Being Extremely Submissive For Enemas / Obeying the Giver ...

How many people here find themselves becoming extremely submissive during an enema or series of enemas ?? I will readily admit, this mindset is almost automatic for me personally....I don't mind giving enemas , but I would much rather be forced to take them and to be told exactly what to do during a series of them.....For me , submitting to a giver in this way-- is a massive and wicked turn on , all the control is surrendered by myself and given to the person who is administering the enemas to me....I obey every command to the letter as well, as the enema partners I have had in the past always have a leather strap right close by and a riding crop and they are not at all hesitant about using either one of them...Many times I have been sent to the bathroom , with a wickedly bloated tummy , cramps hitting me hard, and had a small accident, for which I was soundly strapped or given the crop and had to endure the expulsion with my bare bottom stinging madly for being naughty ....I think this only adds to my humiliation and it definitely adds to the whole enema scene itself ....I am in fact about to be given a series of enemas this afternoon , and again the spanking implements are laid out and I am certain that I will be forced to take so much solution, that a little is almost certain to leak out of me on my way to the potty, for which I will be soundly disciplined ....My pussy is soaking wet just thinking and talking about this ....Just was curious here as to who else finds themselves feeling like this during their enema sessions ?? Please feel free to comment about this as I would honestly like to know if any of you find yourselves deliberately failing at something during your enemas so that you are punished by either being spanked or by being forced to take additional enemas or larger volumes ?? Thanks everyone , have fun and be well always ....Tammy

This sounds a great deal like me. I like giving, but receiving, very submissively, is a massive turn-on for me. I'm a switch, but with a strong preference for being sub for enemas given by one of my switch Domme exes. I'm not sure I've ever intentionally failed at doing something the Domme told me to do just to receive punishment or more severe treatment, but it's an interesting thought. I would really not like to be seriously spanked or whipped for an enema infraction, except for pretty mild spanking. However, I'm told I'm very good at being extremely vocal during submissive enemas so my Domme hears a lot of moans, groans, complaints and begging for leniency, which she of course completely ignores and makes me do whatever what she wants. I have no doubt I've been given more volumes, longer hold times, more challenging solutions, more difficult enema tasks (exercise, etc.) and repeat enemas because the Domme was countering my constant begging and complaining about what she was giving me. And when she tells that's what she's doing, essentially retaliating for my complaints, I feel even more humiliated and aroused and compliant. I do my best to be as submissive as possible for both our benefits. And also, her constant descriptions of what she's doing to me and how she's going to push me as much as she wants makes my sub enemas extremely submissive and erotic for both of us. My Domme exes have always told me I'm a very enjoyable sub for them to dominate during enemas and they get very aroused from my submissive reactions to their dominance. It's a win-win for both of us.

I hope you and your Dom(me)s enjoy each other as much as we have. I enjoy reading your posts and descriptions, including this one.

Eric

BTW, since you're so experienced at this and like to be totally submissive, what's the largest enema someone's ever made you take, and how long was the enforced hold time? Any particular chores or tasks you had to do during your hold? My backside is very sensitive to irritation so I usually do just one or two but very large with long hold times, and I do enjoy being made to do things during the holds like getting up and displaying the distention. I usually do 4 quarts but just once went up to 5 to see how it felt. Most of my holds are 30-60 minutes.

Eric

That's the reason I prefer to self-administer in private.

You really DO have to be submissive to the enema while you are taking it.

That way the enema can do it's job inside me, and no one will see me not in control!

That's the reason I prefer to self-administer in private.

You really DO have to be submissive to the enema while you are taking it.

That way the enema can do it's job inside me, and no one will see me not in control!

No you do not.

That's like saying you have to be submissive to a television program--just turn it off.

All you have to do with an enema is turn the water off or take the tube out.

No you do not.

That's like saying you have to be submissive to a television program--just turn it off.

All you have to do with an enema is turn the water off or take the tube out.

This is true. And occasionally I've done that if it's not a good enema day. However, that said, I also love being a very compliant though constantly complaining enema sub. I can always take it as a "normal" non-D/s receiver, but usually I choose to feel and act highly submissive to my Domme enema giver. The various features of an enema just happen to make being submissive to it very easy.

