myself in the hands of my capable enema giver and give all of myself to her. This allows me to hit the reset button on my issues so that the spiral stops. Enemas given this way have helped me literally get off more than 3/4 of my prescribed meds.

And a big shout out to this group for helping me better understand enemas from so many viewpoints!

If you are in the Tampa Bay area, give me a shout. There may be some enemas in your future!

Jeff

If my wife recognizes that I am dropping into a spiral, she will suggest enemas for later that evening. That immediately focuses my mind on enemas and off of what was triggering me. She breaks the cycle quite nicely. During the enemas she takes a para-motherly approach and gives me them in a calming manner that usually triggers a sexual response anyway.

I wish my brother had a wife as understanding as yours is and that enemas were part of his life that long time ago. Maybe he would still be here. All the best to you and your wife, hopefully your last wife. 😉

If my wife recognizes that I am dropping into a spiral, she will suggest enemas for later that evening. That immediately focuses my mind on enemas and off of what was triggering me. She breaks the cycle quite nicely. During the enemas she takes a para-motherly approach and gives me them in a calming manner that usually triggers a sexual response anyway.

My husband, @Meat_Monster is a veteran and had been severely wounded in an IED attack. I almost lost that big guy and the road back "was a bitch" for a long time. He "went dark" a lot between surgeries and I had no real way of reaching him and he always seemed to be hiding something or trying to keep things to himself to "spare" the kids and I all the despair he was feeling. I didn't know what to do and sometimes between surgeries he was actually prescribed enemas by doctors if things were working like they should. I thought he would pitch a bitch about having to have enemas but he didn't and the few times I helped him, over his bullshit protests, I could tell that they were something he liked even though he acted like they a hardship. I just noticed he seemed to be better off emotionally.

After I followed my mother to this site and found it, I put two and two together and a lot of what was written here fit him and some of his actions. I had theories and tested them out and finally figured that he did at least like enemas and he was a lot more open and talkative when I gave him one. The more I kept bringing up the subject and actually got him to let me give him a necessary enema the more I knew what I was reading here pertained to him. So I made gentle inquiries 😇 and told him I noticed he was always in a better mood when we gave him a doctor prescribed enema. Sometimes he would get erect at first but the more I got involved the less able he was to "hide" and it got to a point where I told him he needed to quit his cheap civilian shit and let me in. Tactfully of course and gently. 😇

It was a game changer for us both. I'm really happy that he voluntarily opened up to me 😇 and I think he's been happier since we don't have secrets from each other any more.

So I made gentle inquiries 😇 and told him I noticed he was always in a better mood when we gave him a doctor prescribed enema. Sometimes he would get erect at first but the more I got involved the less able he was to "hide" and it got to a point where I told him he needed to quit his cheap civilian shit and let me in. Tactfully of course and gently. 😇

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