Enema Talk While Getting Enemas & Things Said Before The Enemas Begin....

Good Morning Everyone, Here is a question I am wondering about...What sorts of things are said between yourself and the person who is administering the enema or enemas , what sorts of talk do you share ?? Do you discuss the details of the enema ?? Do you talk about what you are feeling during it ?? Do you find yourself moaning and pleading for release ?? Do you ask the giver to be firm and strict with you ?? For me personally it is almost all of the above....I will usually meet the person or persons administering the enemas to me at my front door or totally nude in my living room with a small bath towel draped in front of me, and say something like " I am ready for this, thank you for understanding my need and helping me out with these enemas" ...I am always a bit embarrassed and somewhat humiliated by this, even with the fact that I have been given many enemas, I still get these feelings...With this. I will tell the giver I am going to my bedroom to get the towels laid out on my bed and will ask them to please fill the enema bag for me and I will go get myself all prepared for it....I will also say something like " Please, make sure I take everything in the bag, I will need it for a good and thorough clean out, and I want you to make me hold it, regardless of everything else , make certain I hold it in long enough to ensure everything gets loosened up in me, so that the enema works properly " ....At this stage, the giver usually takes on a more stern tone with me, and I always am in a total and complete submissive frame of mind ...As I lay on the spread out bath towels, waiting for whomever will be giving me the enemas , I hear the water in the kitchen faucet running , and when it stops is when my breath starts to quicken a bit and I feel my face flush , knowing what is about to happen is going to be something I must endure and I have no choice in what will be happening to me ....When I am laying on my side and glance over my shoulder and see the giver or givers holding the bulging bag and hose is when I feel my clit stiffen wildly, and my juices are really starting to flow..Then I hear the words " Ok Tammy, are you ready for this hot and soapy enema ? " , " Spread apart your cheeks a bit so we can get the nozzle all the way in you and get this started " ....Sometimes I am asked " How badly are you bound up ? " ..."Well , we will take care of this , you are going to be getting an enemas till clear session this morning, so plan on it , and we are not going to stop until you are expelling clear water " ....I both love and dread hearing this because I know whomever is giving me the enemas , means business and they are going to see it through....I will moan quite a bit during the enemas also and with almost every one of them, I will nearly plead the giver to stop and let me have a couple of breaks during the filling ...It's never for very long , but enough for me to let some of the intense cramping subside just a little ... I will mutter things like " Ok , I am ready for more, please make me take more, I know I need it , and I really do dread it , but force me to take every last drop " ...As the bag nears empty, I will also say things like " I am cramping bad, I gotta go --please let me go, ohhhhhhhh god, slow it down a little , ohhh, please , i need to go, and usually this will earn me more than a few sound whacks on my trembling bare bottom .....So does anyone here have anything like this to realte to my experiences like this ?? Or am I all alone in saying the things I have stated here ?? Please feel free to let me know your thoughts on this as I will be eager to read your replies and comments ...Thank you again everyone ... Hugs and be well always ...

When I was young in my early teens if I didn't feel, look, or act well, Mom would say in a caring way, "Toni what's wrong?"

I would always say, "nothing, just not feeling right, but I will be OK ."

Then again in a caring way Mom would say, "are you sure, you don't look well."

She would feel my forehead. ( if I was warm, well she would want to take a rectal temp) if I was not warm the question would come up, "what do you feel? Have you been going to the bathroom? When was the last time? Toni , do you think an enema will help?"

Of course my answer would be, "NO, please No! I'll be OK."

Well you know how that goes. I would be upstairs in my room, waiting for Mom to come in after fixing and mixing the water in the bag.

She would say, "you know I can't do this with your clothes on . Now come on, get ready before the water cools down."

I would blush and take my clothes off trying to cover as much as I can.

"Toni I changed your diapers and gave you baths. I know what you look like . Get over your embarrassment. You know you need this and it will make you feel better. Right."

"Yes, Mom." I would strip and lay on the bed. As she spread the lube on the nozzle she would say, "wow you have a nice behind, girls would love to have a bottom like that." She sometimes gave it a pat. "Okay, spread for me wide, you know."

The lubed finger would rub around then push into me.

"Relax," she would say.

"Yes Mom."

