Tubal ligation + vasectomy = sex, sex, sex, sex and more sex. I am 50+ and just getting started. Again.
I was a fertile Myrtle and my husband was a fertile turtle and we were at each other all of the time. His is the first penis I 'tried out' and was surprised that it fit as well as it does. After two miscarriages a live birth, another miscarriage, and two more live births I had my tubes tied and my husband had a vasectomy. He says that we can both 'walk through the mud and not leave any tracks.'
I decided that having my tubes tied was the best for me because of my pregnancies and complications. Prior to my husband my sexual experience was with another woman but my fondness for the penis my husband possessed made me 'heteroflexible' with no regrets. My pregnancies were as a result of my love of spontaneity, and my husband also loved quickies, which resulted in our becoming parents quicker than anticipated. All of our sex is 99% without any alcohol and definitely no drugs, and my pregnancies were solely lack of proper birth control / contraception.
We are enthusiastic and spontaneous and empty nesters and having my tubes tied and his vasectomy ensured us we wouldn't have to worry. We found that having children required some planning, and before our 'alterations' we did do more with contraception but there was always that 'one time' and, bingo, I was pregnant.
We like to play and getting tied and cut took the worry out of being close.