Eric

Good Morning Everyone, well I will do my best to keep this short, but suffice it to say, I am going to be receiving another series of enemas this morning, in fact, I am told I will be getting a series of no less than 4 VERY LARGE enemas , and my retention times this morning are going to be lengthy, with having to hold each one no less than 15 to 20 mins...All of the enemas will be no less than 3.5 to 4 or more quarts...This is a continuation from yesterday afternoon's enema series, and my roomie and her friend felt that I was not cleaned out quite thoroughly enough, so they are currently getting things prepped and ready for my ENEMA SERIES this morning....As per my post yesterday, I did in fact have a hard time holding in the solution, and I did leak a little bit while I was being escorted to the bathroom with the hose and nozzle left in place as I made my way there .....I was given 35 very sound strokes for the first enema that I leaked and on the second one, another 25 with the leather strap....My third enema I managed to retain all of the 4.25 quarts I was given and forced to take , despite all my pleas to be let up to go to the bathroom....I hate the retention because my tummy really cramps pretty badly, but I will admit, when all is said and done, I felt really pretty good afterwards ....Tired, and a little weak kneed , but much better ....This morning the girls have told me they want to me to be ready for the "dreaded enemas till clear " session, and as I type this, I am nervously watching the clock and listening to the sounds of them getting everything ready for me.....I am totally nude and my clit is throbbing so wildly , you can't even begin to fathom it ....I know I want this to happen, but am also dreading it as well, as they can be so strict and demanding with me ....But again, I do enjoy being so submissive for them, and I do really get massively turned on by the filling that will be taking place soon....The gush of the solution as it races deeply into me and the onset of the cramps is pure sheer bliss for me and it seems as if the more solution that rockets into me, the more I find myself wanting --despite the cramping ....I often have found myself nearly begging for more solution as the bag nears the empty point and have been forced to take more, sometimes much more than I thought I could ever take ....Last evening with my last enema of the series, I walked past our full length mirror and glanced at my tummy while being led to the bathroom, and I swear, I was holding my belly, half bent over and moaning quite audibly, and saw how bloated and distended my tummy really was-- it looked like I might burst at any given moment....God, was that enema ever intense and I believe each one this morning is going to be every bit as intense as that one was....See what I mean about being truly submissive for my enemas and the people who administer them to me ?? Ohhhhhh boy, they just carried the hospital type clear bag in and ohhhhhhh my . is it ever cloudy looking and it looks like it is going to be awfully difficult to take .....I am starting to get very, very nervous here.....This is going to be very intense and cramp like all living hell, my windows are open and I am going to be moaning quite loudly long before I am even at the half way point with this....They are waiting on me for this all to begin, please keep your thoughts and comment s coming, I love reading them, and I do really appreciate the time you all put into them.....My bottom is starting to tremble a bit, time for my enemas to begin...Thanks again everyone ...Be well ....Tammy

There is a world of difference between "submitting to an enema" and "submitting to the PERSON giving you the enema."

@Lisak is referring to submitting to THE ENEMA ITSELF and has stated that in several posts.

You really DO have to be submissive to the enema while you are taking it.

Tammy, I enjoy so much listening to you describe what you love so much. I will be thinking about you this morning. Roger

This is a very powerful topic, and one I can only give my view upon from my childhood and teenage years. I readily admit that I am submissive and more so, compliant. I was regularly given enemas by my mother, and when called in I was to undress and allow myself to be prepared and have the enema(s) administered. To that end, I accept that I was, and am, a submissive recipient.

As a dominant male who does give enemas and other anal procedures I find that many females who received enemas from parents/relatives when a child/teen and older to be very compliant and submissive.

They know when told to come over and undress they will accept what is going to happen they will take what is given to then and even take more and learn to hold it longer.

For the most part many know they need to obey and if not might even feel a spanking to enforce obeying the giver.

My husband and I mostly think of ourselves as equals to one another. Ideally, our marriage is a 50-50 arrangement, but when he's lying there in bed and I am hanging up a bulging fountain syringe with one hand and holding a jar of Vaseline in the other, this is no longer a 50-50 relationship.

