Anal obsession

I have just discovered anal play for the first time. I'm a straight 62 year old male that's always been very turned on by a women's ass hole, but my own has always been off limits. I just started anal play and prostate massage about 3 weeks. Now that's all I can think about, I just want to lay in bed and play with my ass all the time. Is this a normal reaction and is my love life with a female forever changed?

Lets say it hasn't changed as much as it has grown in possibilities! Enjoy! Its much more fun with a quick clean out too! You'll figure it out.

Join the crowd! I cannot seem to stop now that I have been turned on after so many years of not realizing how stimulating it can be. The sky's the limit in all the ways you can enjoy the erotic pleasures awaiting you.

Chances are a big part of this is the fact that anal/prostate stimulation is something new that feels very good. As time goes on it will likely be a part of your "permanent sex menu" but not something that you feel you have to have all the time. I like anal play, but there is also something about just making love vaginally that is nice too.

It's experimenting with yourself and having fun! All the years I've done it I still love my relationships with females

I also got started later in life with personal anal play and prostate massagers. Did experiment as a preteen with some anal play - inserting various objects and did some mutual anal sex with a friend in grade school. Just in the last few years have experienced all the pleasure generated in the rectum and anal area! And yes, once you have enjoyed the intense feelings and anal/prostate orgasms, you are hooked!

After 15 plus years I’m still obsessed with my asshole to the point where I’ve stretched it wide open and don’t plan to stop. I just need to get the missus to play back there more and I’m set!

I've been interested in anal play since a mid teen, but it has, on the (w)hole, been a solo thing. Have had some fun with previous girlfriends and with my current partner. In the last year or so I have found I have been getting increasingly frustrated in that department and am thinking about someone exploring my ass most of the time.

My husband fingers my ass and it is the most wet I get. There is a spot inside there he touches just makes me crazy. While he does this I play with my clit feels so good until eventually his finger is replaced by his cock and he is pushing harder and harder. My ass feels so good during this and am gushing.

| love a womans asshole and l want to be sodomized someday.

Your love life with a female is changed only if you want it to be changed. Of course, the best way to change it is to encourage her to play with your ass hole as you play with hers.

Salem69, I know what you mean about that spot. It's on the left side of your rectum. Like a rectal clitoris, as I could imagine as a male. I can find it with my finger and my wife can find it with her finger. It opens up the floodgate of rectal juice. It's probably the lower of the 3 rectal valves.

During anal sex with my wife, she'll often exclaim 'Oh my God your in my fucking canal'! 'I can feel it sucking you in' She comes something incredible! That's probably all 3 rectal valves opening up and sliding downward. Is that the sensation you feel? All feel that every time I deep penetrate myself with whatever I decide to fuck myself with.

I'd say you have just added to your sex life. My girlfriend and I love anal sex. Not all the time, but enough to have a lot of fun. We both have mind blowing orgasms when you add the anal spectrum. She loves fingering my ass and threatens a strap on, and fist. I fuck her ass with fingers and cock equally.

With the next lady just tell her .. and if she's the right lady she'll see the advantages . good luck!

I know I have an anal obsession and a husband that really caters to my passions. I love it!

I've had an anal obsession since as far back as I can remember. Both on the giving and receiving end.

I would guess that most of us on Zity (if not all of us} are "obsessed" in varying degrees with our assholes, and with the possibilities for erotic play that this part of the body offers. But this "obsession" is not a bad thing.

As a child I found out quite early that "it felt good down there". My adult supervisors were quick to suppress those urges in me, arguing that the asshole was a dirty place. And so, I had my ass fun only behind their backs. Luckily I was seldom cought, but I did feel guilty and "different". It just felt too good to abandon. So I became "obsessed".

As I grew up I found out about the huge amount of nerve endings that surround the area, and it become clear why the asshole was so sensitive. But I still felt guilty and "different". Only after reading the Penthouse Forum back in the nineteen-seventies, and much later after finding the site Enemas for Fun on the internet did I completely realize that I was far, very, very, very far from being alone regarding my anal preferences. I stopped feeling guilty and I stopped feling different. And definitely I felt less "obsessed".

Although I think society's attitudes towards uncleanliness are well grounded, the problem is that these attitudes can also become "obsessive". Fortunately, albeit very slowly, social mores are becoming more open, realistic and more understanding.

I was in my late sixties, getting a massage for a sore shoulder, when the masseur began working on my glutes. His fingers slipped between my cheeks and the feeling was fantastic. That was my first realization that there was pleasure to be had there. As luck would have it, he loved his older clients more than his young and gave me the most fantastic prostate massage. I could hardly believe that I had gone so long before realizing that there was extreme pleasure to be had with anal stimulation. And yes, I did let a man show me even more pleasure in case you're wondering. I have no regrets.

Ozzy10 said,

"Lets say it hasn't changed as much as it has grown in possibilities! Enjoy! Its much more fun with a quick clean out too! You'll figure it out."

Right. Even more fun, exciting and erotic things to share with your wife or woman lover. Enjoy yourselves.

Eric

My Zity albums reveal my same obsession. Giver or receiver, I love it either way.

I think I have always had an obsession with the female rump

I have just discovered anal play for the first time ... is my love life with a female forever changed?

It would seem so. You've discovered a whole (back) side of yourself you never knew existed.

So far though, it seems you have kept this to yourself. You state that anally you have always been "off limits." Penetrating your self is very different from being penetrated by another person. To me the bigger side of this is psychological, not physical. To me, the larger question is do you need/want to be vulnerable and penetrated by another person. Penetrating yourself is self contained (safe?), allowing another to penetrate you is a whole other world.

i have a whole drawer full of toys purchased with wishful thinking for a Top who is anally obsessed (but a Top). i.e., i'm so much of a bottom that i don't even wanna penetrate myself lol.

Way over simplifying, on the spectrum of sexuality, i see some who are Tops/penetrators/creators on one end, others who are bottoms/receptors/cnavas on the other end and people who have a decided mix of both are in between.

I have been "obsessed" with my anus since I was about 9 or 10. I have grown and evolved in how I entertain that, but def still "obsessed"

If you are not carrying significant negative baggage about anal stimulation, you can enjoy it- giving and receiving. I think so many people miss out on an area of the body that can provide additional sexual pleasure for many reasons. I started with enemas at age 13 and loved it. But what I did not know at the time was that I was very anal erotic and enemas were just one way to give myself anal pleasure.

If you haven't explored giving yourself anal pleasure, then you should learn about it and give it a try. If done right, you won't be disappointed.