Limp or hard

I know a lot of women aren't turned on by visual stimulation, or at least not like guys, but what do you find more arousing, a male standing naked in front of you limp or with an erection? Just curious.

I don't care about the state of his penis when he is standing in front of me.

A flabby out of shape guy is a turn off to me and I wouldn't care if he had a 6-8-10 or 12 inch erection. I would have zero interest or arousal. His penis size within reason does not matter.

I am more interested in what happens when I play with his penis than its state when I first see the guy standing naked in front of me. I want it to get erect, hard and STAY HARD while I play with or fuck his dick until I get tired of playing with it. He needs to have control. Premature or fast ejaculators need not apply.

I know a lot of women aren't turned on by visual stimulation, or at least not like guys, but what do you find more arousing, a male standing naked in front of you limp or with an erection? Just curious.

Depends what he's doing to me. In essence what his intentions are. Maybe between the two of us, his cock will become hard, I'll become horny, and we'll have some grwat sex.

I would not get turned on by fat or flab or men who do not look after themselves either, it would turn me off. But my husband is very fit because he has got to be and he has got nice muscles how men should have them, he is really sculpted and I am turned on by all of his body really. I like it if his penis is erect or still soft, it just depends what we are doing.

I am more interested in what happens when I play with his penis than its state when I first see the guy standing naked in front of me.

It sounds like you really enjoy the control you have over him. If he's already aroused before you begin to "work on" him, that might take some of the fun out of it for you.

It sounds like you really enjoy the control you have over him. If he's already aroused before you begin to "work on" him, that might take some of the fun out of it for you.

When I was younger playing with many guys, I definitely enjoyed the control I had over boys and men. I AM THE DOMME!

When it comes to my husband, I am not only interested in my having control when I want it, but am interested in doing things I know he likes. It doesn't matter to me if he presents himself to me already erect or if I get him that way. Either way, IT'S ME who causes the erection and I will make sure he has a good time.

I love looking a naked man in front of me. Does not matter if he is limp or erect. I am thinking about what I want to do to him, and with him; what he wants to do to me.

Getting him aroused and hard is a major turn on for me. Its not me being in control, its knowing that I am turning him on. Its how he reacts to me.

I am more physically attracted to bigger men, I definitely prefer a bigger guy than a skinny one.

There are so many parts of a naked guy that I find visually appealing, his dick is on the low end of that list.

His shoulders, back, thighs, arms, jaw....

and of course his face.

I am more physically attracted to bigger men, I definitely prefer a bigger guy than a skinny one.

Bigger, as in overall body size, or bigger, as in cock size?

There are so many parts of a naked guy that I find visually appealing, his dick is on the low end of that list.

His shoulders, back, thighs, arms, jaw....

and of course his face.

Yes, there is more to see on a man than what is between his legs, or what that cock is up too or not.

@JimmyJohnson , lol I was referring to overall body size, not his cock size.

It’s definitely not the size of the cock that matters.

@JimmyJohnson , lol I was referring to overall body size, not his cock size.

It’s definitely not the size of the cock that matters.

So @bridgette. is that your story and are you sticking to it? 😉

But I think your previous answer covered that. 😃

@Ms_Lila, Yes 😉 & Yes ?

Over the years I have seen men of all sizes and shapes nude and regardless they all had their own interesting features.

My roomie has a very nice build, cute butt so I think I am going to keep him. As far as his dick, I think he is extremely sexy when he is soft but I am also well aware that when It gets hard I had better be ready to do something about it.

A limp male member never ever did a girl any good. LOL!

A limp male member never ever did a girl any good. LOL!

You know, you can make a limp one hard and a hard one isn't necessary to give head.

Bridgette, fun to find a lover of dadbods here

When I'm looking at a naked man, I'm looking head to toe! Of course I enjoy a high hard one, but then again it's more fun seeing it grow! One of my favorite things to do is suck and lick while he's getting hard, the feel of it growing inside my mouth and sliding down my throat Wow!

From small acorns tall oak trees can grow

I do like looking at more of the man than his equipment. A limp flaccid penis does not get me wet by itself. If I play with it a bit, I quickly become very wet even if it is not fully heard. The sight of a fully erect penis results in immediate intense arousal and lubrication with a strong desire for immediate penetration. Playing with a partner’s cock through his clothing causes a similar reaction when I realize he is fully erect.

Dita

I enjoy watching it grow hard, feeling it grow hard is nice too. But the sight of an erect penis really gets me going. I want it inside me, deep, long, hard thrusts until he explodes.