M2M enemas

Would you--or have you--engaged in M2M enemas? Under what circumstances?

"Would you, could you, with a guy?

Would you, could you, if you were high?"

OK, joke over.

Many times, and it seems that, in a BDSM scenario, men seem to instinctly know what to do to increase the pleasure.

Many times, and it seems that, in a BDSM scenario, men seem to instinctly know what to do to increase the pleasure.

What does this mean? What do they do? I've had a couple of Domme exes who were extremely good at being Domme and "increasing the pleasure," I'll never try it with a man, not my thing.

Eric

Yes. I have lost track of the number of times over the years. But I am gay, so men are my preferred partners for enemas.

I like play with guys as well as the ladies,guys are tuned into what feels good to a man.

I have played with other guys in giving and getting enemas. Both were very knowledgeable so that's what made the enemas very pleasurable for both giver and receiver. When enemas are given between two guys, I do think they are likely bisexual or gay. The enemas given in these circumstances are very erotic and sexual and so I would say the men are comfortable playing sexually with other men. I think it would be very unlikely for two hetero men to engage in enema sex play.

I was introduced to enemas during a period of sexual liberation in my first marriage. I use the term liberation because that fits best: The ingrained sexual inhibitions of the '50s and '60s that were such a prominent part of the moral bulwark of "decent families" began to crumble like a breached dam for us -- once undercut, the earthworks" got swept away in a torrent. Two well-brought-up suburban kids had grown into a pair of kinksters, with new adventures and deviations from "normal" being tried shamelessly. It was then that my enema fetish developed, and also when my "bi-ness" began to emerge from whatever taboo it had been hiding behind. It took me a little while to get fully comfortable with dom/sub play -- wife unquestionably in charge -- and with the central role the enema played in it. Likewise, my newly recognized attraction to M2M play. But neither took very long to accept and embrace, so here I am, an aging enema "universalist". Women or men, giving or taking. . . with me, it's like the answer to the "enema" question in the Zity profile: "Everything to do with it." The sad thing for many of us is that the question of either men or women or both can remain academic for l-o-n-g stretches.

For live play, it can be difficult to find and connect with a fellow enthusiast of any gender or stripe. Given the low and apparently dwindling number of avid enema enthusiasts in the general population, and the fact that, to be met with regularly, a playmate would have to be located within some fairly small circle -- say, a 100-mile radius -- finding a mate is not easy, even on a high-density site like Zity. After about thirty active years, I can still count the number of enema partners I've had on one hand, and I'm particular only about sanity and mutuality, not gender.

To go a little further on mating up, I do envy those members who have either found a fairly steady stream of enema playmates, or had a single longstanding one. And I do believe the single familiar mate can keep the game every bit as exciting over the long haul as it would be with a succession of new players. I base that on my experiences with both my ex-wife and the girlfriend who followed: After several years of playing with the wife, and a little over a year with the girlfriend, "enema time" never lost a single volt of "tingle power" and mystical appeal -- in fact, a certain amount of familiarity helped create a background of comfort and relaxation that would otherwise have been missing. Unlike with some experiences had with the same person over and over, enema play never got old or boring. As time went by, I never failed to get those same butterflies in my chest when I'd imagine the romp that was coming, next weekend!

I was introduced to enemas during a period of sexual liberation in my first marriage. I use the term liberation because that fits best: The ingrained sexual inhibitions of the '50s and '60s that were such a prominent part of the moral bulwark of "decent families" began to crumble like a breached dam for us -- once undercut, the earthworks" got swept away in a torrent.

I could have written this. I thought I did for a minute. Thank you Rafter

Chuck

I have - receiving only, so far, which is my preference. Would I do it again? Under the right circumstances, yes, absolutely.

I would definitely want to engage in M2M enemas. Generally, I would prefer receiving enemas from an experienced giver. However, I might also be interested in switching roles. It would be perfect to have a buddy for regular enema sessions.

Nope. Never, except possibly if in a professional colonic machine setting, but that would be strictly a colonic with no sexual touching of any kind. I'd still much prefer a woman, even for the colonics. IRL I actually had one colonic by a male professional therapist without warning that it wouldn't be a woman, and though the colonic itself was okay, I enjoyed it much less than any of the others with women therapists, even though there was no physical sexual contact. What can I say? I'm straight and always will be. The nonsexual contact (insertion, filling, massage, removal), the view, the attitude and the voice all make a big difference. No offense to anyone of other interests and attractions, but I've always been pleased to be a straight male and cherish relationships with women.

Eric

No I have not .

No thank you, & NO WAY. Just not for me.

