I came out and admitted I like enemas.

I did not tell anyone I liked them until I was 39 and that was a dominatrix that I found an ad which mentioned " mommy, teacher, nurse " and I called and asked what was included in the "nurse"... she said "enemas" and I said that's what I am looking for. It felt so strange to actually hear myself discussing the topic after keeping it to myself for 35 years.

I may not have been lucky to have someone who understood my enemas for over 20 or 25 years, but that seems like a long time ago. Not only do I have a fantastic wife who cared enough to listen to me, or curious enough, to find out what was on my mind, she understands. I don't think she ever thought enemas could be sexy but she was right there trying to understand and get me to at least talk to her about them.

It scared me to even admit that I liked anything in my rectum but when she didn't act shocked or disgusted when I reluctantly talked about it with her. It really wasn't like I had any choice as to whether or not I was going to open up and talk because she knew she was on to something and wasn't going to let it go until she had it figured out. There's some comedian or skit somewhere that had the woman getting into someones face and telling them, "I'm not going to be ignored." That's my wife.

She can be intimidating when she is on some mission to find something out and I finally told her that if I was going to spill my guts that she had better show me she wanted to know. She jumped back at me and said, "Name it." I threw out there something I thought she would balk at, "I want a blow job." We didn't do a lot of oral sex and she wasn't real familiar with how to do it. I remember her looking me in my eyes and seeing if I meant it or if I was just trying to put her off. Really, I was hoping to keep my secret, or what was left of it. But that girl and that look in her eyes, and I knew I was cooked.

She told me that I'd better be serious and not bullshitting her and was getting ready to "do the deed". I totally believed that she would go down on me right then and there but this was real. A first "real" full blow job has to be done right and the woman doing the work had to know what to expect. I love this little meat axe and I didn't want our first real blow job to turn her off or make her puke. She was ready to follow through with her promise and I believed her and that bought her a lot of points. I don't think she was trying to play me but I think she meant it. I later found out she did, but that will be for later.

So I began to tell her what it was that I liked about "them" or "that" or "it", anything to keep from saying "enema" or "anal" or liking things in my ass. She listened. Just not patiently. She coaxed the words out of me with her soft and gentle way of speaking softly to me, "Just come right out and say what the fuck you mean! If I'm going to give you a blow job, I'd better have it straight with no shit and no sugar." Who can resist such sweetness and how she used terms her own mother used?

The word "enema" was a little foreign to her and it took her a little time to get used to it coming out of my mouth, but it got easier the more I saw that she was really listening to me and not judging me. She is one to ask a lot of questions if she doesn't understand something or wants to get it straight in her head. But a hand over her mouth and telling her to keep quiet while I'm talking, well that works. As long as you keep your hand over her mouth. And she doesn't bite.

We started that conversation near bed time and the kids were already in bed. It was like she was doing a strip tease to keep me talking but she denies it. I didn't buy that but I was smart enough to keep my suspicions to myself. The door had been opened. Not gently. My wife doesn't work like that. C-4 would have been a lot easier and less direct.

But that is when it really started. Now coming here, this is going to put it over the top.

@Silent said, "And she doesn't bite."

Your hand or your cock? 😁 😈

@Silent said, "We started that conversation near bed time and the kids were already in bed. It was like she was doing a strip tease to keep me talking but she denies it. I didn't buy that but I was smart enough to keep my suspicions to myself. The door had been opened. Not gently. My wife doesn't work like that. C-4 would have been a lot easier and less direct."

You have to admit that enemas aren't something everyone talks about or thinks are erotic or sexy. There are a lot of people who will mention enemas only as some aid to having anal sex. They don't discuss or even explore the possibility that enemas can be erotic and do more than clean out your ass so you can have a cock slid into it. I think they are either too afraid or ashamed to admit that enemas are part of a way to make anal sex more than just a cock in an ass.

But I get it that telling someone you like enemas is a big deal. It takes courage to tell someone you care about and that you don't want to scare, that you have these desires or needs. The anal sex and the oral sex are also not the "norm" but maybe it should be that the government and the fucking churches should keep out of two consenting adult's bed and go about shaking them down for more money.

It's good that you had the balls to open up and say what was on your mind and in your heart. 🌹 Hopefully it will only get a whole lot more kinky and open from now on. 🌹 😈 You took a chance in telling and you have balls. 🌹

So which is it @Silent? In this thread you said she doesn't bite. But in this thread;

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1041179

@Silent whimpered, "We are going to be doing this some more, but she sure as hell isn't going to go anywhere near my nipples with her teeth."