"You're not relaxed. I can see your cheeks are tense." A few loving taps on my bottom and then, "Okay looks like we are ready," and the nozzle would enter. I would moan.

"Come on Toni, you might not like the feeling but it doesn't hurt."

CLICK and the water would flow.

"Do you feel it Toni?"

"Yes Mom, it feels warm." I'd say.

"I am letting it go slow," she'd say.

As the water went in Mom would say, "Toni I have to raise the bag a little so it goes in faster or we will be here all day."

She would raise the bag, "is that OK Toni?"

"Yes, Mom."

Then I would feel the pressure. "STOP, PLEASE STOP." O

"Ok,Toni, I will lower the bag a little, you only took a quarter of the bag so far, you have to take more for it to work." She lowered the bag and continued to let it flow.

I would start to plead with her to stop. "Okay Toni, I will turn it off till the cramp passes." CLICK and it stopped.

As the cramp passed she would see me relax, "Toni you took a little less the half, I'm going to turn it on again." CLICK. The warm soapy water started to flow again. S

She raised and lowered the bag as It emptied, to make it easy on me.

"Mom I can't hold anymore please," I cried.

"Toni its almost over, about a cup full is left. I'll raise the bag so it finishes, come on, hold it."

She raised the bag, it shot in fast then there was the gurgle as the bag emptied.

"OK its done." She pulled the nozzle out of me. I started to get up. Mom said, "no, you lay there a few minutes so it will work better. Give it a little time." A

After a few minutes I could not hold it anymore, I got up running for the bathroom. She opened the door and asked if I felt better.

I said, "Yes Mom, thank you."

Sometimes when I am giving it will just be a little encouragement or asking how she is doing. Sometimes it is to just tell her to take a few deep breathes and sometimes we talk about what I am going to do next or how the wand is working while her enema is going in. We can also talk about the weather, soapy or not and how many swats she will get. Too much fun!

ELMW,

I'm a lot like you describe, though I don't have as many enema givers to choose from. I'm a straight male switch and love getting enemas pumped into me as a sub to my Domme partner. So we have a lot of mutual talk, narration and both dominant and submissive statements and questions which add a great deal to the usual physical enema sensations. She tells me a lot about what she'll make me do and how being dominant makes her orgasms better, and I do a lot of moaning, groaning, complaining and begging for leniency which she promptly ignores and makes me fill up and hold my enemas any way she likes. She usually indulges my other kinks at the same time, dressing me in a lot of rubber and sneakers and restraining me to make me feel as submissive as she likes to add to the submission from the enema.

Although sometimes I'm really feeling challenged by what she does to me, (huge volumes, long retentions, huge rectal balloon inflations, challenging solutions, heavy sweating, etc.) I secretly enjoy all the different things she does to me despite constant moaning and begging, in reality hoping she'll make it a memorable session with a very large, long held enema with my other kinks thrown in to make it even more submissive and erotic. Sound familiar? Delightful.

Eric

For me it would depend on who was administering the enema. If I role play with one person, I would act like a stubborn teen not wanting it and protesting. So after the person gets me undressed, I am taken over his knee and given a bare bottom spanking till my hiney is bright red. Then he would brig me into the bathroom, fill the sink with warm soapy water and proceed to fill four 8 oz enema bulbs, coat their nozzles, then put me over his knee, spread my tush and spread the Vaseline on my rosebud hole and push his finger all the way in to coat my rectum and bowels. After sliding his finger out he would insert the first nozzle and squeeze the bulb till the warm soapy water shot into my rectum and bowels. This happened three more times as I was continuing to protest and telling him to stop, of course he didn't. In between bulbs he gave my already red ass more color. Finally he was finished. I had to hold it for at least five minutes. Lots of cramping. I pleaded that I needed to go. When five minutes were up I was finally able to let it all out. Then I got for more with plain warm water for a rinse. So embarrassing.

All in all it still was a fun scene to do.

I recently posted basically under things said during an enema

Pretty much anything said during prep is done to insure privacy. I do all my own mixing and setup, so there is little need to vocalize during that part.

In my case, since ALL my enemas are self-administered most of it is not even verbalized or, if it is it is whispered, or, since there is no one else in ear shot spoken just above a whisper.

Only the involuntary sounds are anywhere close to fully vocalized.

I've kept the file so if you want I could post it again, but I don't really see the point.

