Question Regarding Men Who Crave Anal Sex With Men

My bare bottom was first topped by a twenty year old dominant male who had a large circumcised penis when I was a nineteen year old male with long blonde hair, smooth white body, and plump blonde haired bottom with a large pink boypussy. Since that time I have had sex with both men and women, and I now become more highly aroused when I am am a submissive male bottom with a man who will spank my butt cheeks and upper thighs and then top my bare bottom. My favorite position for receiving anal is in the missionary position when I am laying on my back with my legs spread wide open. I am curious as to the age when other males first had anal sex with a male as a top or bottom. I am also curious as to their favorite position for giving or receiving anal sex with a male.

I crave anal sex

I love a hard cock up my ass and toys anything. My ass is tight for 70 y/o man.

Hard to find guys that are available to host as I can’t

My first time I was about 19 and a sexual virgin. I had taken a bus from L.A. to Phoenix to go see a friend. When I arrived in Phoenix it started to rain. I never got wet below the waist it was so hot. I started out walking and this 35-40ish guy pulled over said do you want a ride? Of course I said yes. I got into the car and chatted a bit. He pulled linton a burger stand he bought me lunch. Now remember I am sexually naive and am unaware I am on a date. We wound up at his place where it's cool inside. He told me relax a bit and I did as it was nice there. He gave me about 6 2x4 comics to read, which I did and yes he got his effect. They had caused an erection. I am still not aware of what's happening or what is going on. After I finish the 2x4's he says go take a shower! I am still following his directions. I enter the bathroom and the first thing I notice are the pictures of naked men. I still didn't put 2 and 2 together. I took my shower and came out of the shower. He told me get in bed. I climbed in bed as told to. Next he was putting me in doggy position and lubing my virginal ass. Then he climbed in and told me to accept what he was giving me. He pushed his cock into me and I winced. That didn't stop him. He told me breathe and relax then he continued entering me. When he was fully in me he pulled me tight to him. I could feel him deep in me then he got to in out stage of fucking me. After 5 mins of him in me I loved him in me. It took 20 mins before him came deep in me.

To be honest I loved him in me. But at that point in life it not a good thing as it was considered bad. It took me years to understand it's ok to accept that position.

I am just glad he recognized something in me I didnt6.

My second time being taken was 3 years later in the Valley, I dressed in my purple the dyed pants and went out hitching. A 35ish fellow picked me up. Upon sitting down in the car he reached over and put his hand on the inside of my thigh. I immediately opened a bit wider and slid over towards him. We wound up at his apartment. He told me sit on the couch after I did we started kissing. I was getting turned on by all this attention. We stayed on the couch for about 30 minutes, his hands all over me. I was to say the least very hot and turned on. He opened my pants and freed my errect cock. Then he sucked me off, I swear I never have had a climax a great as that one was. He then asked me how I wanted it. I got into head down ass up position. He told me strip and get into position which I did. He took me and I enjoyed it greatly. It felt so awesome afterwards. We talked I asked him if I could come back to play more of course he said yes and I kept coming back.

I am one of those bi sex males who loves to be fucked in the ass. First got it when around 12 from same age friend and have loved it ever since. Am now 75 so you can imagine how many times I have been fucked, lost count many years ago ha. I get super turned on just thinking about something in my ass and frequently wear a butt plug around during the day and often sleep with one in me.

The wife is super staight and has no idea about this side of me. She thinks anything anal is a horrible perverted thing. Other than that she is a wonderful woman who I love dearly and still like fucking her every chance I get even at out age. Love giving her oral sex and one time many years ago I tried slipping a finger in her ass and she totally freaked out with a bit "don't ever do that again."

Even I find this arrangement odd but it seems to work for us. I usually have only one BF at a time that lasts for several years. Am attracted to mature slim trim tops but actually also find other anal bottom male friends enjoyable too. So yes I can very much say I crave anal sex with men. Have been to a few gay parties where I have been fucked by 3-4 men in one evening and loved every one as much as the one before, then get my butt plug in for the drive home. I believe my handle of "EasyEntry" is earned, ha.

I WISH I could feel what it’s like to bottom, but I’m married and I won’t cheat on my wife. She has no idea and would think I was gay for wanting it so badly. She doesn’t understand that my need has nothing to do with desiring men, I’m not attracted to men at ALL. I just want to be topped, to feel a cock in my ass and hands on my hips. Unless I get divorced, that will never happen though.

I WISH I could feel what it’s like to bottom, but I’m married and I won’t cheat on my wife. She has no idea and would think I was gay for wanting it so badly. She doesn’t understand that my need has nothing to do with desiring men, I’m not attracted to men at ALL. I just want to be topped, to feel a cock in my ass and hands on my hips. Unless I get divorced, that will never happen though.