Definitely YES ! I am totally into guys. Only a guy knows what to do to turn another guy on in the most 'intimate' of ways. I love the physical form, the smell, the sheer 'attitude' of a masculine guy. It gives me great pleasure to massage a guy, then to discuss the wonderful art of 'prostate massage'. An enema or two would be suggested. All of this usually ends up with the most 'mind blowing' and explosive of orgasms. A job well done !

Definitely NO! But almost any obliging female is welcome!

Definitely NO! But almost any obliging female is welcome!

Definitely NO! But ANY obliging female is welcome ......

Definitely NO! But ANY obliging female is welcome ......

There are some that I do not trust!!!!! - so ALMOST any! 😄

Thanks ........ but I'll take my chances.

Yes. Am straight, but have indulged an Adult Baby friend quite a few times with high volume enemas via large nozzles, tubes etc. He needed some for pleasure and some for discipline. The relationship was reciprocal but non sexual. We were friends with similar interests in areas other than fetish relations. But life goes on and people move on. Hope he's well, wherever he is.

I'm bi so I wouldn't turn down a M2M enema session. They can be very erotic in this context with far more following the initial insertion and clean outs. Especially coupled with BDSM and medical fetish.

No! However, I would really like to meet a central PA guy who would administer them to me on a regular basis.

It's all a social stigma from our culture. Your butt doesn't know who is doing the lubing and tubing! By far the best enema's I've ever received were from guys! It doesn't make me gay. Do I have a desire to "to Pleasure/go down" on another guy? Nope, but I am also secure enough in my sexuality that I don't have a problem if another guy wants to give me a hand job or massage my prostate gland during the course of "hot" enema session. Many years ago I was involved with another couple. It was a guy I worked with. They were in their 30's and she was really hot. I was 21-22ish at the time. I was led to believe that their "thing" was bringing young guys home to "do" her while he sat on a chair in the corner of the room and masturbated. Well at that time a slap on the ass and I could cum. So she started going down on me and getting me off before I serviced her. This made sense since then I would last longer. She also introduced me to prostate massage. Which at the time I was young and dumb and enjoyed what she was doing and I also knew it gave me earth shattering orgasms. The long and short she was lubing my ass and relaxing me and getting my hole prepared. So, with that in mind during one of our sessions I was on top, she wrapped her legs around me and Jim, her husband was on the bed behind me. I PANICKED! She had her legs wrapped around me and her arms wrapped around me and I was about to be penetrated! She then began whispering in my ear to relax, we won't hurt you, if you don't like it we'll stop. Then she French kissed me while he began to enter me. HE was slow and kind and gentle, and she kept whispering in my ear and kissing me. He wasn't big, He was fairly long but not thick. It was an incredible experience. I'm not ashamed to admit that I like it. It was really a HOT experience. He basically knelt behind me and wasn't doing much moving, because as I pushed into her I pulled away from him, and as I pulled back from her he would be sliding into me. So with all this in mind, I ask the question did this instance make me gay because a guy had anal sex with me? We did this a couple of times. Always the three of us, and quite honestly I after a second or third time I asked her and Jim if we could do it in the future the way it happened the first time. With me not knowing what was going to happen and her whispering to me and holding me tight and kissing me. I have NEVER gone out looking for another guy to "bugger" me, but in a circumstance such as this if it happened again. WHY NOT! So guys relax, get over your social cultural stigma's and try something new. You never know what you might be missing out on unless you open your mind and try something. I do truly believe that when Elaine told me they would stop if I wanted them to that they would have stopped. They were nice people who I lost contact with. And I do think of them and am grateful for the play time we had together. If by chance Elaine and Jim are on this site please contact me and friend me. I would love to know how you all are doing after all these years.

I have never had an enema from a male and never really thought about it in the past. Maybe I was just too embarrassed by it. Easier with a female. But now that I am much older, I think I don’t have such reservations about it. I have had a few females give me enemas. I never considered a male. Just a personal preference. In the past I have had male dommes, online only, and have done a number of enemas for them on cam, but that is not the same as in person. I had a couple of opportunities in this forum, but wasn’t able to follow up because of distance or other considerations. But now I am very open to having a male administer one to me. Not looking into anything sexual, just a shared pleasure.

Yes I have received enemas from guys and have given lots of enemas to guys. It by far is the most erotic thing I have ever done.

A friend and I give each other enema's once and sometimes twice a month. Both of us find it erotic and stimulating.. We've been friends for a few months and every month brings us closer as friends. For me it's become a good way to relieve stress. I am looking forward to meeting with him tomorrow {Thursday} morning.

