Degrading remarks

Hello - more fantasy than factual but interested to know what degrading comments people have received/given/fantasized about? I - like a lot of women - am sensitive about my weight so, despite being in good shape, enjoy remarks around that subject. I think comments that are factual and impersonal can add to the feeling of being dehumanised as well which is usually hot for me. Would be interested to hear other opinions and ideas - I may later incorporate them into a story please feel free to request otherwise...

I - like a lot of women - am sensitive about my weight so, despite being in good shape, enjoy remarks around that subject.

Probably the most humiliating comment I had was when I was eight and carrying a little puppy fat which I was already a little self conscious about. At the doctors I was stripped down to my briefs in front of my mother and my big brother when I got onto the scales and the doc announced my weight and told my mother that I was a little overweight and the doc and my mother discussed it in front of me like I wasn't there about how she already knew I needed to lose weight, how much I needed to lose etc. When I got home to compound the embarrassment, my brother said to me "the doctor says you're a fatty Scott!".

I'm not a MedFetter except for my interest in enemas and occasionally doing exams for others who get aroused by them. So my only interest in degrading or threatening discussion would be from my Domme while she's giving me an enema with me as her sub. And it's almost exclusively threatening and dominant, not really degrading. She's told me that the more submissive I act and sound while she gives me an enema, the better it makes her arousal at being dominant and her orgasms. And I'm a switch so I thoroughly enjoy being submissive for her enemas. The embarrassment and humiliation from both the physical sensations as well as her threatening and occasionally degrading comments are a great arousing thrill. She gives me an ongoing narrative of what she's doing to me, making it as threatening, dominant and inevitable as possible. Sometimes she'll call me her little subbie enema girl (67+ man here) which I enjoy, but that's really the only degrading sort of thing she says. Everything else just reinforces how submissive I am. For example, I WILL take this much water and hold it for THIS long no matter how long it takes to get it into me and how distended I get, and she specifies exercises and submissive tasks I have to do while holding it, and how many orgasms I need to give her before I can empty out and take off my sweat-drenched rubber suit and sneakers. And how much she enjoys seeing me squirm as my belly gets filled and the noises I make to tell her how much I'm struggling to do her bidding. We both used to really love interacting that way. And of course the enema-induced orgasms were delightful. And occasionally we'd switch so she could enjoy the enema sub role.

Eric

@tre67 said

Hello - more fantasy than factual but interested to know what degrading comments people have received/given/fantasized about? I - like a lot of women - am sensitive about my weight so, despite being in good shape, enjoy remarks around that subject. I think comments that are factual and impersonal can add to the feeling of being dehumanised as well which is usually hot for me. Would be interested to hear other opinions and ideas - I may later incorporate them into a story please feel free to request otherwise...

As you stated, TRUE FACTUAL statements should NOT make you feel dehumanized.

If you find true factual statements that add to the feeling of being dehumanized are hot, and you like that, let me ask you this:

Are you fat?

If you are in good shape, which includes NOT being fat you really have no reason to be sensitive about your weight unless you are skinny and underweight.

Let me ask you this:

Are you fat?

If you are in good shape, which includes NOT being fat you really have no reason to be sensitive about your weight unless you are skinny and underweight.

Heya haha - no I'm not overweight :-) but I feel most women are conscious about some part of their body and, on the whole, want to be more slender. Yay for people that don't though!

Interesting that you say that true/factual statements shouldn't make you feel bad - I think sometimes being told hard truths that we ignore on a day to day basis can play an interesting role in humiliation and sub-play. We all carry around hang-ups and tapping into those can be hot.

My ex gf got told her "lips" (labia minora) were so big that it was difficult to insert the speculum to do her test.

My ex gf got told her "lips" (labia minora) were so big that it was difficult to insert the speculum to do her test.

BY WHOM?

Someone inserting a speculum for the first time?

I think it amounts to medical malpractice for a professional to suggest to a woman that there's something wrong with her because of the size of her labia minora. Cosmetic surgeons can't be that desperate for work.

@Silvfox said

I think it amounts to medical malpractice for a professional to suggest to a woman that there's something wrong with her because of the size of her labia minora. Cosmetic surgeons can't be that desperate for work.

Not even close.

Legally you're correct, it's certainly not malpractice. I just think it's unfortunate that women are made to feel less adequate because of body differences that make them feel they fall short of the ideal image.

Legally you're correct, it's certainly not malpractice. I just think it's unfortunate that women are made to feel less adequate because of body differences that make them feel they fall short of the ideal image.

Don't constrain that comment just to women. Same could be said for men. Small penis, big love handles, huge belly, double chin, big nose....... Lots of men (most) fall short of the ideal image. Most of us, are able to suck it up and be happy with what we've got. Why should a woman be offended if she is told she has large labia?

Really, do you think I could win a malpractice suit if a doc told me I had big earlobes??