When your partner is not in mood to fuck you

I’ve masturbated in front of my wife often over last 30 years. She encouraged me and enjoyed it. Ditto her. There were times when we both masturbated together (especially in the jacuzzi) or did it to each other.

@Dahiana Said:

@DrFn and @Sailing_Master I am totally looking at hardware and automotive stores in a whole different light. ?

We call all those special items that can be used in that very special way, "Pervertables "

Sailing Master: This is offtopic, but that's why I like slippers and hairbrushes.

Any suggestions on power tools for us guys? Since we such a creative group. ?

Check this video out and take your pick. Yup, it's porn.

https://xhamster.com/videos/mechanical-milking-overload-6604537

@Plumber70. That Jedi looks wonderful - but

@gwhap, video does show a variety of power tools being used. It's kind of extreme though and way more than I'd ever want. It was only a quick suggestion to give some ideas, and was also meant to be a joke.

@gwhap said:

Any suggestions on power tools for us guys? Since we such a creative group. ?

Well, buddy...I'm thinking a Flesh-light with a special custom fitting on the back of it that plugs into an 18 volt battery operated SAWZAL! You should buy lube by the gallon 😁 😁 ! Yee-Haw 😜 .

Sometimes people are just not in the mood. That's natural.

One girlfriend in particular was very considerate when she "couldnt" fuck or didn't want to, etc, and would turn over and offer her juicy little bottom to me. Not anal sex, but meaning she'd let me masturbate by rubbing my cock between her cheeks, sometimes slick from saliva and vaginal juices or if not I'd put some lotion in there, and coming there. That way she could just relax and lay there. I always loved the view and the tender sensation inside there. She said she enjoyed the feeling too.

Not sure I understand... hahahah She take care of me well and I the same.. However if one or the other is really horney and the other is tired.. We have an agreement to get the other off so the go to bed satisfied. Typically if she's not in the mood of just wants to get me off. She'll give me a blow job while she fingers my ass and the magic button. I never last long. Once in a blue moon she'll just tell me to masturbate on her.. but that typically back fires.. and she get horney and fucked.

If I'm tired I find the quickest way to get her off is to give her oral and finger her ass and clit .. It also works well when I'm teasing her during commercials. we call it the commercial game.. can you get the other off during a commercial..

My comment about getting an enema into one or both of us then fucking down in #4 below was quite real as my ex and I both loved enema fucking each other. My ex also seriously told me she wanted to help me masturbate myself whenever I wanted to do it since she loved handling and fucking and giving enemas to each other and unless I really wanted to just jack myself or couldn’t wait for her please call her every time I could. So like Susie said earlier, I did do myself a few times alone after that, but I was so taken by her request and desire I mostly had her come help and use enemas as often as we could. She was also VERY happy to include as many of our mutual kinks as we could most of the time, so we did a lot of very gorgeous fucking while dressed in beautiful erotic sweaty rubber and sneakers filled with enemas. She was a great lover. Just spectacular.

Eric🍑💦

She was so enthusiastic about both sex and our kinks and fetishes that even though like many men here I often lose interest in more sex or orgasms or kinks including enemas after I had an orgasm with her, that she could sometimes convince me to stay covered in my sweaty latex or rubber enclosing suit and hood and sneakers still full of the enema she made me hold to fuck me. Sometimes it took a lot of convincing.But when she did it was very intensely kinky and rubbery and sweaty and enema distended for me, and then she could just jump me any time later that night that the kinks made her want to fuck me again, often more than once. And sometimes I’d switch and make her stay all sweaty dressed in her fetish gear and jump her later. What a lover. Great memories.