Love this question. Angie, a home health nurse who gave me enemas in my early 20s shortly after Rob and I got married, told jokes about nurses and Texas to keep my mind off the cramps. When I was first felt twinges down there and was embarrassed when I let out a moan, she laughed "Darlin', it's normal, just enjoy and go with it." She said if I were ever giving enemas, keep the chatter going and reassure the patient and think of jokes.

Vicky V,

I have to say that if someone was giving me an enema and told me some of the extremely funny jokes I've read on here, I would be laughing so hard that I doubt I would be able to hold the water. It was hard reading them tonight and almost dying laughing, but doing it silently so my wife in the next room wouldn't hear me and ask what I was laughing at. She doesn't know about my being on ZITY.

I mostly self administer now but when I was married my wife gave me soap suds enemas. When I’d ask for them she’d want to know if it was to be for fun or therapeutic. Either way she’d come in whistling with the bulging bag. She’d command me to turn on my left side, swipe KY onto my anus and insert the nozzle. Then it would be “c’mon darling, breath deep, try to take some more.” When the inevitable cramps came I’d tell her and would stop for a moment. Frequently she’d hang the bag from an IV pole I appropriated from the hospital. Often she’d comfort me by stroking the inside of my buttock next to my anus. It was very intimate. When I’d start whining about having taken enough she’d murmur “just a little bit more.” She’d tell me how soapy it was and how it was going to clean me out. Finally, when the enema was finished she’d remove the nozzle and press a towel against my anus. Finally she’d release me and I’d dash to the toilet and explode. Usually I made her wear her nurses uniform. Good times.

I mostly self administer now but when I was married my wife gave me soap suds enemas. When I’d ask for them she’d want to know if it was to be for fun or therapeutic. Either way she’d come in whistling with the bulging bag. She’d command me to turn on my left side, swipe KY onto my anus and insert the nozzle. Then it would be “c’mon darling, breath deep, try to take some more.” When the inevitable cramps came I’d tell her and would stop for a moment. Frequently she’d hang the bag from an IV pole I appropriated from the hospital. Often she’d comfort me by stroking the inside of my buttock next to my anus. It was very intimate. When I’d start whining about having taken enough she’d murmur “just a little bit more.” She’d tell me how soapy it was and how it was going to clean me out. Finally, when the enema was finished she’d remove the nozzle and press a towel against my anus. Finally she’d release me and I’d dash to the toilet and explode. Usually I made her wear her nurses uniform. Good times.

Liquid,

Very similar with me with my switch ex wife or GF acting Domme to give me extremely submissive enemas. She'd talk me through it too but very dominantly so I'd feel as kept and submissive to her as possible which would then enhance her orgasms. Instead of a gentle "just a little bit more, dear," she'd phrase it like "you're getting all of this huge enema no matter how long it takes to pump it into you or how big you get, and then hold it until you do enough submissive chores and give me all my orgasms." Fortunately we both loved our D/s enema dynamic and had a wonderful time. I spent a lot of time saying to her "Oh, God, yes ma'am."

But that was just us, and Liquid I'm glad you enjoyed your partnered enemas the way you liked them too.

Eric

Loved your telling of your experience. my wife raises the bag high until i moan and then lowers and raises. always face down or in the diaper position which allows her to smile at me when it gets a little crampy. regards

My enema consists of my wife giving me a nice warm enema with an 8 ounce bulb syringe.

She will tell me that I should lie still and wait for the nozzle to fuck me.

She says can you feel the pressure yet.

I ask her to fuck me with the nozzle.

She says I am giving you a big hot soapy enema.

Do you want me to fuck you harder with the nozzle.

only 2 bulbs left are you ready to cum.

Do you love me as she squeezes the last bulb in.

I am usually lost for words as the cum flows out.