Are you afraid of a little nip? 😁 😁 😁

So which is it @Silent? In this thread you said she doesn't bite. But in this thread;Are you afraid of a little nip? 😁 😁 😁

No ma'am I am not. I just don't want to be known as "Nippleless Ned" or "One Nut Norton" if she loses control while using her teeth.

No ma'am I am not. I just don't want to be known as "Nippleless Ned" or "One Nut Norton" if she loses control while using her teeth.

You don't sound very adventurous. 😢

I am blown away by some of the women here and what they have written, totally blown away.

There is this book (?) written by @Lora_C that I found here,

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=docs;ox=showitem;id=11668

and this one from @gibby,

https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=docs;ox=showitem;id=11669

I have just discovered this section after a couple of women on my friends list liked a few of the entries in the books. As it turns out, the book by @gibby was about her first woman, Gail, and then @gibby then, later, shows @Lora_C what it is like to be with another woman. I'm not done reading either one of the books yet, but they blow my mind completely away.

I've also delved into some links given to me by a lady here that is like following a spiderweb or a root. I read one of her posts and that leads me to another and then another and I learn a little more with each post. This lady has been around for a while and has tons of posts but I won't say her name to protect the innocent. She doesn't sound innocent.

This zity.biz is not what I expected at all, not even close to what I thought it would be. The pictures are good, but I think I am finding out that reading is a lot more arousing than I first thought.

I have looked into some of these just recently myself and they are excellent reads. 🌹 I see that there are other authors that I want to explore as well.

You are right @Silent there is more to zity.biz than meets the eye. 😉

I've said this before, but I can sure tell that I may have found the right girl to have for a wife by some of the things I have read here. I would have been tempted to say something like, "All you have to do is talk to each other and tell each other what it is you like to do or want to try. It will all work out."

And I'm not the guy with the answers or even close to having the answers. If my wife hadn't been so pushy and had a personality that was more laid back, I don't think I would have found this place and I would still be doing enemas out in my office in the shop in my garage in secret. Not every woman is like her and not every guy is like me and how she is wouldn't work with a lot of guys here. I do have a clue though as to why people get married and stay married even if it isn't working all that great for them. I'm old enough to know about some of that but I also know enough that there is a lot more I don't know or understand.

I got lucky with my little honey-badger wife 🌹 (that's there so she knows I mean that in a good way) but we've known each other since at least 3rd grade. But I always felt, and I don't think that far off, that enemas are one taboo topic for most of the people out there and I don't blame anyone, mostly guys, for not saying anything about them. I have to wonder if there are wives out there like my wife who really want to know, but are afraid to ask or press their husbands for answers? And even if they did would their husbands have the balls to tell them the whole story?

All I know is that I'm glad it's out there that I like enemas and doing some kinky "medfet" stuff with my wife. It only took 25 years.

We really didn't say a whole lot just a little bit ago when I saw her over at the house and running it to probably get something she had forgotten. I was waiting for a part that I needed and I went over to the house just to check in with her to see how her day was going. The house is really quiet when the kids aren't there and she was by the back kitchen door when I walked in, probably enjoying the quiet house too. I didn't say anything and she didn't say anything, at least not with words. And there was a conversation we have been having and we held each other and the way she was in my arms told me that she had a little time and that way she pushes herself against me let me know it was there for the taking.

We were in the kitchen and there was the table and we took our pants down just enough where both of us could get what we wanted. I love her ass and when she bent over and I stepped in behind her it is something I love to see. Nothing hurried and we had silently made a pact to keep the quiet times going and just enjoy shutting the world out for a few. Already she was starting to shake a little and the goosebumps when I started into her pussy from behind. I put my hand in her hair and pulled her head back a little as I reached down and in front of her so her pussy wouldn't be on the hard edge of the table. That was a good move on my part and she found her sweet spot on my middle knuckle and getting hers before I was even balls deep inside. She feels so good inside and there is a lot going on with her that I don't really understand but it feels good. It's like she has fingers or a ring or something up there that just does what it does to my cock and right then she was in control of it and getting hers while I was enjoying the feeling.

It wasn't going to be a wild ride, we both knew that and wanted it that way, it was just a "bonus" for us and she was working me just like she likes. But I could tell she was getting close to her edge and so was I and we wanted to save some for later and still make each others day. I could feel inside of her and knew that she wasn't totally in control of her pussy and that I was going to be cumming right along with her and that's our favorite time. No wild table top slapping or loud squeals or gasps just a married couple grabbing a little time for themselves before the rest of the world found us. We came together and were silently patting ourselves on our back for not breaking the vow of silence we had made with each other for this time.

