Making chores Kinky?

My wife wanted me to get on my hands and knees with a tooth brush and clean the grout on our tile floor. I said ok as long as I do it nude with on a dog leash and take a picture so I can post online but she refused.

My wife wanted me to get on my hands and knees with a tooth brush and clean the grout on our tile floor. I said ok as long as I do it nude with on a dog leash and take a picture so I can post online but she refused.

So, did you end up cleaning the grout? Anyway?

No except for the occasional buttplug during some chores I've done. However, when I would play with my ex-wife switch Domme as her sub, she'd include all my kinks by dressing me in latex head to toe plus sneakers and then cuff me and fill me with one and later a second enema on top of the first. Mostly after that she'd just enjoy watching and listening to me struggle to hold it while she edged me and eventually made me give her orgasms. However, sometimes to get more aroused by asserting her dominance, she liked to make me get up and do some household chores like making and serving her fresh coffee, scrubbing the bathroom sinks and mopping the floor, all while I'm still dressed in the sweaty latex suit and hood still holding the enemas. Those were rather strenuous but deeply submissive evenings I'll never forget. I miss that.

Eric

@ericmacson

i am enthralled with your sneaker fetish! What started that, young age etc. ? You are an enigma, a good one. ?

@ericmacson

i am enthralled with your sneaker fetish! What started that, young age etc. ? You are a one of a kind gem. ?

Why, thank you! What a nice unexpected comment. Feel free if you like to expand on "enthralled." I tend to think of myself as more like one of a kind weirdo or OOAK oddity! In five years here, I've met certainly less than 5 and I think it's really only one or two people who ever had any erotic interest or arousal from what I do. I did almost accidentally discover a small group of sites aimed at standard sneaker heads to write in and discuss their collections, sales, prices, etc, all pretty benign. Later on I discovered more hidden sections of those same sites where you can go to view photos and video and openly discuss sneakers as an erotic interest.

Okay, you asked! See TLDR below if tired of reading. As usual with fetishes, though I find it fascinating, I can only speculate on its origin. I know I had what later turned out to be a profound rubber fetish no later than age 7-8. I can only peg it to that age because of a photo I won't forget that my mother took of me in my pajamas watching TV on my 8th birthday. I was watching Sea Hunt, a US black and white show about a former Navy diver working after the war as a commercial diver in southern CA during the 1960's. I always loved his neoprene rubber wetsuits and wanted to try one. Occasionally he'd have guest female divers on the show to help him on a project, and they'd always be clad in black shiny neoprene wetsuits, usually together with white canvas sneakers. I got REALLY attracted to those rubber-clad women divers but only discovered it was a sexual rubber fetish several years later as a teen.

So then knowing I already loved rubber, in middle school at 13-14 I started being exposed in close proximity to my very cute girl classmates wearing white canvas and rubber Keds sneakers a lot, either on the cheerleaders or for marching band, and I was immediately hooked. I suddenly loved watching those very pretty and athletic girls in their sneakers. Obviously it must have something to do with the way they looked on or off the girls' feet which I really can't explain further, but my strong suspicion was that I was also strongly attracted to the rubber that made up the soles and sides of the sneakers. I was wearing exactly the same sneakers myself, extremely common then, though more commonly on girls than boys. After I got attracted to the girls' shoes, I started wearing mine more often, too.

After that, with all the cheerleaders through middle and high school in Keds, my fetish just kept expanding to other brands and types like Converse and then started extending to running shoes when they became very prevalent in the 70's and 80's. The rest is history.

TLDR: 1. Early rubber fetish. 2. Lots of Keds sneakers on girls in middle and high school. 3. Hooked.

Eric

TY @ericmacson Always wonder what drives our fetishes. I got enemas as a kid but don’t want to blame my fetish on that. Claim I was just wired for it. Maybe it had more influence on my anal fetish than I admit. Mine goes both ways, top bottom.

TY @ericmacson Always wonder what drives our fetishes. I got enemas as a kid but don’t want to blame my fetish on that. Claim I was just wired for it. Maybe it had more influence on my anal fetish than I admit.

I think I was just hard wired for rubber, anal and enemas. I had a lot of plastic surgery as a young kid, but it's pure speculation as to whether all the rubber gloves and masks back then made me find rubber erotic. On the other hand, I received almost no enemas as a kid, maybe 2 or 3. I just enjoy them (rubber, sneakers, anal, enemas, bondage, D/s) now and use them to help my aging orgasms be stronger and easier. At 68 I don't worry about where they came from any more.

Eric

I tend to agree with gwhap in the fact that I believe that I too was automatically wired for anal play and enemas; and getting the latter in hospital when I was about 10 years old, just seemed to channel my emotional and physical needs/likes in that direction. I do feel that my thoughts and fantasies were going in that direction anyway, and that these feelings were being awakened quite naturally in me as puberty hit. I wonder if others feel the same way as I?

TY @ericmacson Always wonder what drives our fetishes. I got enemas as a kid but don’t want to blame my fetish on that. Claim I was just wired for it. Maybe it had more influence on my anal fetish than I admit. Mine goes both ways, top bottom.

gwhap,

I read your profile, and I'm very glad to see you're still so interested and active in your life including sex and enemas. And with your wife still with you you're a very lucky man.

Eric

All it takes to make ANY chore kinky is a properly sized butt plug!

Periodically i will wear a panty of my wife's choice doing laundry,dish washing, and carpet vacumming among other chores. She has put a sanitary pad in the panty on ocassion also with it coated with a squishy gooey content simulating a period i was encurring and it has been very arousing to me.

