Masturbation Techniques

I masturbate quite regularly, as in daily. However, with said, I lost my prostate to cancer in 2007 and now have total and complete ED. I haven't had an erection since 7/25/2007. I had quad by-pass in 2001. Following that, combined with being an insulin dependent diabetic, I needed the blue pill to get hard. Anyway, now I masturbate either while relaxing in the tub while bathing in the morning as well as giving myself 1 or more enemas. I may be masturbating while taking in the enema and I may be masturbating while using my anal toys after the enemas are expelled. Or both. I also masturbate in my recliner during the evenings. Quite often my wife is on the couch and is likely unaware of what I'm doing. She will lay on the couch facing the TV and be on her Chromebook. My recliner is in the corner of the room behind the end of the couch she rests her head on. She cannot see me masturbating and I try to be quiet so as not to disturb her. She goes to bed between 10 & 11 p.m. while I go to bed between 1 & 3 a.m. You can bet I also masturbate after she's gone to bed. I just wish I could still shoot a nice cum load like I could in my younger days. Anyway, there are times I massage my cock thru my diaper (as I'm doing right now) and there are times I stroke it. It's all fun.

I love to play with anal toys, and I'm not going to call it masterbation, because that will come after the stretching and insertions.

I start with a couple of enemas to be clean. (1 hour)

Than I turn on pornhub and get simulating videos to help me get crazy. 😃 As the videos play, i play. XXXL insertions and colon depth play goes on for probably 2 hours, without orgasm, on purpose.

Than after reaching my playing goals and statisfaction, i place my toys in the bathtub for cleaning, and while they soak and take their tub, I'm going back to bed for my orgasm, and that's where my masterbation starts.

I switch the pornhub video's to blowjob's or anal intercourse and use my hand or vibrator to finish my night.

Most of the time I cum in 10 to 20 minutes...

So that's my repertoire... On average 3 hours, not including cleaning and shower afterwards.

I like it. (I have no sex partner)

Favorite solo is hooked up to my ET312b, with a balloon nozzle inserted and filling me up.

This thread reminds me of an old college joke. There are two types of girls, those, who masturbate and liars.

This thread reminds me of an old college joke. There are two types of girls, those, who masturbate and liars.

That joke goes back GENERATIONS for ALL people.

Those who masturbate and those who lie and deny it.

Talking to various women about masturbation I was interested to learn that quite a few masturbate while laying on their front, I always assumed that most women would masturbate while laying on their back with their knees up and legs open. One of my close female friends had a chair in her spare bedroom and would sit in that with her legs apart and masturbate, she gave me a demonstration.

I remember when I was a boy around age 14 another boy asked me if I masturbated, embarrassed I said no do you? He replied no. Of course we were both liars...lol.

This thread reminds me of an old college joke. There are two types of girls, those, who masturbate and liars.

Nice to hear that from you considering the closeness of our ages. That exact saying was what we said about other boys when I was in HS. My wife refused to admit it too which surprised the hell out of me considering she was able to show me exactly where to rub and lick. I still can't find her clit. It is the best hidden one I've never seen. But maybe she wasn't as experienced as I thought she should be. She was furious when our son came home telling about the girl next door and her little sister forcefully removing the pants off him and his little brother to see what was in there then showing them theirs. I thought about when that happened to me and our ages were about the same so I just felt it was normal. Then she was furious at me for not being furious about what they did to our boys. It took me quite a bit of talking to keep her from making a scene about the girls with their parents.

Having had seed implants and hormone shot makes masturbation more difficult. Usually a warm soap enema of about 3 qts in me and getting on line to view a pegging video may get me started and then some rubbing. The good news is can get to some relief and climax but no ejaculation. It is not as satisfying as intercourse or prior to the radiation but is some relief. The best relief is a prostate massage but usually my wife is not in the mood to push my button. Guess a guy has to do what a guy has to do but getting into mid 70s is not kind to you and body breaks down but at least my mind wants to keep trying.

I remember when I was a boy around age 14 another boy asked me if I masturbated, embarrassed I said no do you? He replied no. Of course we were both liars...lol.