I went mostly soft in her and I wasn't in a hurry to pull out and she wasn't in a hurry to have me leave her. But we had to because it was the middle of the morning we each had places to go and people to see and things to do. We wiped each other off as best as we could and she got one of her pantie liners for what she calls the "after flow" and we put ourselves back together. She left a little while ago and my parts were delivered but I wanted to write this down for her because she likes reading.

We both agreed that an enema would have been the perfect combination and we need to figure out how to make it easier for us for times like these. We'll figure something out.

Nicely done. 🌹

@Silent, that was a great post! Very HOT! I thoroughly enjoyed reading it.

We are both very lucky and blessed men.

Fn

Oh that was GOOD! 😈

@Silent

No wild table top slapping or loud squeals or gasps just a married couple grabbing a little time for themselves before the rest of the world found us.

That was a hot story about one of my favorite kinds of sex ... the kind where you have it 🌹 just because 😈

Loved the story 🌹 and I wish you would write more ... that was hot. 😉

@Silent, that was a great post! Very HOT! I thoroughly enjoyed reading it.

We are both very lucky and blessed men.

Fn

You got that right @DrFn and I hope to be reading more about you and your wife.

That was a hot story about one of my favorite kinds of sex ... the kind where you have it 🌹 just because 😈

Loved the story 🌹 and I wish you would write more ... that was hot. 😉

I will try to write more @gibby but I'm still learning. My wife is one interesting and sexy lady.

Had any good sex lately ?

How can we know? He's not written anything for awhile. Not even an ounce towards a 'fuck tonne'. ?

I haven't written anything and that is because I don't have anything I need to prove. He may be similar. Too busy practicing to talk about it.

Well... at least I'd like to think that way. For both of us.

How can we know? He's not written anything for awhile. Not even an ounce towards a 'fuck tonne'. ?

And this.

Had any good sex lately ?

This is closer to the truth;

I haven't written anything and that is because I don't have anything I need to prove. He may be similar. Too busy practicing to talk about it.

Well... at least I'd like to think that way. For both of us.

My wife and I are learning how to steal some time for ourselves almost any time that we can. We are learning that we don't have to have the romance and music and flowers to have sex and that it isn't always about having "great sex" each and every time. Call me a sap, but I like knowing that my wife just sometimes wants to have sex on the spur of the moment and that she isn't waiting for the "right time" to let me know she wants a little loving. Lately she will just run her hand over the top of my zipper and kiss me on the neck or something and right away I'm thinking of just how I'm going to swing getting some of her beautiful booty without having to wait all day.

The thing is, I'm learning to trust her that when she makes her move that she has pretty much scouted out the area and that the coast is clear if I want to do anything about it. It really isn't something totally random on her part when she cops a feel or nips my ear lobe or comes up behind me in the shop and reaches between my legs and plays with my nut sack by lightly touching them. Thankfully, she isn't attacking me while I'm under some machinery and she's a lot more careful about choosing her time.

Likewise, I'm following her lead when it comes to putting the moves on her and she is trusting in me to be picking the right time and place to show her my appreciation. We are getting good at gauging just how much time we need to bend her over the work bench or the table or how long it take her to get my pants down and do a little number on me on the fly. And it doesn't have to last long or totally get either of us off, it's the thought that counts and both of us see the value in maybe stoking the fires and getting the mood started for a later time that we both will be able to do justice to what we started. It's that part where we are learning to trust each other and know that if either of us makes a move on the other that it's safe to do so and to just let it happen.

Enemas are something we do have to have quite a bit of time to set up, because enemas just do take time to do and the follow up of an enema isn't that predictable. But slipping something like a small butt plug or other object in each others ass on the go is definitely something we can manage on short notice. And if we do manage a quick enema it's where the one wanting an enema knows they can deal with it and the after enema release, and gets the other to give them an enema on the spot. If my wife takes my hand into the hallway off the kitchen and I see her enema bag hanging off of the coat hook I know she is a point in her day where she can handle an enema. I love giving her enemas and she has gotten into them too and knows I will jump at the chance to give her one.

