Fetish Known To Providers?

I was wondering how you all would feel about you healthcare provider knowing about your stethoscope fetish.

For me; I see a nurse practitioner & on occasion Ive been auscultated shirtless by her. But for me; it would be embarrassing if she knew I was getting pleasure out of it & I'd feel awkward when going to see her.

DO NOT express your fetishes to health care providers.

It WILL become a permanent part of your record.

This topic is well discussed in other threads.

Susie, I would NEVER make it known to them. As I mentioned it would be embarrassing if they knew.

I think she wad addressing that to anybody reading/posting in the thread. Not you in particular.

I'd feel pretty weird about it. Especially if some random orderly found out. Or anybody who isn't trained to have a professional demeanor toward patients.

Duckbill, I understand. No offence taken Susie.

I’ve always been terrified before and during every physical that my racing heart, or my tense voice or perhaps even my body language can give the doctor a clue on my medfet. At the doctor's I am always nervous as hell, and the thought that they can somehow suspect something makes things even worse.

I’ve always been terrified before and during every physical that my racing heart, or my tense voice or perhaps even my body language can give the doctor a clue on my medfet. At the doctor's I am always nervous as hell, and the thought that they can somehow suspect something makes things even worse.

doctors make a lot of people nervous. When I am going in for a cardiac procedure I am always nervous. Being nervous won't give them a clue about your fetish. It is expected.

I’ve always been terrified before and during every physical that my racing heart, or my tense voice or perhaps even my body language can give the doctor a clue on my medfet. At the doctor's I am always nervous as hell, and the thought that they can somehow suspect something makes things even worse.

I know this feeling. Every time I go to a doctor, it's worse than the last. Sometimes I have to try so hard not to look at the stethoscope while they're trying to talk to me.

They always notice my racing, pounding heart, and my high blood pressure, but I'd be surprised if anyone ever connected it to medfet. They probably just think I'm super anxious.

Every time I go to a doctor, it's worse than the last.

Same here.

My doctor is a pretty redheaded lady, I like my yearly physical very much especially when she checks my private parts for any lumps, but the prostate exam is my favorite just love bending over the table waiting for hand to check my rectally, but I cannot show that I like it.

It's one thing to get your kicks by expecting to be sexually stimulated by your for real doctor doing for real stuff, a very different thing to tell your doctor about your kinks so that you can get questions answered or come to him or her for help if something should go wrong.

I'm my practice we see quite a few people with unusual sexual practices, some of which are quite extreme. They trust us, and we do our best to keep them safe.

We have pro Dom folks, slaves, submissive, med fet folks, sex workers. Quite a range. We protect their privacy. Our charting is a hybrid system, and information of this type is not part of the electronic part of the chart.

Sometimes you have to know who you can trust. Some of our members have seen me professionally, and can vouch for us.

Usually I agree with Suzie, but I think the answer is a lot more complicated than "don't tell your doctor anything about your kinks". Find the right doctor, then give them enough information to be able to take care of you.

Doc

Usually I agree with Suzie, but I think the answer is a lot more complicated than "don't tell your doctor anything about your kinks.

But how do you know what they chart or don't chart. How do you know if your doc is kink friendly. . I am with Susie on this. Mum is the word. Probably if I had a doc like you I might be more open, but how would I know?

Just a few words of good advice: Don’t ever do that. It will be recorded on your medical report to haunt you for the rest of your life.

@docinny45 said

Usually I agree with Suzie, but I think the answer is a lot more complicated than "don't tell your doctor anything about your kinks". Find the right doctor, then give them enough information to be able to take care of you.

Doc

You are a kink friendly doctor and I agree with what you just said. If you have a problem that needs treatment, be honest with your doctor so they can do their best to help you.

I'm pretty sure Doc doesn't put everything down in the patient's official record. There are probably a few pages on paper in a special folder in the chart that could "get lost" if the situation arose.

DON'T bring up your kinks simply for the purpose of having a friendly conversation.

I had to sign a release of medical information with my employer who could pass that info on to our government contractors. I didn’t even admit to drinking a couple of drinks per night.

@Plumber70 said

Screw the damn doctors. They don't need to know about my real lifestyle. . . .

When my doctors do my physical and they ask lifestyle questions that are really none of their business, I just give average vanilla answers. I lie. They ask about our marriage which is wonderful, but I say "it's ok," when they ask if there are guns in the house, I say no, despite having loaded guns within easy reach under our bed and in the living room. There are, in recent years lifestyle questions that they have no business asking. As my husband likes to say, an unloaded or locked up gun doesn't work. We do paintball, so we're used to shooting at people. It's a short stretch from paintballs to copper coated lead.

I just give them answers they want to hear and not raise any red flags.

@SwitchableSusie, that's great! However, I stopped kissing someones ass by becoming self-employed almost twenty seven years ago as of today. I don't need to answer anyone but myself.

When my doctors do my physical and they ask lifestyle questions,.

What odd things to ask. I think the only things doctors have me asked me about are smoking and drinking and sports. Never a single question about the rest of my lifestyle. Never even anything about my eating habits, though I suppose given my appearance it is ever so obvious I am not overweight ... ha ha.

that's great! However, I stopped kissing someones ass by becoming self-employed almost twenty seven years ago as of today. I don't need to answer anyone but myself.

I've been self employed my entire adult life except for my medical residency, first in engineering, then in private practice. The tone of your post sounds to me like you think the world is out to get you or something. You don't need to answer to me (or any other doctor for that matter), but if I'm actually going to be trying to help you I SERIOUSLY don't need your attitude.

Screw the damn doctors. They don't impress me.... Fuck it, fuck the doctors and the whole world. You only go once around the ride, so you might as well enjoy doing whatever while you're still alive to do it.

Good luck with that. I don't really care if you're impressed or not. If your chosen screen name reflects your occupation, understand that I can do plumbing, but I seriously doubt you can handle surgery.

All the best,

Doc.. Who is unimpressed by your being unimpressed

@docinny45, Congratulations! Yes, plumbing is one of the professions I do and I'm glad you can too. As far as surgery, I've done some on many whitetail deer and a few moose. One bull moose weighted approximately 1300 pounds before being field dressed. (official weight of 1180 pounds field dressed at game registration station) And yes, my reply was kind of harsh, but I'd also had too much to drink. So there was unnecessary, rude, nastiness of alcohol involved in the response. As far as doctors, I nothing against them. Peace and stay safe.

I have to give you credit if you can field dress a moose!

Warm regards,

Doc