There have been times with this and a bra of her choice that i did a pedicure nail trim etc. for her. Often these are followed by my pleasures and reward of a temp. taking in bottom and bj or handjob climax.

Probably not particularly original, but when home alone and chores to do, I've enjoyed dressing whether it's just panties or a diaper or more fully dressing.

I like to use a butt plug at work. But my wife keeps me in a cage and cum in it .

I enjoy wearing a remote control egg whilst doing the ironing or hanging out the washing. The bending and stretching whilst hanging up the washing is great fun. I just wish I had someone to change the settings instead of me doing so. I think the unpredictability of when the rhytm changes would make it even more fun.

Doing chores around the house is always better with a large butt plug inserted stretching and filling my ass!!

I just like to be naked when I am doing my chores. Thats it.

Always enjoyed using remote eggs, dildos or plugs with my subs when in public. Glad to see you enjoy using. I'm sure you'd get very wet in public. You might even need latex pants to stop you wetting your clothes! Or maybe you'd like that from the embarrassment.

@The_Welsh_Man yes it would indeed add to my embarrassment to have my clothes damp with my juices. The thought if this and having to sit on a dark coloured plastic chair would really add to the experience. I know when I stand up there will be a damp patch. Than you as a dom pointing out the damp patch would turn my embarrassment into erotic humiliation. Making me even wetter.

I recently did cleaning with a butt plug in. It was gloriously obnoxious. My panties were soaked!

Yes, I have done things that are kinky while I clean house and do other chores around the house. Much of it depends on my mood on the day that I am doing the chores. For example, today was cleaning day for me and I thoroughly enjoyed running the vacuum and mopping the floors wearing nipple clips with no top on. I was also dressed below in my leggings, which hug me tightly. On another day, much like jinger, I might dress in my butt plug harness and just let it all hang out on the bottom while I clean. Yet another time, I might be in my pantie corset with a bra and nothing else. Thus far, no one has come to the door to interrupt me, but I expect that may happen some day.

I recently did cleaning with a butt plug in. It was gloriously obnoxious. My panties were soaked!

Now If your up for it and want an even bigger rush, the next time you go shopping go with the plug in. I do that a lot and love it!

I had a Pennsylvanian friend who was a retired RN and into receiving enemas. I too liked receiving. I had promised her that if i ever made it there i would clean her house in a French maid's outfit with an open ended enema bag around my neck to be refilled as it emptied and i only be allowed to expel upon completion of my housework.

Anyone in Colorado need a maid?

I will do chores and errands with a plug in making it a bit kinky,plugged and nude doing house work or just in an apron, cutting the lawn while plugged is another one I’ve done

I don'tsince I don't wear masks or footed pajamas, but if I had a GF, chore time would be lots of fun. She'd be wearing a mask to protect herself (likely N95 or cartridge respirator), which would appeal to my medfet. She also could stay in her footed pajamas, which would take care of my ABDL side. Perfect!

And now that we're in Nutcracker season, she could alternatively be wearing a Clara nightgown, with tights as it normal for Clara, and simple ballet slippers, or, more comfortably, those satin booties with the ribbons that you can get from ABDL stores. I really like those for some reason, even though my ABDL interests are quite confined.

Hair teased back in a big bow.

And then, of course, a mask to protect her. N95, cartridge respirator, simple white cone dust mask, or maybe a homemade covid mask, maybe out of satin to match the booties (I've seen several satin masks in the Nutcracker this year).

Ageplay does seem fun.

I will wear items that would be very humiliating if was ever caught wearing them; a bra to a female barber(?), panties to bed(wife would not approve!), buttplug at work, cock/ball rings to a meeting at work

Mine is mild compared to what others have wrote here. My wife and I are into ABDL. I am the Daddy and she is my baby girl. She surprised me one day after I got home from work. I walked in, greeted my dogs and she called me into the kitchen.

As I walked in, I got an immediate hard on by what she was wearing. She was washing dishes wearing her pink Pampers baby t-shirt (that barely covers her diapers). She had on 2 thick Attends disposables covered by her shiny clear pink plastic pants. She also was wearing a clear pink oversize plastic cobbler bib that doubled as a protective apron to keep her shirt dry.

One of the best days in recent times. Daddy rewarded his baby girl big time!

Attired in either a adult incontinence diaper or panty of her choice. Sometimes a sanitary pad with applied Vaseline for humiliation and period simulation is inserted into either of the two. Fretter

I had just got a new remote control inflatable vibrating butt plug. I had to go to a couple of local stores for a few things so I popped it in and when I got to the first store I turned it on. It had very strong vibrations and when I hit the inflate button I felt the small air pump come on and felt it fully expanding inside me. This was the first time I had it inside me so I didn't know whether or not it would stay inside my ass or if I would be easily able to control it once I turned it on. The grocery store was fairly crowed and when I was in the checkout line the person in front of me was someone I knew and started to talk to me. I had to carry out the conversion with the plug fully inflated and putting out very strong vibration. What a rush!! I'm pretty sure my little secret stayed intact and I don't think anyone could hear it vibrating but if it was a quieter area they may have. I'll have to try that out too.

I had just got a new remote control inflatable vibrating butt plug.

hrm...interested, @MikeNH - which one did you get? As it happens, I'm in the market for one....

hrm...interested, @MikeNH - which one did you get? As it happens, I'm in the market for one....

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08H2DK6QH/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1