I finally worked up courage when buying panties to tell the sales associate they are for me. The short is it went well, no judgement at all.I went to Lane Bryant to pick up an order and I also had a coupon for $10 off. So I told the SA “I am here to pick up an order and I also wanted to use a coupon I had to find some thongs in 22/24 I don’t already own.” She replies oh these are for you. I told her yes. And she went to showing me pairs they had. The manager came up to tell her something and then she joined in helping us find things I would like.I asked the manager if they get many guys in their store she said a few. She said most have some story about who they’re shopping for. But mentioned we have an idea it’s for them.The hardest part was saying i was shopping for myself. After that I felt welcomed and not judged.