Candaulism

Candaulism is a sexual practice or fantasy in which a man exposes his female partner, or images of her, to other people for their voyeuristic pleasure.

I learned long ago that having other men see my wife nude or nearly so turned me on greatly. On rare occasion this happened in person, but mostly I have shown photos of her nude to others. Over the years, I've shown or traded wife photos in person a few times, by mail and now via the computer.

My wife has always been a beautiful woman who wasn't shy about posing nude , even when I had 35mm photos developed. She understands my fetish and has allowed me to post her pictures on certain websites. Her only proviso is that she has to approve the photos I post. In other words, she wants only classy pictures of her looking good to be shared.

This is a very prevalent male fetish. How many other s feel the way I do? I'd like to discuss how it makes me feel and hear from others how they feel and if they have been active in the pursuit of their candaulism.

My husband most assuredly. He knows what I do here and enthusiastically supports it. He takes most of the pictures. I like to show off, he likes it when I show off. Yet another way we’re compatible.

My husband most assuredly. He knows what I do here and enthusiastically supports it. He takes most of the pictures. I like to show off, he likes it when I show off. Yet another way we’re compatible.

Hi Nurse Phil,

Do you or your husband post your pictures to some of the amateur sites like voyeurweb, xhamster or imagefap, etc to get comments from others? Did you or your husband initiate the nude photography? Does he actively look to show you off to other men?

I love to hear what other guys say about my wife.

You look great in the photos on your profile.

My husband most assuredly. He knows what I do here and enthusiastically supports it. He takes most of the pictures. I like to show off, he likes it when I show off. Yet another way we’re compatible.

Hi, NursePhil,

I agree that your photos in the Album Image section here are very attractive and I'll add my voice to thanking you for sharing them with us. The "fuzzing out" or partial distortion of your face in many of the photos isn't really complete. I'm glad you enjoy exhibitionism and choose to publish your photos, but are you not at all concerned about your privacy and someone being able to eventually track you down or identify you from the photos? I'm hoping you have a good answer to this, as I'm just concerned that your "hobby" doesn't cause any problems for you.

Thanks,

Eric

Do I or does he post elsewhere? He has a profile on Fetlife. Do I worry? Of course I do. I vacillate between the need/desire to post and the fear of repercussion.

I didnt know there was an actual name for this. I think I definately get off on this. I have a really close friend that has seen my wife naked several times. This goes back to the mid eighties. I have always got off on the fact that my wife has walked around nude in front of both of us, usually encouraged by liberal alcohol use but she is fully aware of what she is doing. I totally get off on it. However I'm comfortable with him and his wife. Don't know how it would be with anyone else.

My wife has a summer dress that fits pretty loose and is cut really low on the sides and back. Any average height guy can look right down it and pretty much see everything. If she is in a crowd, shopping or in a line I always see men looking down her dress. I have told her but she likes the dress so she wears it anyway. I tell her wear nice panties because a lot of people are going to see them. So she does.

Ha ha, and I thought I was simply a photography nut who liked to take nudes of my gf/wife and show them off to friends.

Back in the 1970's-80's - long before the Internet - my wife really liked to pose nude, sometimes in semi-public places and I really liked to take photos of her like that. She was never shy about friends seeing them either. I'm pretty sure she was proud of them as well.

I'm not certain if my showing them was rooted in sexual pleasure as such, not entirely primarily in any case. I have always liked showing photos I've taken of all kinds of subjects, not just my nude wife. But still ...

She passed away almost 4 years ago, and on the first anniversary of her death, I gave a commemoration get-together in memory. I compiled a media slide show of photos of her (laboriously scanned from negatives) which included around 25% nudes. I got many positive reactions and also a few negative ones.

I had not heard this term before but this is what I want! I'd love a man to show my body to people

It's nice to know this phenomenon has a formal name.

A few years ago, I responded to a Craigslist ad from a man who was looking for another bi male to be in a three-some with him and his wife. After exchanging e-mails to get acquainted, I was invited to meet him at their house in a nearby town. This was to be sort of an audition; his wife would not be there. We went upstairs to their huge master bedroom, where we stripped down to our shorts, laid on the bed, felt each other up and talked. After awhile, he went to the nightstand and took out a packet of photos (prints) of his wife and offered them to me to look at. She was attractive, a bit plump but curvaceous, and posed provocatively in bra, panties, garter belt, and naked for the pictures, which had obviously be taken in this very bedroom. I started to get hard in my shorts, he likewise in his, watching my excitement, and soon we had the photos spread out on the bed and were masturbating naked, individually and then each other. He was smaller in stature than me, and my cock was quite a bit bigger than his. His curved up to his belly button, mine pointed straight out. I was thinking this is going to be a long and interesting afternoon, expecting his wife to be home from work any moment and the real fun would begin. Instead, he came very quickly once we got to doing it nude, a couple of minutes at the most. He lost further interest almost immediately. I washed up at the bathroom basin while he showered quickly. The we got dressed and I went home.

Several weeks passed without a word, then he called saying he was in my neighborhood showing a property and would I like to get together on his lunch break. I had the house to myself for a few days and said sure. He wanted to get naked and masturbate together again, and brought the pix of his wife including some I didn't see the first time. Things happened quickly just like before and then he was on his way back to work. Never heard from him again after that.

I have to say that the photos were more stimulating to me than any porn I ever saw. It turned me on to be looking at a "real" woman other than my wife in such intimate "real" circumstances.

I have to say that the photos were more stimulating to me than any porn I ever saw. It turned me on to be looking at a "real" woman other than my wife in such intimate "real" circumstances.

It's not really that difficult to find real photos of that kind. Tumblr used to have many groups that posted submitted photos of real girlfriends or wives. There used to be very nice, arousing and charming photo on such groups. Other sites like Imagefap contain more real amateur nudes of girlfriends than you can shake a stick at.

It just takes a bit of searching.