Let's see if this helps any , My Late mother set me up on a one way blind date( she told the woman all about me including my IC ,when the time came ,that we stopped making googly eyes and decided to go further ,she had laid towels down on her bed ,and removed my clothes and diaper ,and said whatever happens, no worries,that's what towels are for . I can say being IC for 27+ years ,it doesn't bother most adults , I was still able to walk then ,so once she stripped me we took a shower together ,with lots of soap suds foreplay , that was incidently the best sex i ever had and the best Christmas eve i can remember .we thought we were being naughty ,at breakfast the next morning my mom commented " look guys your constant googly eyes is adorable , if you want my blessing ,you have it " we replied in chorus too late . That was my moms last christmas on earth ,she died just over a month later from breast cancer at age 73 . Those are such special memories ,it makes me cry .
Let's face it any man who can't handle a diaper ,doesn't deserve you anyway ,it's better to know that sooner rather than later ,diapers for us are accomadating a disability ,just like glasses,hearing aids, crutches ,canes wheelchairs etc . There is zero shame in being human ,and being honest about it ,shows our level of maturity ,imagine needing glasses but not wearing them on dates because you worried what your date would think ? It will speak volumes about your dates maturity ,when you tell them ,if they say so what ? Or how does that effect you and talks about ,your good to go ,if they try and avoid the subject or just let's it drop , last date for them . Women time and again have told me ," your strange for a guy ,you actually pay attention and it matters to you when my lips move " . You deserve nothing less !
Happy hunting ,may you get a trophy buck .
And welcome to Zity,dont be shy ,we dont bite (often) !