It happened Yesterday {Thursday} morning. I arrived a little early but he didn't seem to mind. After taking my coat and jacket, he lead me to the bedroom. I unpacked my toys including my new 4 oz enema bulb with a ribbed nozzle. He said it was a little small butt we can still have fun with it. After laying out my vibes and dildo's on the table he undressed. I stood in front of him because I knew that he loved to undress me which he did. Once naked we took the bulb and went into the bathroom. He put a rug and several towels on the floor for our comfort and to catch leaks if there were any. He prepared the mixture of warm water and baking soda while I got into position on my elbows and knees. My legs spread so my rosebud hole would be fully exposed. He finished the liquid mixture and filled the bulb and then coated it with lube, then he spread more lube around my exposed hole and then slowly but firmly pushed his finger all the way in. I moaned, "MMMM that feels so good" He slowly removed his finger and slowly pushed in the nozzle till it was all the way in and then slowly but firmly pressed the bulb and I felt the warm liquid enter my rectum and bowels. Since the bulb was so small he put in about 8 of the 4oz bulbs. He loved multiple insertions and so did I.

Eight was a good stopping point for me so he let me get up and evacuate what he had administered. It took me about 15 minutes or so to get it all out. Once done we went back into the bed room . I gave him two dildo's to use one small and one a little larger than the small one. The small one was about 4 inches tall and slightly curved to hit the prostate. The larger one was about 6 inches tall and straight butt a little thicker. He lubed the first one and then re lubed my hole and again pushed his finger in all the way. He knew what I needed and he delivered. Pulling his finger out slowly he inserted the small dildo the same way nice and slow but firmly pushing it all the way in. He moved it around with his fingers and then in an in and out movement. It felt soooo good. He pulled that out and replaced it with the longer and wider one. I moaned and gyrated as he pushed it in and then pulled it out and then pushed it in touching the prostate and then pulling it out and then in again putting more pressure on the prostate. He was a master at what he was doing. He took care of my stress, which is why we get together at least once a month.

Not much, but not for lack of desire. Gay bottom/sub here, but haven't connected with many guys who have actually been into giving enemas. For me, enemas have a lot of mind fuck (i mean that in a good way) potential, a way for a Top/Dom to bond His bottom to Him.

i have a fantasy of sleeping with a guy who wakes me up with a light kiss on my neck while penetrating me with an enema nozzle, maybe whispering something provocative in my ear. i'm not into mean or force, but respond deeply to grooming control. A guy can penetrate me with just about anything if i sense He is connected to what He is using and doing. An enema has an advantage over a toy to me because He can use it to deposit as well as penetrate. The act of penetration and impregnation as an expression of a Tops need or desire to put Himself in another and affect that person is at the core of this for me.

Yes and Yes My first M2M experience was with a guy I met here on Z.B. thru the personal ads. He has since passed away but the memory will last forever. R.I.P. Buzz. It was something I had fantasized about extensively over many years. Probably 10 years of searching for just the right person. I was a little anxious at first, but after exchanging a few emails it didn't take long to figure out it was something both of us had long dreamed about. I think it was his first mutual experience and certainly my own. I'm pretty un-shockable about most things so when it happened the first time we "Clicked" and it was "Game On". Neither of us were into Scat or Dirty Play and not really into it for the whole retention, cramping ,discomfort thing. It was purely a means of cleaning out to ready ourselves for mutual anal play. Even though the process did involve Poop we both understood it to be a byproduct of the preparation and both of us accepted it as a part of the process. . Who better to satisfy your wants and desires than someone with the same desires. It got to be such an easy natural acceptance of each other's body and functions we instinctively went about the whole process. The mutual giving and taking was easy and relaxed , we would even comment on stuff like " oh you had corn for dinner last night" ." It all came out in the Wash" was our attitude . Since Buzz, I have met a handful of guys that like to self administer but are not into my helping them or helping me. Maybe I should just "Put My Big Boy Pants On" or pull them down as the case may well be and demand to both service and be serviced. Life is to short to wait around wishing for the perfect enemate to show up. I agree that two (or more for that matter) enema enthusiasts are better than one . E-fest is definitely on my Bucket List. It's a great big world out there, and Z.B. is perfect for finding like minded people without judgement or prejudice.

I'm a gyp, at least in my own mind, in doing M2M things - I like having things done to me, but don't have any desire to reciprocate. I always thought of myself as an odd kind of bi, being one-sided like I am. Since allot of things I did involved my wearing women's undergarments and playing the woman's role with a man, I often would muse to myself how much I was like those women who don't like doing things for their man.