As a child , I would protest , argue and fight , when Mom said I was getting a enema. But when everything was ready and she started telling me to undress , get on the bed , spread my legs , I complyed . Ehen she told me I had to take some more and hold it ,I did. I did exactly as she told me .

I becsme submissive . Then as I got der, became a teen, I did not complain. I complyed with her instrutions . This was so far out of my nature. I 'm not a coopertive person when it comes to things I don't want to do . But when it came to Mom with the enema or rectal temp , I did what she said.

Yes everything about being given an enema brings my submissive nature out. First its being told you are going to get the bag, there is nothing you can do about it, the decision has been made. From that point on, you are totally out of control, its going to happen. Then its the preparation, being stripped naked, exposed, and vunerable on display for the giver to see, she is in total control. Then its watching the enema being prepared, the bag, and nozzle selected, watching it being filled, the feelings of submission and compliance only get stronger. Then its the enema itself, the nozzle being inserted, hearing the click of the clamp, feeling the warm water invading your insides, once again you are at her mercy, she is in total control. To me an enema is the definition of submission, both mentally and physically

My husband and I mostly think of ourselves as equals to one another. Ideally, our marriage is a 50-50 arrangement, but when he's lying there in bed and I am hanging up a bulging fountain syringe with one hand and holding a jar of Vaseline in the other, this is no longer a 50-50 relationship.

Vicki,

Meaning what? In that situation you become a Domme and treat your husband like a sub?

Eric

The thought always arouses me . Been many years since I was given by my mother. I still think about being told to get in proper knee elbow position. And to wait knowing what was coming. Trying not to get erect. And made to wait.

I think that submitting to an enema is very submissive and can be more erotic than sex. You are submitting and letting the person invade your most private place and to me there is nothing more erotic than first spreading the cheeks and finding the browneye winking at you. Very hot.

I'm not certain how, if given correctly, one could be anything but submissive while receiving and/or retaining his or her enema! They're really the MacDaddy of power exchange exercises!

Enemas make me submissive as soon as she presents me with the enema system.....and I want to see her react the same way......it is remarkable how a chattering, active, fidgety woman immediately calms down and becomes submissive and quiet as soon as the enema nozzle is inserted all the way into her rectum and she knows that it is coming.....the hot, full enema.

@Mothers_Boy I feel the same way

From that point on, you are totally out of control, its going to happen. Then its the preparation, being stripped naked, exposed, and vulnerable on display for the giver to see, she is in total control.

I love how submissive I feel when being given an enema. Dominant no-nonsense givers who push your limits are the best. It drives me crazy to think about being given an enema that's bigger and stronger than I can comfortably handle and then being forced to hold it longer than I would by myself.

And @Enema_loving_mature_woman thanks for the story and visual. Very hot. I can relate.

Getting an enema for sexual reasons is a submissive act. What could be more than being naked, holding a large soapy enema, fighting the urge to go and being controlled by the giver. But for most it somehow translates into arousal. So being sub is fun and it’s liberating to give up control especially when you are always in control in real life.

Getting an enema for sexual reasons is a submissive act. What could be more than being naked, holding a large soapy enema, fighting the urge to go and being controlled by the giver. But for most it somehow translates into arousal. So being sub is fun and it’s liberating to give up control especially when you are always in control in real life.

However, Susie has written at least once here about how in her hands taking an enema for sex can actually be a DOMINANT act, depending on how you approach it. She says at times she'll be the Domme with her husband and require/demand him to put a nozzle or DBC into her bottom and give her an enema of her choice. Now I'm a switch too, but have never tried that scenario with a partner, although I'd like to. I'm much more accustomed to acting the way Redbag describes above. I thoroughly enjoy being the sub to my switch partner's Domme and taking a large prolonged enema from her acting (and feeling) extremely controlled and submissive, with accompanying feelings of being controlled, embarrassed and humiliated by her. So she gets aroused by dominantly controlling my ass and bowels and I'm aroused by being so controlled, helpless and full of enema. Win-win. Any regular "vanilla" enema is delightful and great, but a submissive one is spectacular. ??❗️

Eric