When do you NEED an enema?

@ekid22 For me its the same way. It is so great to get totally flushed out inside. Not much can match the fresh feeling you get once you get clean inside. Plus there are great sensations for at least me. These sensations are the best for me nothing in the world feels this way for me... It all goes back to childhood for me... I felt this magic really young. I was only 5,, when it all started...

I NEED an enema when I wake up and feel bloated or backed up. Unfortunately, in my current living situation I’m unable to do enemas very frequently due to privacy concerns because of my roommates. I often fantasize that I will be able to live somewhere with a single enemate partner who will help clean me out whenever it is needed as soon as I feel ready.

When do I need an enema or when do I want an enema? Any time, all the time.

First,,, I'm enema dependent. I have no BM's without enemas. Medically my PCP ordered enemas 2 times per week, or daily if needed. Or come in and to procedure nurses quickly give them. My caregiver prefers daily, so...

It's normal for me to have a BM every 3 or 4 days. Much past that, and I NEED an enema. The rest of the time, it's WANT . . . and that's to clean the playground for some fun.

When i worked long days and stressful weeks, i would have a couple large enemas to relive my tension or stress. For me it worked everytime. Finally getting a great nights sleep. For the last 10 years I take an enema series once a month just for maintenance and hopefully keep my diverticulitis at bay. At 80 years old and not needing to take any medications, I think my enema plan helps!

Even at my age, approaching 60 this year, my body still experiences “cycles.” I’m pretty healthy, but I’m not at the top of my game every day. I’ve been through difficult times with my lower bowel, largely now under control.

Once in in a while I’m not feeling well. I tend to get bound up when I’m stressed, and if I’m not careful and taking care of myself, there are a lot of things to get stressed out about today. I get headaches and intestinal upsets. My husband says that I bottle up my feelings too much.

I recognize this is not the norm among women these days, but when I feel the physical need to give myself some quiet time, I read my favorite fiction and listen to my favorite classical music, and sometimes I will give myself an enema, maybe a series when I’m feeling the need for a more thorough cleanse. Is it also mental, of course it is! My older daughter once told me that I looked “happier” after an enema.

When I was a heavy drinker years ago, my liver was definitely paying the price! . A long story made short. My friend was a nurse who was very much into holistic procedures.

I talked to her about my drinking and my liver.

Her suggestion was for me to start on a regimen of coffee enemas to detoxify my liver.

She agreed to administer them. The first session (and I was still experiencing tenderness and soreness in my liver) was started and she brewed coffee and administered three of them.

Between retaining then releasing them, it made me tired.

She stayed with me for a few hours as I slept. I slept quite comfortably and on awakening, realized the soreness and tenderness had actually abated.

I still take or are administered coffee enemas every once in a while. Not because of drinking as I only have an “ occasional “ beer, but I find the enemas calming.

Growing up, I was given enemas when sick, or coming down with a cold. After leaving college and entering the Army, I went a few years without any enemas. Then I met my wife. After being married for about a year, we both noticed that when she was having her period, I would become constipated. My wife informed me that she would use an enema for relief from her period. Her mom taught her that. So the next time she was having her period , we gave each other an enema. It worked great. For the next 40 plus years we gave each other an enema once and sometimes twice a month. My wife passed away 9 years ago, and I have struggled with constipation up until 2 years ago. My girlfriend will assist in giving me an enema, when I get bloated or backed up. In fact tonight she is going to give me an enema. Thank you my dear girlfriend.

When do you NEED an enema?

Any time someone dominate wants to give it to me! (Sorry couldn't resist cheeky remark.)

Never had a problem with constipation or bowel issues, so I can’t remember ever “Needing” an enema for health or medical reasons. I only have had them as an adult for relaxation and erotic reasons.

Whenever I get the urge! Lately that seems to be quite often!

@Blackwolf said,

Then I met my wife. After being married for about a year, we both noticed that when she was having her period, I would become constipated. My wife informed me that she would use an enema for relief from her period. Her mom taught her that. So the next time she was having her period , we gave each other an enema. It worked great.

After I got married, it was somewhat like that for my wife and I. The primary difference being, we did enemas together from the get-go. Because the year before we were married, my fiancée shared an apartment with my sister and the two girls gave each other enemas during their monthly periods. During the enemas the girls shared with each other, they talked and my sister told my fiancée about our after school activities swapping enemas. So, once we were married, we simply continued the practice with each other with one exception. We were averaging enemas two or three time a week, unlike the previous year, when the girls were doing enemas during each others period which lasted for five to seven days each.

I have two reasons for an enema. The first is I’m constipated and need the help. The second is that I am enema horny and just want to be filled.

I have two reasons for an enema. The first is I’m constipated and need the help. The second is that I am enema horny and just want to be filled.

Never in my life was constipated !! - the second one is more than true !!

I follow the three day rule- three days without an adequate BM means an enema is necessary.

I can’t move my bowels without bag enemas. So I get them every 1-3 days. Besides making me poop, they make me get an huge amount of gas out, which is a big problem for me.

I have some health problems now so my Doctor ordered a Home Health Aide that comes to my house 3x a week. Soon after her arrival, she gives me hot, soapy water per my Drs. orders “enemas prn for bowel care”. Sometimes she slightly moves the nozzle around very deep in my rectum (it feels like it goes up to my sigmoid).