Do you have a dildo? Will she use fingers? I'm in the process of feeling out my partner on anal play, but it seems as though there are plenty of ways to explore on your own or with her, and it also seems like it is so much better with someone you love and who you know and who knows you. That said I haven't gotten very far yet with her, just fingers.

I’m not attracted to men at ALL. I just want to be topped, to feel a cock in my ass and hands on my hips.

Do you want a man's penis up your ass - or maybe just a strap on? What you describe sounds bi-sexual. You don't have to love someone to have sex with them.

I would enjoy a strap on from a female - but not a real cock from a male.

As I've answered to other topics already, I made my first experiences 9 years ago at age 14. I had a friend who was 17, near 18, and he sort of introduced me to that. The first times were painful and it took long time until he could enter my tight bum, and when he was inside and fucked me like obsessed, I regretted my decision finding out how anL sex feels. But he always was able to motivate me and convince me that I could handle it better next times.

I like to switch into several positions, but I like most when I lay on my tummy.

I was a late bloomer and did not start my bisexual play with other men until I was in my late 50's. All through my 30s and 40s, I was bi-curious but it took quite sometime to reconcile my sexuality from heterosexual to bisexual. It truly has taken a lifetime to evolve to where I am today.

I have been a top and used several positions. I would say from a topping standpoint, doggy style works best for me. I like the visual of seeing his anus and my penis penetrating. Also from a functional standpoint, you have the ability to vary the angle of penetration making it more pleasurable for both partners. I would also say all these topping preferences hold true when I am having anal sex with a man or woman.

If I am being penetrated, I would have to say I like being on my back with my legs pulled back. There is nothing more intense than getting fucked hard and having your penis stroked either by you or better yet by your partner.

It's hard to choose between being a top or bottom- I like all anal sex. But lately I have tended to prefer being the bottom. You just let yourself go and soak up all the intense sensations your body is feeling. It is truly an amazing sexual experience.

I WISH I could feel what it’s like to bottom, but I’m married and I won’t cheat on my wife. She has no idea and would think I was gay for wanting it so badly. She doesn’t understand that my need has nothing to do with desiring men, I’m not attracted to men at ALL. I just want to be topped, to feel a cock in my ass and hands on my hips. Unless I get divorced, that will never happen though.

Sad to read. I'm lucky in that my wife does not have a problem with my bi activities. Like you I am not attracted to men but simply like them doing things to me, as well as sharing my interests of women in girdles and panties...

I crave anal sex, but it doesn't have to be a man.

I WISH I could feel what it’s like to bottom, but I’m married and I won’t cheat on my wife. She has no idea and would think I was gay for wanting it so badly. She doesn’t understand that my need has nothing to do with desiring men, I’m not attracted to men at ALL. I just want to be topped, to feel a cock in my ass and hands on my hips. Unless I get divorced, that will never happen though.

That is exactly my situation.

Do you want a man's penis up your ass - or maybe just a strap on? What you describe sounds bi-sexual. You don't have to love someone to have sex with them.

I use dildos almost daily. My wife has declined joining me and using them on me. Bi-sexual? Most likely. However, more than a man's cock, I'd like to have a transsexual or passable cross dresser fuck my ass after I've performed oral sex and swallowed a load of cum. What's the difference? Likely the presentation as hairy legs, chest, etc. just don't do anything for me.

But, at my age I don't think I'll ever have this happen.

There seems to be many older, Married men, including myself, who have led 100% straight lives who, for various reasons have cravings, yes CRAVINGS, to be anally fucked. In my case, I can no longer have sex with my wife due to prostate issues (cancer/radiation) which have caused permanent ED. However, my asshole is still very receptive and sensitive to orgasmic sensations. Buttplugs and dildos are fine to try to satisfy this craving of wanting to be fucked, but a nice warm and caring body in the mix would be nice, too. Pegging might be a good solution here, but what options are left when a wife won’t even consider strapping up and fucking you? Many of the men here are married and truly want to stay married, but their wives think they are suddenly gay, or weird, for wanting some intimate anal attention.

I am curious how it would feel to have anal sex as a bottom. I am not choosy as to woman with a strap-on or a man, although being pegged by a man would make the experience more "natural." Plus, having a man kum inside me would be an additional treat. I think having a woman peg me would also be a very enjoyable experience but in a different way. In any case, a good round of enemas-to-clear would be great foreplay regardless of the sex of the "administrator." I am mostly straight but I now recognize my enjoyment with male partners, too, which has, alas, never included anal sex.

Pegging might be a good solution here, but what options are left when a wife won’t even consider strapping up and fucking you? Many of the men here are married and truly want to stay married, but their wives think they are suddenly gay, or weird, for wanting some intimate anal attention.

I don't think my wife would think I'm gay by having her, or another woman, use a strap on to give me some anal pleasure. If it were another man, that's a different story. What I can envision her thinking if it were anyone other than her is that she has "lost" me. I think it would be difficult to understand that I could enjoy sex with another person without having an emotional attachment; because, we have neither one strayed on the other and our sex together has not only been a fun time; but, it has usually been part of the emotional bond between us.