Eric🍑💦

Well sometimes my bf cum before me and his cock become not hard and I need more fuck so he use his fingers to finger me or rub my pussy till I cum too and he never left me need more fuck he always make me cum

Well my husband is 20 years older than me and it sucks when sometimes he drops off to sleep before I make it out of the bathroom. I have a drawer full of toys beside my bed so if that does unfortunately happen, I can easily take care of myself. I'm not intentionally noisy or anything but there have been occasions when he's woken up before I finish 😉

She's always in the mood, I'm never lacking sex

Well my husband is 20 years older than me and it sucks when sometimes he drops off to sleep before I make it out of the bathroom. I have a drawer full of toys beside my bed so if that does unfortunately happen, I can easily take care of myself. I'm not intentionally noisy or anything but there have been occasions when he's woken up before I finish 😉

If I were your husband, I'd have a standing request to wake me up if you're in the mood for sex! if I woke up from hearing/smelling you, I'd probably join in!

OTOH, I'm ALWAYS in the mood for morning sex!

That sounds like my life. I've spent most of my life making love to my hand.

My partner never has sex with me its been alot most a year since we had sex so when I get a chance I use my toys when he is not around

My husband and I probably only have sexual intercourse once a month but as my sex drive is so much higher than his, I engage in some wonder full long masturbation sessions when I am on my own. I enjoy masturbationm as I can control, the point of orgasm until I want it (after about one and a hlf to two hours). Also, in my masturbation sessions, which are always very well planned, I can engage in my exploiting the lovely pain/pleassure balance before I let myself cummm.

That sounds like my life. I've spent most of my life making love to my hand.

A very nice comment, i would say !! - but your hand will be for ever an available, and also reliable " sexpartner " - when the time is coming !!

My partner never has sex with me its been alot most a year since we had sex so when I get a chance I use my toys when he is not around

Sorry to hear this !! - but why there is no intercourse between your partner and yourself ??

Well my husband is 20 years older than me and it sucks when sometimes he drops off to sleep before I make it out of the bathroom. I have a drawer full of toys beside my bed so if that does unfortunately happen, I can easily take care of myself. I'm not intentionally noisy or anything but there have been occasions when he's woken up before I finish 😉

Again sorry to hear this comment !! - but in this case, i would say " better doing by yourself, than nothing !!

Sorry to hear this !! - but why there is no intercourse between your partner and yourself ??

She doesn't seem interested and I got tired of the Missionary Position after a few years.

I hate hearing of all these ladies being ignored by the9ir husbands. My wife was just the opposite before we divorced. I was always wanting and having to get off next to her by hand. Have now been divorced for 14 years. Still have the hand, I'm 70 now. Still have the sex drive, just no way to satisfy it.

My partner never has sex with me its been alot most a year since we had sex so when I get a chance I use my toys when he is not around

I feel very pity to read that.

Maybe it's time to re-evaluate your relationship with him and go on?

Life is very short and you are missing all the enjoyment.

Good luck and let's hope for better times for you.

After 20 years of husband not being in the mood, I have found a few FWB!

Sad to hear that @Lily2011. You're too young to be lonely. 🌹

Good for you @Secret-sub. 🌹

It doesn't feel good to just be a "hole" to fuck. Anyone saying "just let them fuck you" has never been in that real situation of lacking sexual contact, sexual initiation, or interest in life. To have a lull or slow down, is not the same thing. A lull or slow down happens. Life and health can get in the way. But don't give up on your partner.

It doesn't feel good to just be a "hole" to fuck. Anyone saying "just let them fuck you" has never been in that real situation of lacking sexual contact, sexual initiation, or interest in life. To have a lull or slow down, is not the same thing. A lull or slow down happens. Life and health can get in the way. But don't give up on your partner.

@MissStress from your posts and the way you feel about your husband/sub I don't think you'd ever be considered just a "hole" to fuck. Sometimes I'm not totally in the mood but I know how he feels about me and I never "just let" him fuck me because we are married and I'm there for him.

@Dahiana he may not consider me "a hole", but I sometimes feel that way.

I know he needs things and try to do my best to fulfill them

@Dahiana he may not consider me "a hole", but I sometimes feel that way.

I know he needs things and try to do my best to fulfill them

@MissStress 🌹

If she not I the mood pull out cause I could fill it or if she says not mood I would self love. Even she say it's OK. I don't feel right do it. So I would just self love.