Has Anyone Discovered That The Marital Status On A Profile Is Fake?

I have several times been contacted by males at his website, who desire a meet up with me, who have a profile that indicates that they are single. I have then learned through their messages or chatting with them that they are married and that their spouse does not know that they have meet ups with men for enemas and medical fetish activities. Has anyone else discovered that the marital status on a profile is fake?

Best reply was by someone here that said "many women at Zity, and some of them have vaginas". Someone else recently found out another member wasn't who they said they were. Unfortunately people lie and cheat, and some are great. Many people here are actually who they say they are, if your here to find someone just like anywhere else, you may have to kiss a few frogs. Good luck.

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Well said ?.

Can we please get this thread back on topic.

The question raised by the OP was -

... Has anyone else discovered that the marital status on a profile is fake?

Yes, I have. One of the biggest shortcomings of social media is that anyone can be anyone or anything they want to be. I think most here bend the truth a little on here to keep their identities private, but lying about things like marital status or gender is taking it too far!

Yes, it occurred to me later that perhaps she was referring to a post which had since been deleted. However, I stand by the remainder of my post.

I am a Widower. No one would want to be in this lonely status between the loss of your only real friend and your death.

I am a Widower. No one would want to be in this lonely status between the loss of your only real friend and your death.

Sorry for your loss. Hopefully you find the resolve to move on. Best wishes.

So far, I have not found that a listed marital status is fake. I HAVE found that if a marital status is NOT listed, the person is married.

I am who I say I am. This is the only place that knows the true me. I’m anonymous. Why lie?

WHO CARES if it is fake.

I'm married well over 25 years and until a couple of years ago, I purposely left that unanswered. Only recently have I filled in "married." I mentioned my husband and family often and never tried to meet anyone in person here, so what does it matter?

It all depends on what the intent is. If someone is on here for socializing, posting, information, it doesn't matter what they put down. If someone is on here to meet others or communicate by other media, then their marital status means everything.

WHO CARES if it is fake.

The only reason I can see, would be if you are interested in a relationship..

The only reason I can see, would be if you are interested in a relationship..

If one is already in a "relationship" you may have some sneaking around to do to keep away from the partner/spouse if you strike up anything.

For a married guy looking for a hookup he might pretend to be single to attract women who don’t want to get involved with a married man. When I was deployed I knew guys who took their wedding rings off when “bar-hunting “.

A guy in college told me he put on a fake wedding band when going bar hopping because married women on the hunt felt a married guy would be more discreet. He claimed it worked.

@SwitchableSusie said

WHO CARES if it is fake.

I'm married well over 25 years and until a couple of years ago, I purposely left that unanswered. Only recently have I filled in "married." I mentioned my husband and family often and never tried to meet anyone in person here, so what does it matter?

@sundaybrunch said

It all depends on what the intent is. If someone is on here for socializing, posting, information, it doesn't matter what they put down. If someone is on here to meet others or communicate by other media, then their marital status means everything.

A member might declare a married status with the intention of deterring unwanted approaches from others, or at least reduce them, but in practice it doesn't always have that effect. Members who don't look at profile information or don't care what it says if they do look, still sometimes make such approaches anyway.

Members who don't look at profile information or don't care what it says if they do look, still sometimes make such approaches anyway.

IF - and it is a BIG IF - I was looking I would definitely want to see their marital status. Especially if their spouse was named BUBBA. ?

I’m sure there are those who don’t care.

For a married guy looking for a hookup he might pretend to be single to attract women who don’t want to get involved with a married man. When I was deployed I knew guys who took their wedding rings off when “bar-hunting “.

A guy in college told me he put on a fake wedding band when going bar hopping because married women on the hunt felt a married guy would be more discreet. He claimed it worked.

That reminds one of the time my husband and I went to a bar in Cape Cod.

My husband and I were on vacation when we were in our mid thirties and we decided to have a little fun, so I wore one of my polished leather collars that has a few stainless steel rings attached and was locked on by a small but visible lock in the front when we went out to a bar.

I wasn't acting slutty, but flirtatious enough, seated by myself and dressed provocatively enough for a couple of men to try picking me up. One was pretty naive saying "that's an interesting necklace". I told him it's a collar. He said yeah, "that's really an interesting necklace". I said, "IT'S A COLLAR." He asked if he could buy me a drink and I told him it would be OK but that would be all unless he had the key to the lock. He said "you mean so you could remove the bulky necklace?" I said IT'S A COLLAR and my husband won't permit you to do anything more unless you have the key! I pointed to my husband and said you can ask him if you can have the key. Then he finally got it. He didn't ask my husband anything, but we finished our drinks together. The second guy was more hip, recognizing that it was a collar and he was hitting on me as my husband watched on.

No, I didn't do anything with either of them involving the removal of any clothing.

That reminds one of the time my husband and I went to a bar in Cape Cod.

My husband and I were on vacation when we were in our mid thirties and we decided to have a little fun, so I wore one of my polished leather collars that has a few stainless steel rings attached and was locked on by a small but visible lock in the front when we went out to a bar.

I wasn't acting slutty, but flirtatious enough, seated by myself and dressed provocatively enough for a couple of men to try picking me up.

You are deliciously nasty! ?

That reminds one of the time my husband and I went to a bar in Cape Cod.

That reminded me of this opening scene... (you can cut to 1:00)... 😜

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wX_osXUzv2c