I have very productive BM’s with stomach aches and deep sexual feelings. There’s something about being full of hot, soapy water that makes me want to climax. I’m thinking that will happen one day during the enemas. I moan and “carry on” a lot and she rubs my stomach and tells me to breathe in and out deeply and to hold my enema. Then I use a bedside commode when I can’t stand it any longer. There is a glorious feeling while evacuating my bowels. She offers to stay with me while I expel it. She comments and I love it.

@Moms_Egirl home health aides have been great for me. It’s good that yours can give you enemas that you need, and I’m assuming similar to how you would administer them yourself. Does she give you more than one per visit or is it limited to one?

I had surgery, and took oxycodone. No poo for 2 days. I tried. Using nitrile gloves I could feel the poo pushing down my pelvic floor, and sticking a finger in the hole, I felt little round pellets of poo, hard. I had pre-ordered an enema set for this possibility. I filled the ‘hot water bottle’ with a little detergent and warm water. I stuck the tube in, but encountered resistance from the hard poo and no water flowed. I found the end plugged, cleaned it out. 2 more tries even with the vaginal tip had no flow. I next tried digging out the poo by hand, breaking up the pellets and getting some room. Three tries later, I got the water going. Half a bag felt quite full. I waited about 5 minutes. Mostly water came out, but some poo. Next time I got another half bag, with same results. Repeated 3 more times, finally getting a large result. Whew!

Next day, milk of magnesia to the rescue, along with a lot of fiber and Metamucil.

When I was a kid the only time I really "needed" an enema was when my Mom had given me a dose of laxative at bedtime and it didn't make me go as soon as I woke up the next morning. Then she would give me a glycerin suppository to "help it along" and if I still couldn't go she got out the enema bag and gave me a hot soapsuds enema. I didn't really think I needed a lot of the enemas she gave me, but she always gave one to me any day that I was home sick from school even though I usually wasn't constipated. This was on the advice of the family doctor who believed in keeping a child's bowels emptied out during an illness.

I had surgery, and took oxycodone. No poo for 2 days. I tried.

@bratwurst I had that issue too when I broke my arms, after the initial emergency room visit. I had my sub give me some warm water with a large fleet bottle, bent over the tub. It worked well for me to get things moving. If not, add another fleet bottle of water.

@Moms_Egirl How lucky were you! I’m curious as to how long she came to give you enemas and did y’all talk about enjoying your enemas? Did you offer to trade places with her?

@Bagme53 I’m assuming my Home Health Aide would give me as many enemas as I would need to clean out my bowels for “relief”. I told that I like the water almost hot and very soapy because they make my bowels work the best. The prescribing Doctors order says SSE PRN for relief of constipation. She uses hospital grade Castile soap and puts 3 packets in the large blue bag and shakes it up thoroughly. She clamps on and off when necessary, removes the tube and massages my belly all over. Then re-starts the enema. So far, she does a real good job with very pleasant feelings.

@Bagme53 I’m assuming my Home Health Aide would give me as many enemas as I would need to clean out my bowels for “relief”. I told that I like the water almost hot and very soapy because they make my bowels work the best. The prescribing Doctors order says SSE PRN for relief of constipation. She uses hospital grade Castile soap and puts 3 packets in the large blue bag and shakes it up thoroughly. She clamps on and off when necessary, removes the tube and massages my belly all over. Then re-starts the enema. So far, she does a real good job with very pleasant feelings.

@Moms_Egirl,

As usual I love your enema posts. How much does she know that you sexually enjoy them? Instead of waiting for one of the enemas to give you an orgasm, what do you think she would do if you started rubbing your clit during filling or holding in front of her? 😉

Eric🍑💦

I really need a series of enemas (with some “happy endings”) for health and relaxation🤪Unfortunately I don’t have any opportunities for that right now😵‍💫so I get to Zity myself until then😍

Obviously, yes, 'when the going gets a bit tough down below.'

However, I don't need a reason to have an enema. I just enjoy having them anytime!

Like some others here I don't use enemas for health reasons so need has more to do with need for sexual release.Sadly, self admin does nothing for me sexually so someone else has to be involved. Since enema partners are not a dime a dozen I have relied on 2 female sex workers lately; They live together in a committed relationship.One gets constipated a lot so her female partner gives her enemas frequently. Sometimes one of them will phone me about an upcomjng session and invite me to join in. Sometimes I do but they are sex workers so the invite comes with a price. In those sessions we take turns giving and receiving.Usually when it's my turn one of them gives it while the other gives me a BJ. The aspect I enjoy the most is when i give one of them an enema while they're making out with each other.HOT

I usually didn't really need a reason. That being said I always tried to rationalize why I needed one. Usually the reason is I have the house to myself and why not?

Lately though since I have been on Ozempic for almost two years, there are times I "really need an enema". My Dr. even agrees with me. When I told her I was managing the constipation with enemas, and described how bad the constipation is she simply said "well you get a little cleans out of then too". I was surprised I didn't get a lecture about MiraLAX or fiber supplements. She even put in her visit notes to use an enema every two weeks. Since then I have explained to her that an enema can be very inconvenient, so she has put me on Mag Oxide which is the most effective laxative I have ever had. However, when I get the chance I still like being cleaned out with a simple castile or ivory soap enema.

For health problems til today never, but in a sexual context more than more very welcome, when in a special mood !!

Don’t need an enema for health reasons - just a quick clean prior to using my plugs and prostate toys!