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I recently came across an article entitled My life in diaper's a normal guy's secret.

Here's the article if you haven't already read it as it's on WordPress and I don't have a account with them.

My Life in Diapers

A Normal Guys Secret

I’m Just a Normal Guy…Who Wears Diapers

Hi,

I’m 31. That sounds weird to say, the last time I think I said my age was in my early 20’s. 31…shit. Age is just a number I guess, I’m still very active and easy going. I read a lot, sometimes too much. I have an anxiety disorder but other than that, I’m a strapping young man. I have a beautiful girlfriend and 2 dogs. I live in a great house and have a normal job. I like to wear diapers too.

A lot of you may have stumbled across this because you are into diapers too, maybe you know someone that is, or maybe it’s a terrible accident and you are afraid you are dirty now. Believe it or not, I’m not a pervert, or a deviant. I don’t normally talk about my desires or my sex life. If you were to look at me, you would probably think that I’m just your everyday normal guy, which I am, we all are.

There’s a stigma, a disgust for things that are not “Normal” or like you. Think about it, why are things gross or not socially acceptable, because the majority of people don’t understand. I feel this is why I hid behind my secret for so long.

Just recently I started to accept my desires and have felt more relief and comfort than ever before. That desire is to wear and use diapers. I felt it’s time someone write honestly and openly about this subject, since there is such a dark cloud that hangs over the meaning. Maybe you have a family member or friend or partner that is into it and you have lots of questions. Maybe I can help.

I am a Diaper Lover (DL) what that means I have the desire to wear and use diapers of all shapes and sizes. It’s only sexual when I want it to be. I think most of us can control it, just like if you like wearing skimpy lingerie. You can wear it all day without being turned on. Perhaps you like chocolate syrup, you have it on ice cream with your kids, but you may also lick it off of lover. A diaper to me is an object, not an arousal.

It can be and is, but only if I want it to be. Let me clarify, I don’t like EVERYTHING that has a diaper. This is very misconstrued because of the pure nature and common use for diapers, that is to protect a child or baby from dirtying everything up with it can’t control it. On the opposite spectrum, Adults that can’t control either. Do I find old ladies and babies sexy? That IS wrong and disgusting. Diaper Lovers are not pedophiles or raging sex maniacs. They simply like having diapers in their lives.

Another title and altogether different lifestyle is Adult Babies (AB). Adult babies like to be treated like an infant, they will talk in baby talk, dress in baby clothes and usually have a “Mommy” or “Daddy”; that being someone who acts as their mother or father would by changing them, feeding them, punishing them and so on. The same goes for adult babies that it is not ALWAYS sexual. Only if they want it to be. I am not an adult baby so I can’t really give that much insight to that topic, maybe someone can clarify.

Many Diaper Lovers are also Adult Babies, however many are one or the other. The fact is I couldn’t be farther from an adult baby.

Most AB’s and DL’s will use diapers, meaning they will urinate and have bowel movements in the diapers. I personally have only peed in diapers, I just have no desire to poop. It doesn’t make it wrong, but it’s just my preference. Many DL’s will wear diapers in public under clothing, they don’t treat it as a thrill, it can be, but they treat it as a preference. Adult babies might wear them out too, but usually not dressed as babies.

The point is, that being a Diaper Lover or Adult Baby does not mean we are sick and twisted, just as someone might always wear shorts, or a hat, it’s a preference, we don’t go around telling people and showing people, we just mind our business.

Believe it or not the number of AB’s and DL’s is HUGE! there are communities online, dating sites, social sites and everything else. For MOST of these people, it is not a sexual thing, nothing is more disgusting that someone thinking just because we are on there we always want sex from something. We are just like you! It’s blurry because it’s considered a Fetish, and a fetish is associated with sexual pleasure. I’m sitting in a Barnes and Noble right now, typing this wearing a diaper, that I may or may not pee in. I’m not really thinking about sex.

To add to my story, I have a condition wear I have leakage, I can use the bathroom, shake, pull my pants up and I will squirt. It just happens, and it turns out I would rather wear a sensible diaper than have a spot on my pants. With that said, I DO fantasize about diapers and have had sex with them on as well as masturbated. But I’m sure people that don’t wear diapers like to have sex and masturbate too.

I can’t tell you why I do, all I can say is that I have had a fascination with them since I was little. I would still little cousins’ diapers and friends’ brothers and sisters. I was into wearing diapers before I was sexually active, so it does not stem from sex. I CAN tell you that I have introduced it to 3 girls, they LOVE it. They wear a diaper and feel dirty and for some reason the physical sensation is escalated, so before you pooh pooh (pun not intended) the whole idea, give it a try!

I hope to use this page to open us up a little. I can live a normal hygienic life that harms no one, and there is no reason to hide it. This is my opportunity to help others open up about it, talk about it and share their feelings and questions. I’m not a Doctor or psychologist, I’m a normal guy and I wear diapers.