Am I really displaying bisexual tendencies if I want to bottom to a man? I know that initially, this question sounds stupidly obvious, but...I’m not in the LEAST BIT attracted to men. At ALL. I’m not in denial, I don’t force myself to look away or rationalize when I see a man who would be considered universally attractive. I’m simply not interested the way I am when I see a beautiful big assed wide hipped woman.

Maybe it’s all semantics, but I always assumed that the definition of homosexuality/bisexuality is ATTRACTION to a member of the same sex. I’m ATTRACTED to passable transwomen even though they have the same parts as men (if they’re preop) but if you take that same transwoman and dress her up to match those parts, the attraction goes out the window, and I know that a man can be attracted to a transwoman and still consider himself “straight” because a transwoman is a WOMAN.

Yet....I’d still love to be topped by a man. No kissing (the very idea of kissing a man makes me very uncomfortable yuck), no sensuality, just fucking. Still, I just don’t feel like I can honestly call myself bisexual.

Am I really displaying bisexual tendencies if I want to bottom to a man?

Yes.

. . . . if you take that same transwoman and dress her up to match those parts, the attraction goes out the window, and I know that a man can be attracted to a transwoman and still consider himself “straight” because a transwoman is a WOMAN.

That really is going to depend on who you ask, because a transwoman is a man who may or may not have had a lot of plastic surgery and/or hormones and/or adopted the life of a woman. You can change your appearance and your lifestyle, but you can't change what you are.

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Am I really displaying bisexual tendencies if I want to bottom to a man?

Yes.

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Yet....I’d still love to be topped by a man. No kissing (the very idea of kissing a man makes me very uncomfortable yuck), no sensuality, just fucking. Still, I just don’t feel like I can honestly call myself bisexual.

I thought you said a trans woman was a woman. You see, you can't even convince yourself.

Am I really displaying bisexual tendencies if I want to bottom to a man? .

It doesn't really matter one way or the other. Don't worry about labeling yourself and don't give a fig if there are others trying to do the labeling in your place. It is more important not to pass up opportunities which may never come again.

@SwitchableSusie: ...... because a transwoman is a man who may or may not have had a lot of plastic surgery and/or hormones and/or adopted the life of a woman. You can change your appearance and your lifestyle, but you can't change what you are.

So very true!

My first time was with an older man 56 when I was 22 and we got into a relationship for about 3 years and after a couple months being in it he did my first time was very gentle with me

Am I really displaying bisexual tendencies if I want to bottom to a man?

YES!

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I know that initially, this question sounds stupidly obvious, but...I’m not in the LEAST BIT attracted to men. At ALL. I’m not in denial, I don’t force myself to look away or rationalize when I see a man who would be considered universally attractive.

You ARE in denial and are lying to yourself.

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I’m simply not interested the way I am when I see a beautiful big assed wide hipped woman.

You can be bisexual and still have a preference for one sex over the other.

I crave anal sex, giving and receiving, but not with a man. I’ve only been with women. Fingers, tongues, dildos, buttplugs, strapons.

Having said that, if my girlfriend said she wanted to watch a guy fuck me, I’d consider it. Ive wondered what it would be like, feeling a warm cock moving in and out of me, and what the feeling is like feeling the ejaculation in me.

I’ll probably never know.

@richardasni, we are about in the same boat. For many years I've thoroughly enjoyed my wife having administering anal pleasure to me, and me to her.

Years ago she mentioned she would like to watch me get my ass fucked by a man. That has never materialized but I'm still open to the experience.

I crave being pegged or being bent over. But this is coming from someone who is submitting his man hood to others. For others plaster.

I crave being pegged or being bent over. But this is coming from someone who is submitting his man hood to others. For others plaster.

Assume spellcheck got you and you meant “to please”. Nothing wrong with that if that’s what you want. Good luck safely finding that. 😀

Interesting to read of men who would do M/M if their female partners want them to; but otherwise they say wouldn't. Now I like to receive but not give anal in M/M relationships and no amount of my wife's wanting me to be a giver could change that..

I bottomed for the first time with a long time friend from school. He was average size and he was gentle. I loved tgat experience. Since then I have had larger and more aggressive partners and I really enjoy being pounded.

This may sound weird but I have no romantic attraction to a man. Having said that I absolutely love being fucked by another man. I enjoy the sexual experience but beyond that I could never "fall in love" with a man. I dream about being naked with a man and at the same time I adore a beautiful woman and especially a naked one. When alone I love wearing a butt plug and or riding a cock dildo in my ass as much as possible and I am very anally erratic. Started shoving things in my ass when less that 12 and now 76 and still at it. Also married to the same woman for over 50 years and just love having sex with her and playing with her naked body. Is this a total ying/yang situation or what. I guess I could be labeled very bi sexual. I just love sex, ha.