We are getting away from making excuses not to indulge the other in a little fun or having doubts about whether one of us is in the mood. We've come to the understanding with each other and have agreed that it only takes one of us to be in the mood for us to do or have done what we want with each other. I think it is something along the lines of total access, or at least that is what I think it seems like. Speaking for me personally, I like knowing that my wife gets these sexy thoughts about me, or maybe she is just horny and wants me to get her off, and that she's going to let me know and be pretty damned sure that I am going to do my best.

Except if I'm under a truck or something.

We are getting away from making excuses not to indulge the other in a little fun or having doubts about whether one of us is in the mood. We've come to the understanding with each other and have agreed that it only takes one of us to be in the mood for us to do or have done what we want with each other. I think it is something along the lines of total access, or at least that is what I think it seems like. Speaking for me personally, I like knowing that my wife gets these sexy thoughts about me, or maybe she is just horny and wants me to get her off, and that she's going to let me know and be pretty damned sure that I am going to do my best.

Except if I'm under a truck or something.

Yes I think that is good but I think surprising you when you are under trucks is maybe not so good. 😁 I think I am always in the mood for my husband and he is in the mood for me when he is ready after coming home from work. I think if one of us is in the mood it makes the other one of us get in the mood too. 🌹

@Silent I loved this and I would say that this is 'total access' or well on the way for defining your own brand of total access. It makes a world of difference in the way you feel about each other and about yourself. 🌹

@Meat_Monster, I am so glad that I found this little gem and so I am going to be coming back to here, but here are some of my favorites, so far.

12 https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1039072

19 https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1039489

32 https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1040732

37 https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1043403

40 https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1060417

I like the others too, but I'm going to put them and and follow this thread of yours. I hope you write some more here. 🌹

@TrinaStarr 🌹muses

@Meat_Monster, I am so glad that I found this little gem and so I am going to be coming back to here.

and follow this thread of yours. I hope you write some more here. 🌹

Oh . . so agree

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@Ms_Lila 🌹remarks

He's not written anything for awhile. Not even an ounce towards a 'fuck tonne'. ?

Direct as per usual but so spot on . . .What's a ‘fuck tonne’ ? . .Ah got it metricated ?😁

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@gibby 🌹

Had any good sex lately ?

Ever the subtle one . . . lol

And this

@Dahiana 🌹

Oh that was GOOD! 😈

Yes it was 😇

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@Meat_Monster

I will try to write more @gibby but I'm still learning.

My wife is one interesting and sexy lady.

Really !! . . .as Ms Lila might say

@That_Australian why don't you give @Meat_Monster a break? It's only been 2 years, and a little under 4 months since he's posted in his own thread. It's only 848 days as of today and you are all over him. Are you taking lessons from @Dahiana?

@TrinaStarr 🌹

It's probably that “Constant Cravings” thing that made me do it . .lol

You know how it is with @Dahiana 🌹

@TrinaStarr 🌹

It's probably that “Constant Cravings” thing that made me do it . .lol

You know how it is with @Dahiana 🌹

@That_Australian true but she does make good choices with her men. 😎🌹

Undoubtedly so @TrinaStarr 🌹. . .as is her “taste” in very close friends😇

@Meat_Monster 🌹 I would like to make a deal with you. 🌹🌹 We, you and I, are both becoming very comfortable with either one of us reaching out to the other to ask for some closeness. If I am the one initiating or asking you to have me I will post it on my thread. And when you take me you post about us here in your thread. 🌹

You have some beautiful posts and they are thoughtful and show the real you. 🌹 I would love seeing myself through your eyes whether we are making love🌹or you just wanted to fuck me. 🥵 I know it takes time but this place does it for me.

Or I could ask Mom if she wants to join zity.biz. 😏🤔

@TrinaStarr 🌹

@Meat_Monster 🌹 We, you and I, are both becoming very comfortable with either one of us reaching out to the other to ask for some closeness. If I am the one initiating or asking you to have me I will post it on my thread. And when you take me you post about us here in your thread. 🌹

l like that idea Trina as it would be the ideal arrangement..

You have some beautiful posts and they are thoughtful and show the real you. 🌹 I would love seeing myself through your eyes.

Yes Trina @Meat_Monster does indeed acquit himself very well in the writing department & I too think it really would be most advantageous if he were to express his views of your joint relationship from his own perspective.

Or I could ask Mom if she wants to join zity.biz. 😏🤔

Scary. . lol

Overall 👍

You have some beautiful posts and they are thoughtful and show the real you. 🌹 I would love seeing myself through your eyes whether we are making love🌹or you just wanted to fuck me. 🥵 I know it takes time but this place does it for me.

I would like to see you do this @Meat_Monster … 🌹