Fin domination

Had anyone heard of this? It financial domination. It seemed to me to be sexual and emotional extortion, very risky, what do you think?

I love good domination with someone i trust but no way i would allow anyone i play with to take over my finacial affairs. this is asking for trouble

Always seemed like taking advantage to me. Yes, we know guys think with their cocks most of the time but taking financial advantage of this seems very unethical.

Had anyone heard of this? It financial domination. It seemed to me to be sexual and emotional extortion, very risky, what do you think?

You need to be more specific and give a good definition of this.

Do you mean one person taking control of another person's finances/money?

OR

Do you mean controlling someone because they have no money of their own and cannot make their own decisions?

As long as the dominant partner doesn't take over the submissive's money there isn't any financial risk.

Sexual and emotional extortion? I don't think so. In society, WOMEN are by far the more dominating, life destroying (for men anyway) sex. MARRIAGE AND DIVORCE are the tools women use to financially dominate men. If women don't like something, they call for a divorce, and guess what? IT IS THE MAN WHO SUFFERS even when the woman is wrong.

In my neck of the woods (Ontario, Canada), those that practice Financial Domination, (FinDoms) are 99% Dommes. It's a kink for 'men' to give over all their financial power to a ProDomme. It's a need, a kink, a fetish, an itch that needs scratching. I don't understand it but that being said, most outside of the enema community don't understand our practices. I see some correlation between the FinDom relationship and the Master/slave relationship. They are both on the extreme end of the spectrum. As long as it's a consensual relationship, I don't have a problem with it. It's NMK (not my kink) but i certainly wouldn't kink bash because i don't agree with it or understand it.

At this time I think I will keep what I have and try to make it grow.

But there are submissive females who will have the Dom handle all the finances. So when they work and get paid the Dom controls what and where the money goes. Many of the submissives are happy not to have to make those decisions.

This is not for everyone but for those that want it.

Any man who would get into that sort of a relationship where he gave all his money to his wife or domme to control it is an absolute IDIOT.

I get that some people have a need to be completely controlled and agree that it can be difficult to relate to if it’s not your kink but this kink seems to be easily open to abuse. I’ve seen a lot of young women on various sites offering ‘Fin Dom’ when clearly they have no other experience or desire to be dominant except to take others’ hard earned money. To my mind they won’t give two hoots whether their ‘subs’ go bankrupt or ruin their lives as a result. A true Domme would take control of the finances but in a way that still held true to the Safe, Sane and Consensual principles.

Never gIve your financial info to anyone ever. Especially someone you don't know

Never gIve your financial info to anyone ever. Especially someone you don't know

EVEN YOUR SPOUSE IF YOU ARE MARRIED.

Personally, I do not want a submissive to depend on me or to have any control over her finances. I do not want or need to be a sugar Daddy or to have that much control; I want true submission.

This seems like it would be only for a very advanced relationship. Like years.

I get that this is a fetish for some...I mean ok? but I have to imagine, in many cases, this doesn't go super well....

Keep away from this. It is weaponizing money for the dominant party. I don't know which became more popular first on the internet blackmail or fin dom. Discovered it when a woman I knew was thinking about getting into becoming Fin Dom on another fetish website because she thought it would be easy money.....it is pure greed and a process of looking for weaker lonely men, baiting them and getting them to follow her instructions to build dependance. At that point she DEMANDS a greater sum of money and baits him more. Some women were good at it and scored, good money, and others could not play the role . The women also a sense for knowing when they got all of a guy's money . Trick was to have multiple accounts and names and email addresses and keep changing or deleting them and creating new ones. There were complaints to the websites . I do not know what happened.

My feelings are to never use it, especially in personal relationships .

Stay well clear for your sanity and safety! Some get enormous relief from feeling exploited and/or abused -and there are plenty who will oblige them.

I had to talk a medical colleague who had major issues out of sending cash to a female in USA. Its amazing that sites seem to make this so easy. eg Skype.

Had anyone heard of this? It financial domination. It seemed to me to be sexual and emotional extortion, very risky, what do you think?

Just plain stupid!!!

There are plenty of scummy and abhorrent things to get mixed up in- but why of all things choose something with an explicit paper trail and potential civil/criminal liabilities?

How stupid!

EVEN YOUR SPOUSE IF YOU ARE MARRIED.

Sorry, I have to disagree to some extent. My wife and I are complete partners in everything financial within our marriage. We know many couples this doesn't work for; but, it works very well for us and many others we know. I would agree, though, if one doesn't feel comfortable sharing financial info with a spouse, then don't. Also, if one has any thoughts whatsoever that they and their spouse may not always be together, then it may not be a good idea to share 100% of their financial information.

I handle all our investments, but my wife spends whatever she wants, she has about 70 thousand dollars worth of sewing equipment. Other than that, she does just fine with our money.

Due to our circumstance, I have complete financial control. I make ALL medical decisions and have POA over everything. 20 years ago it was quite different, we both were independent. Times change.

Due to our circumstance, I have completed financial control. I make ALL medical decisions and have POA over everything. 20 years ago it was quite different, we both were independent. Times change.

Your situation isn't really one of financial domination in the BDSM sense, it is one of health issues you have previously discussed.

Due to our circumstance, I have complete financial control. I make ALL medical decisions and have POA over everything. 20 years ago it was quite different, we both were independent. Times change.

Yes, one has to adapt to what life throws at you. It may not be what you want but it is what you have to do to make it work for your situation.