Will

Enema words are very powerful when heard as a child or said as parent or spouse. some that come to mind:

if you don't go to the bathroom you're getting an enema tonight

take deep breaths....almost done....little more....

plan on getting clean inside and out tonight.....what do you mean? you're getting an enema along with your shower

TIME FOR AN ENEMA! go in your room take off your clothes get your pillow and your duckie and come into the bathroom

get ready honey. where we going? get ready for an enema

she's miserable. she won't be! yeah...give her a crushed aspirin too

mommy wants me to give you an enema tonight

you're getting an enema one week from today to get you ready for vacation

do you want an enema before or after Thanksgiving dinner? both!

can you feel it going in?

now slowly count to 10 and the enema will stop and you can go

plan on getting cleaned out later

'nuff!!!

you want to be full or empty when i go down on you? full!

an enema has to hurt to work good

hold it!!! wait until you're on the toilet! while being carried from the enema table to the toilet

we were supposed to give these kids enemas tonight. well let's do it!

did you give her an enema today? no, i forgot. she really needs one too. well let's do it. ok you get it ready and i'll call her in and give it to her now before dinner

damn! what's the matter? all these kids need enemas tonight and our bag broke. don't worry i'll come down tonight with our and help you. now if someone else comes don't start without me. laughing she told her you don't want to miss it! mom blushed.

we gave 10 enemas last night! why didn't you call ME!

when you going to give me my enema?

oh man! first the dishes and now this! when you going to do it? said with a slight smile

I'm READY!!!

now hold still and push out....good girl!

I love this question!

I enjoy verbalizing during an enema. When I am giving I enjoy giving encouragement / instructions in a low soothing manner. Really seems to help my receiver take the bag.

My wife gives fantastic enemas, but is not verbal. I wish she was. Been begging her to read zity, watch enema videos, etc with no luck. I usually end up talking to myself during the enema to keep grounded.

My favorite e-playmate is really great at verbalizing. Both the ones from her and my wife are awesome and different.

I am more of a moaner. It lets the other woman giving it to me that she is doing good. Not much talk. I may say stop and wait a minute when I have a cramp and then say okay. If I am on my back I have been known to say swing around so I can lick you also. But that's about it.

I am loving reading these replies, because never having experienced a REAL enema, being administered by someone, I have yet to really know what kind of talk going on... BUTT, I do so look forward to it happening...

I love to be told that I am getting an enema and encouraged as I am being given the enema. Such as:

I think you need a nice big enema tonight, but first come bend over my lap for a spanking.

If you don't take the whole bag, we will have to start over until you can hold the entire thing.

Naughty girls who like to have their asses fucked need to be all cleaned out. Go take off all your clothes and get the big towels.

Now, you need to hold that for 5 minutes. I think a spanking will help take your mind off the cramps.

I find a man who can talk about what he wants to do while making love to be incredibly sexy. Same goes for enema play. After all the mind is the most.powerful sex organ. Turn on my brain first and I will be dripping wet!

I, too, like to be encouraged to take the enema that I am being given. However, that has not been the case since I was a child. My Mother, bless her soul, would always talk to me throughout the time that my enema was being given. She would encourage me to take my water and while she was doing so, she would also lightly rub my back and message my belly as the enema filled me. Oh, how I miss those enemas. My lovely wife seems to not mind giving me an enema, but she absolutely refuses to rub me or encourage me while I take them. I, often think that will change but it hasn't in some 40 years. Goodness sakes... I can only dream!

I'm a "talker" whether I'm flying solo or hubby is helping me.

During a solo session I'll verbalize what I'm feeling to the four walls of our bathroom as the enema courses through my gut and my special spot starts to tingle. Such phrases as "It feels so good", "Take it girl", "I'm loving this enema" as well as others reverberate off the walls as I enter into enema bliss.

When hubby is my administrator, many of the same phrases are uttered in addition to my suggestions on nozzle movement and subtle suggestions as to where I'd love to feel his fingers!

Every enema is an adventure...and verbal adventures only enhance the experience.

Have fun and play safe.

Deb

Erotic enema talk has always enhanced the experience for me. Being asked by my wife if I was constipated and did I want her to give me an enema, and then asked repeatedly if the enema feels good while being filled and stroked is just one fine example.

My beloved colon hydrotherapist is my muse and confidant. We discuss everything and anything while she flushes me. During a "fill" she will encourage me and if she feels that I am starting to cramp will tell me to "breath it away" while she massages my belly. Then when she allows me to release she comments on the quality of what she is seeing. 💩. Thank you so much Sue.

During a solo session I'll verbalize what I'm feeling to the four walls of our bathroom as the enema courses through my gut and my special spot starts to tingle. Such phrases as "It feels so good", "Take it girl", "I'm loving this enema" as well as others reverberate off the walls as I enter into enema bliss.

