@bbw4doc yes I wear and use diapers, it's not a choice for me,unless you would prefer I use your carpet or floor ?
Just because I need diapers doesn't mean I smell,I am a real stickler on hygiene, sanitation and odor control, I don't want my house smelling like a stable or nursing home .most IC people use internal deodorants (taken by mouth), they are fairly pricey ,but can be the difference between offending and saying excuse me ,i need to go powder my nose or something benign that allows you to disengage from whatever your doing ,without saying "hey i just shit myself,i am going to have my aide change me " .
Even when I do shit myself you won't know ,I am harnessed into my wheelchair ,so not much air gets in or out of my rubber or plastic pants ,combined with internal deodorants few people have any idea of what's going on in my diaper,nor should they !
The whole purpose of a diaper is respect for other people ,it contains and controls what you can not ,including odor ,as long as you don't be an idiot, I know in a closed room ,I have 15- 20 minutes before an odor becomes an issue, in that time I am disengaging and heading to the bathroom to be changed . So dont assume everybody is stinking and proud of it ,some of us take it very seriously ,there is no excuse for burdening somebody else by being a pig or trying to hide behind ten gallons of perfume or cologne ( nothing can hide the smell of feces ,evolution of our olfactory capacity has taught us to detect that smell and avoid it) and no i am not "nose blind" I am actualy very sensitive to the smell .
I was once on a train where a baby had diarrhea ,mother changed it and tried to flush the diaper, naturally it over flowed the toilet , everybody else headed to other cars ,since there where no stations with elevated platforms or forklift the conductor had no choice but to leave me there ,to soak in the aroma ,it was not pleasant .I realize I am not a recreational diaper user ,so sitting in filth is objectional to me too,and unlike a person who doesn't consider the consequences of there actions , I actually take steps to mitigate any odor before someone would detect it .