My thoughts are: A one on one meeting with a healthy person, it's highly unlikely either of you will give each other a virus.
City areas, social distance efforts should be that much greater. If getting together in suburban or rural areas, know where your partner has been as far as social distance. If your partner is from a more urban area, maybe be better to avoid a meet up.
Have an idea if you've put yourself at risk or not by folks you've been around. And have an idea what your partner's social distance habits have been.
Don't necessarily shut down on one one one meets. Have the instinct to know if it's a safe idea or not, based on habits of one another.
I've had 2 play dates in the last week. It's highly unlikely either of us infected each other. I visited loners, and have had very limited interaction with folks myself.
How would you know if a person was healthy and not an asymptomatic carrier?
It isn't only who you meet, it's who the other person may have met and who they have met.
Llikewise, you may know your friend's social distance habits, but you won't know THEIR friend's social distance habits.
YES, SHUT DOWN ALL your meet-ups. Trusting you instincts is a good way to die, and I NEED less intelligent people to perform tasks that I cannot or prefer not to do.
Like all the song parodies say, STAY THE FUCK AT HOME.
Bi guys are probably the most dangerous of all in this climate because they will fuck anything.