I find myself doing the same things - I call it role-playing with myself where it's like I'm both the giver and taker at the same time.

Sending thanks to that Aussie lady who appreciated my post. So fortunate to have the "twinkly granny" administer my colonics. She appears soooo straight laced and professional, but this is actually one hell of a naughty lady.

I'm a "talker" whether I'm flying solo or hubby is helping me.

During a solo session I'll verbalize what I'm feeling to the four walls of our bathroom as the enema courses through my gut and my special spot starts to tingle. Such phrases as "It feels so good", "Take it girl", "I'm loving this enema" as well as others reverberate off the walls as I enter into enema bliss.

When hubby is my administrator, many of the same phrases are uttered in addition to my suggestions on nozzle movement and subtle suggestions as to where I'd love to feel his fingers!

Every enema is an adventure...and verbal adventures only enhance the experience.

Have fun and play safe.

Deb

I find myself doing the same things - I call it role-playing with myself where it's like I'm both the giver and taker at the same time.

Very similar for me just like debgurl and reddevil described it above. I've been doing these enemas solo since my divorce about 10 years ago when my switch ex-wife Domme would be doing it to me. During our D/s enema evenings during most of which I'd be the sub, roleplaying with my Domme wife. We were both very vocal in our roles and while she was narrating, teasing and reminding me of who was in control of my bowels, I'd do a great deal of moaning, groaning, complaining and begging which she of course would promptly ignore, often after laughing at my suggestions and telling me how much more she was going to make me do. We both really enjoyed both the enema as well as the embarrassment and humiliation I felt with all our conversation.

Since I've been solo, I still do most of my enemas D/s, just adding in a fantasy Domme and both imagining as well as actually physically speaking what we were saying. Like the others I quoted above,

Eric

This morning started off with my roomie and I deciding that since we both had the day off, it would be an ideal day to just casually stroll about the house and not even bother getting dressed and of course, she jumped at the chance to give my swaying full thick bottom some attention that I was needing and honestly, wanted... I get so very turned on when she thinks what I am thinking and put s those thoughts into action.... I told her last night I was bound up and she knew where I was heading with that remark, so she said to me " In the morning, we will get that issue resolved, and I think I might be after some of the same, enemas, suppositories and maybe even some spanking thrown in for you Tammy, you allowed yourself to get bound up again and I am going to give you something to remember so you dont allow this to happen again " ... Well suffice to to say--she most certainly did ... I had to go face down on my bed and bottom up high in the air, and she gave me 45 very hard and sound strokes with her leather belt and she meant business !!! I had to stay in place for every damned one of them !!! My poor bottom is on fire and if that was not enough, she inserted 4 glycerin suppositories and made me take 3.8 quarts of very warm, soapy solution... I was forced to hold it all in for not a second less than 20 full minutes, and had to stand near my front bay window, with the hose and nozzle left in me, bag hung on the curtain rod with my well spanked and reddened bottom facing the street , so anyone and every one could see my predicament ....I stood there , trembling, cramping and needing to go like you cant even imagine and as I was, she announced " This is only your first enema sweety, you have many more to go until I feel you are completely cleaned out good , and you are going to get these enemas like it or not , is this clearly understood ? " ....So currerntly, she is giving me a small break and I am about to be given my 2nd very large enema of the series and not too sure how many more will follow, but I can tell you this, she is in that very dominant and stern frame of mind this morning and she means business with all of this...Well, she just walked past me and said I need to get ready for my next enema, as she is going to go fill the bag again and get it ready for my next clean out... I will try to get back here again, but not too sure how intense this will become, all I know is that I am really in for it today and she intends on flushing me out totally.... Talk to you soon everyone, love and hugs !! Tammy

I had to go face down on my bed and bottom up high in the air, and she gave me 45 very hard and sound strokes with her leather belt and she meant business !!! I had to stay in place for every damned one of them !!! My poor bottom is on fire and if that was not enough, she inserted 4 glycerin suppositories and made me take 3.8 quarts of very warm, soapy solution... I was forced to hold it all in for not a second less than 20 full minutes,

Poor @Enema_loving_mature_woman. Such a mean roommate. I hope she used a double balloon nozzle or a 36" colon tube to make you more comfortable during your long ordeal. Did she at least let you orgasm. I hear that would help. 🌹

This is another real good topic to post and the replies are interesting. I am the enema giver (mostly) in our relationship and we both enjoy sodomy over vaginal sex every time. But sometimes I will lube her bottom and decide that an enema is needed because she is a naughty little constipated girl. I am very verbal with it so when I march her to the bathroom, she has to hold the enemas out in front of her while i tell her in minute detail why she needs this and it is for her own brattish good.

