Define Kinky - what does it mean?

I have been accused so may times of being too kinky for some of the people I have had sex with, but will someone please define kinky for me, I have always had the opinion that one persons kink is another persons normality.

If I enjoy it, no matter what it is, then to me it is not kinky at all, am I wrong ?

Kinky is not a derogatory description. Being kinky just means you are more willing to experiment or do things that lie a little outside the range of most people's sexual repertoire. If you are far outside the average person's repertoire, then you are deviant or really messed up, like me.

To the person performing deviant acts, the act only feels kinky to the person doing it the first or second time you do it, after that it's just another thing you do in bed or out of bed.

Kinky is also a relative term. 50-100 years ago, cunnilingus and fellatio were considered kinky, now everybody does it, and if you don't people think there is something wrong with you or you aren't a good lover. Nowadays, S&M or enemas may be considered kinky by people, but for others like my husband and myself, they are just more things in the long list of things we like to do WITH or TO each other.

My answer: supposedly abnormal sexual trait or paraphilia/fetish (and mostly an idiomatic or informal term).

'My kinks beat yours!' (Only joking, folks!)

- Ken

What one person thinks is kinky and abnormal is another person greatest pleasure. We all have fetishes and fantasy's and very from simple to complex. I believe as long as two or even more people have fun and excitement from what there doing concerning fetishes and sexual activity, lets place it in the sensual area. Life would be very boring if everyone did the same thing for sexual release.

I like the wise thought (and implicit generosity) of a famous filmmaker, who once told an interviewer, 'Everything's perverted in a different way!'

- Ken

How do you define Kinky? What is it that makes you kinky? Do you see yourself as kinky?

There are several definitions of Kinky:

1. showing or appealing to bizarre or deviant tastes

2.unusual, strange, and possibly exciting, especially in ways involving unusual sexual acts

I have my fetishes, my kinks and my desires. I do not consider myself kinky. Do you?

Everyone has kinks - desires, habits, and/or actions that the mainstream public sees as outside their norm. IMO, someone is seen as kinky when he takes those kinks public.

I keep mine private, so I'm not kinky.

I don't; rather use the dictionary meanings:

1 : closely twisted or curled

2 : relating to, having, or appealing to unconventional tastes especially in sex also : sexually deviant

3 : outlandish, far-out

Kinky: to like something before goes mainstream.

We are the avant-garde of sex people!

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Za

Well I define straight laced as oral anal and masturbation. Kinky is everything else.

Yes, I'm kinky. I know my mask medfet falls outside of what's currently considered vanilla. I also know footed pajamas are under the ABDL umbrella, not the vanilla umbrella. And maybe it's also middle or little clothing. I've never explored that.

I'm kinky. Not that there's anything wrong with that.

Kinky?

My husband likes for me to wear a real genuine girdle that your mother, or perhaps your grandmother wore. I own several, so no problem, keeps him chasing me around the house.

As far as kinks go, for today he likes me in yoga pants, tights and anything that shows my legs and hiney. At 50 I can still pull it off, so why not, keeps him horny and happy.

Marriage is all about fun, so why not.

Kinky: Using a feather

Perverse: Using the whole chicken

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Kinky: Using a feather

Perverse: Using the whole chicken

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LMFAO 😁

But what is a PERVERT? One or two of the women who have spanked me in the past, after they finished, they actually accused me of being a PERVERT (maybe because they thought i was into being verbally abused?), but I say NO, I am kinky.

But I've been in many straight relationships with chicks who just like to orgasm, by my dick rubbing her clit, then a bit deeper, maybe. To put this one to bed, if it's consensual, then the 2nd party is a PERVERT or KINKY too. Consenting adults etc.

You are not a pervert if all involved are consenting adults so you were being kinky. So unless they did that to humiliate you as part of their dominance over you they were out of line.

I think kinky is defined as something outside what is considered normal by most of society. I think if you are at zity you are KINKY. Sorry but it is what it is. You kinky devils!

I believe it is much as what was said about pornography; they didn't know how to describe it, but knew it when they saw it. Show me kinky...

Dan

I think kinky is defined as something outside what is considered normal by most of society. I think if you are at zity you are KINKY. Sorry but it is what it is. You kinky devils!

Man, I am so vanilla!

Sexy is when you use a feather on your lover. Kinky is when you use the whole chicken.

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Dammit someone got there first

Sexy is when you use a feather on your lover. Kinky is when you use the whole chicken.

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Dammit someone got there first

And kinkier is when you do the chicken? 😁

This may or may not have been posted already,

It's only kinky the first time you do it.

Quote by Edward A. Murphy about love, time

After that I think you are four more times away from being a pervert.

Kinky is when YOU do it. SEXY is when I do it. Same for perverted...

I know this is about kinky but have this. A prevert is a pervert in training. Was told that was me.🤓😵

Kinky shared is love 🌹 To me a pervert is a bad thing, I'll stick with kinky...

Kinky simply is that you're an person with special likes as compared to others. Just because your kinky you're no different than others. Everybody is kinky just some like us are very sexual with our likes. Remember "DIFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS". Thats why i like the members here. I feel at home where im not shunned for what i like. Peace fellow kinks!

Not straight laced

Lots of good sense in this thread - most recently, post #26 from Enema Lovin. Threads like the present ‘Kinky’ one are a reason why l value Zity so highly.

- Ken

@Moppys_jalopy said:

I think kinky is defined as something outside what is considered normal by most of society. I think if you are at zity you are KINKY. Sorry but it is what it is. You kinky devils!

That follows the Merriam Webster's definition….From a sexual connotation (versus a kink in your neck or a kinky wire) Kink is defined as “unconventional sexual taste or behavior” and Kinky is defined as “relating to, having, or appealing to unconventional tastes especially in sex also : sexually deviant”

What is “kinky" or unconventional to one person may or may not be kinky to another. It's relative to ones beliefs, upbringing etc. I don't consider oral sex, anal sex or rimjobs to be kinky - just pleasurable normal sex activities, but a lot of other topics here I do consider kinky. Others may think oral, anal Etc. Are kinky. Some people believe having sex with lights on is ”kinky". While members here are kinksters, what each of us think is kinky could vary a lot.

So just enjoy your kinks, or non-kinks, at what ever level you define them - and don't hurt anyone (too bad) or get hurt.

As far as kinky goes, I think that has to be defined between the 2 people involved in a relationship and what is acceptable to the both off them.

He likes a woman in a girdle, I wear a girdle. He likes to take nude pictures of a woman, I have no problem posing nude in front of a camera. Other kinks I will leave at the bedroom door.