Most enjoyment in your enema sessions...

What part of the enema process do you enjoy the most? If you have a partner, and that's part of the fun, include that. If it's insertion, discuss that. If the water or soapsuds or whatever going in, discuss that. Anything else, like feeling full, the pain, the desperation as you're forced to hold, if you are a sub, the control...

I've commented here on several threads about all the pleasant and favorite things about taking an enema, including much as OP just described, all the way from preparation to insertion, filling, etc. through to holding, orgasm and expulsion. It's all a great sensory and sexual experience. Especially with a trusted Domme partner forcing and guiding me through it all. I especially love large volumes held for long retentions. But just now, I think my favorite part just occurred to me.

Perhaps a bit harder to describe and variable in execution and duration, but possibly the best erotic thrill or satisfaction is actually having that trusted Domme partner, who I've been lucky enough to have IRL a few times in an ex-wife and exGFs. She was very good at giving me forced enemas in our consensual D/s sex times together, and mixing all my other kinks in with the enemas. We were both switches and she sometimes loved to switch roles and become my sub to let me give her enemas. All the usual sensory delights of an enema are wonderful, like insertion, inflation, filling, massaging, holding, and of course orgasm, etc., but perhaps the best part during any or all of those enema phases is feeling her have complete control over what I had to do for her to be submissive to her whims long and hard enough to earn an orgasm and then expulsion. It's a mixed thrill plus dread whenever she would tell me things like she'd do whatever she wanted to me, make me start the enema, or increase the flow, or feel a rush as she pumped the Higginson bulb into me, or make me hold it for so long, or just smile or laugh at me when she knew I was struggling to withstand something from her. The physical acts themselves were delightful of course but knowing I had to do as she demanded and watch her enjoy her dominance while knowing we were equals again after my ordeal, is really icing on the cake (and very thick delicious icing at that). Perhaps it meant that I drew immense satisfaction akin to love in her willingness to subject me to any and all my kinks intensely enough to give me satisfaction and finally orgasm, no matter how long or intensely it was. And when we switched occasionally, of course I would give her the long intense submissive enema/kink satisfaction she craved and loved as well.

All of this is accurate and true, but it feels like I haven't conveyed the real essence of it as well as possible. If I can find a better way to write or explain this, I'll try again later.

Eric

The clear return!

That's when I know I'm done! it's just a question of letting the rest come out, and any laxative wear off.

Success ALWAYS feels good!

I take a few minutes to look back on how hard it was THIS time, and then the recovery begins!

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To follow @LisaK ‘s point, there is nothing more satisfying to me than knowing that I have completed a successful series with the anticipated result. I am most at peace when I am putting away all of my equipment and playing back the entire session in my mind and completing what I had set out to accomplish. For many of us, this fetish is “in the closet”, and other than out Zity friends isn’t shared with the outside world. So playing back the desire, anticipation, coordination and successful filling and expelling to get to the anticipated result is what I enjoy most. As I place everything back into the box in the back of the closet, I get a tremendous sense of accomplishment and I feel a little lighter and able to face the day.

If it's me-time, I try to focus my mind inward and block everything else out. I guess you could call it an escape, but I've not thought of it that way. I think the enjoyment are the innermost feelings I experience during the enema (at least most of the time), and afterwards that the cleanse has been good for me physically and sometimes mentally as well. I know this sounds silly, but if I'm feeling yucky and overstressed, and if an enema helps me feel better and renewed, it's like giving my body a nice gift.

For me it depends on my mood or situation. During the experience the enjoyment factor can change during each successive stage of the enema. If I had to pick one particular thing it would probably the initial flow when I can feel the enema filling the me. Love that feeling of being violated in probably my most intimate/private place and being further violated by some liquid. I usually use a retention tube or plug and that adds to the excitement knowing that I have to hold it, that there will not be any relief until I am done. That initial flow lets me know 'I am on the way' so to speak. So definitely the best part for me.

At other times it can be the whole process. The anticipation, preparation (assembling items needed), the filling, retention and finally expulsion. That whole sequence is very enjoyable to me. When I was serving as a sub, the wait or anticipation of the enema gave me the most enjoyment. Not knowing what I was to put in the bag, who would be watching (sometimes open cam), how long I would have to hold, position and what was to follow. But I am solo now and the most enjoyable part for now is the initial flow.

Thanks for your replies so far. I enjoy asking these questions, and I'm delighted when I get your answers. When I've chatted with friends here, or read, I'm always interested in "how the recipient feels." I'm currently trying to put together my own answers to this question. It's not easy for me, which is one reason why I appreciate your responses so much.

Each aspect of an enema brings me enjoyment and pleasure.

The Equipment - Just the sight of enema equipment stimulates my senses. My mind races with the "what ifs" when looking at nozzles and the various tubes...how they might feel inside me and the invariable reactions my body would generate as they invade my private space.

The Solutions - While I occasionally indulge in a soapy enema (when a real cleansing is needed), most of the time I'm a salt/baking soda user. I like the non-urgent enema that allows me to relax and enjoy the "ride".

The Sensations - Every enema is unique insofar as the sensations they generate. But several are always present with every enema: the warmth of the solution as it flows into me; the resulting fullness that always "hurts so good"; and the tingle that is ever present in my special spot.

The Aftermath - Ending an enema session with a intense orgasm is the proverbial icing on the cake. The depth and intensity of an enema induced orgasm is one of life's true pleasures (not that orgasms without an enema are second rate). But there is something about an enema orgasm that sets it apart. And finally the cleansing: having that wonderfully light feeling after an enema series just does a world of good for the mind and body.

Whether playing solo or with hubby...these four basic aspects are ever present...the rest is simply a matter of mechanics!

Happy New Year!

Deb

@debgurl

I agree with everything except the solution. I love to start with a very, very strong Ivory soap enema. Seeing the suds topping the opening of the bag and oozing down the sides really flips my switch.

I kind of enjoy the ritual. It's calming but exciting at the same time. Laying out the gear. Filling the bag and hanging it up. Lubing and inserting the nozzle.

EnemaAndIvor: I love to start with a very, very strong Ivory soap enema. Seeing the suds topping the opening of the bag and oozing down the sides really flips my switch.

Agree 1000%... and adding to that I also like the scent of the red rubber bag as I take it out, getting it ready to be filled - it kind of says "your going to get an enema!"

For me the best part of any enema is when I am being told that its time for my enema if I am being given enema by other person/nurse . Then it would be getting naked/or simply removing clothes from the waist down, then tip insertion.

I find the lack of drama in an enema pretty enjoyable

When I do take an enema and get what I expect, some bloating and cramping on injection. Some cramping in retention. No real orgasm but "feels funny" in a good way in my lady parts, and spontaneous expulsion after about 15 minutes. 3-4 rounds to a clear return.

Bisacodyl kick in around the expulsion of the 3rd enema.

I consider that a pretty enjoyable enema session . Nothing too dramatic but the job gets done to conclusion.