I run water into the sink and lather it up while she watches and I continue to berate her for her costive bowels and her lazy attitude toward inner cleanliness. Then it is time for her lubing, the filling of the bulb enema and instructions on bending over and standing with legs apart. lots of admonishment for not doing it right. The back must be bowed and anus pouted, then I administer the enema.

All the time I am telling her to take it nice and deep, I describe the squeezing of the bulb and ask if she can feel the jet of warm soapy water spurting into her constipated bowels. Then she is made to evacuate on the toilet in front of me in the most humiliating way while I kneel down and look at her face to face ,up front and very, very personal. Then she gets a higginson enema in a similar way, then marched off to the bedroom.

We make a full game of it. The enema experience is far more than just a cleaning out, it is a cerebral experience for me and for her it makes our anal sex so much more comfortable for, plus I give her a token $20 for enduring the procedure which means she must then beg for her enema and she is then technically my paid little trollop to do as she is told.

So it is a win win all round, and it is just plain good fun. We are both in our 70's, so don't lose hope out there. We keep trim and active, we both have a good sense of humour and see the light side in everything, so a wonderful fun thing to be doing at this stage of life..

The first hospital enema I recieved was done the night before a tonsilectomy. I think I was 9 or 10. Up to that pint I had only had small bulb enemas, but a friend told me what a large volume bag enema was like. The nurse came to my room and said come with me little boy. I followed her to a large treatment area/bathroom, where she said "I'm going to give you an enema now, have you ever had one before?" I said yes and I noticed she had a porcelin irrigator filled with soapy water. She tole me to ake my panties off and lay in a large bathtub on my stomach where she had placed sometowels. She started to hum and I heard russeling paper (probably unwrapping an autoclaved rectal tube). Next she said "take a real deep breath and hold it". I felt her part my cheeks and a rather rough insertion and a pronounced click witht he sound of air entering my bowels from the hose and a large volume of warm soapy water. Since my friend had told me that his mother used to make him hold his breath until the nema was over, I thought that is what this was going to be. I continued to hol my breath and felt the huge volume of water continuing to fill me, expecting her to say "that's it you can go to the bathroom now". Instead she started a conversation about my family, including number of siblings and ages. This gave me permission to breath and the enema continued. The conversation completely distracted me from the cramps and large volume which was going in. Suddenly when I was in the middle of my story, she said "let me know when you have to go potty." I said I have to go now, recognizing my need to poop, she probably had at least a quart in my small body. The rectal tube was removed and I was allowed to use on of the many stalls in the treatment room. Before entering she said "don't flush the toilet."

I had never had a large enema before and after the initial rush I thought I was done, just like the bulb enemas. I returned to my room, and soon had a large usrge to go back to the bathroom. While I sat there I wonderred if I should now flush the toilet.

I have always wonderred if part of nursing protocol is to distrct the patient with conversation unrelated to the enema in order to give a more complete enema.

My play partner & I don’t talk about anything specific when he was giving me my enema. I just lay there thinking how amazing it feels when he is behind me looking at my ass so open & vulnerable. He inserts it deep into my rectum then releases the warm water 💦🍑😈

I love an enema where I can fully be submissive and vulnerable knowing that my giver will be gentle and caring but at the same time willing to spank my bottom for misbehaving .

I love it when my giver tells me I’m getting an enema or series of enemas and when they tell me that I know I need this treatment Its also humiliating yet exciting having to admit that I need the enema

I’m a moaner so I don’t really speak much during the enema except for maybe a “please slow down” or “ I really need to go” throughout the treatment.

I really love when my giver and others who may be present encourages me by saying things like “you’re almost there” and “you’re taking this like a good little boy” or “ just relax and breathe”.

Being put in a diaper and a onesie is sometimes an added bonus as well 😳