Why am I NOT surprised that you are NOT masters of your own domain. (a la Seinfeld)

@switchable

Why am I NOT surprised that you are NOT masters of your own domain. (a la Seinfeld)

Why am I surprised you would say that when you know exactly how to make it happen?

https://www.google.com/url?sa=i&url=https%3A%2F%2Fgr.pinterest.com%2Fpin%2F186758715770849297%2F&psig=AOvVaw0LLsLZ8MoCfIYcj0ql1Ltz&ust=1604169534678000&source=images&cd=vfe&ved=0CAIQjRxqFwoTCJCq2sr73OwCFQAAAAAdAAAAABAT

Talking to various women about masturbation I was interested to learn that quite a few masturbate while laying on their front, I always assumed that most women would masturbate while laying on their back with their knees up and legs open.

My first wife masturbated while sitting in her easy chair, usually while reading her latest "bodice ripper". She would play with herself for a LONG time...

My second wife did not often orgasm while fucking, but preferred to masturbate on the bed, face down, on her knees with a pillow between her legs, using her favorite "egg" vibrator. When she started, she wanted me to leave her alone, but would tell me to fuck her from behind after she had her first orgasm. Later on in our life, she would allow me to start fucking her as she approached orgasm, and we could come together.

Seinfeld--master of my domain, the contest [in this order]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGhg-htVnJ0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=61zJHstzOoY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8ykCeX7IuUM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3T6svuWuCug

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Dpb5wczv_c0

squeezing them together to apply more pressure.

So you're the one who taught her to do that as soon as my fingers head south.

Having had seed implants and hormone shot makes masturbation more difficult. Usually a warm soap enema of about 3 qts in me and getting on line to view a pegging video may get me started and then some rubbing. The good news is can get to some relief and climax but no ejaculation. It is not as satisfying as intercourse or prior to the radiation but is some relief. The best relief is a prostate massage but usually my wife is not in the mood to push my button. Guess a guy has to do what a guy has to do but getting into mid 70s is not kind to you and body breaks down but at least my mind wants to keep trying.

Isitfull,

If you haven't yet, you can learn to massage your own prostate with a firm device when your wife can't do it when you need it. I'm nearing 69 and have very bad ED from both age and years of antidepressants. I can still orgasm with a very weak erection, but sometimes I massage my prostate through the anus and rectum with an njoy brand PureWand, a long Stainless Steel toy with a 1" or 1.5" ball on each end. Either end works and it's firm enough to give a fine massage. It's feels wonderful, almost like a continuous penile masturbated orgasm and I've occasionally managed to induce a prostate orgasm. Let me know if I can provide any other information.

All the best,

Eric

First, I'm circumcised. I like to masturbate sitting with no pants or undershorts. It's always better to use lube. I concentrate on the head of my penis, particularly the area under the frenulum where I am most sensitive. I enjoy gripping just enough to get a little friction by grasping and sliding my hand over the head. I vary the up and down motion with twisting, like holding a greased door knob not tight enough to turn it. After reading about male masturbation I learned that many men do not get enough stimulation, so I learned to stimulate myself more effectively. Too much stimulation is preferred to too little, but I don't ruin the fun by cumming too fast. I stretch out the enjoyment. I don't usually use a masturbation sleeve. Some male soft rubber vagina toys provide too much stimulation, but they can give you an intense orgasm. If you go the toy route experiment to find the right balance.

New masturbation method at the age of 75

I have been masturbating regularly for 66 years now. Now at the age of 75, my urinal system is so dull that I can only trigger an orgasm with great difficulty. This is important to me because I want to pass the ejaculate out. That's why I developed a new masturbation method for myself. I masturbate as before with the 3 finger method, using the entire stroke of the foreskin up to the glans. In addition, I insert a 10mm ball dilator through the prostate. This allows me to stimulate my prostate and urethra during masturbation by moving the dilator back and forth. The dilator is thin enough that I can ejaculate without any problems. Because I get a 13mm dilator into my urethra.

I usually start with porn. What kind depends on my mood. Usually it’s something with at least some BDSM. The Foundry used to have some good stuff. They’d do some non-consent medical play that wasn’t horrible. Honestly I hate most Med Fet movie stuff. It’s either too clinical or too dumb. If I’m not into BDSM it’s usually orgy porn. I like the costume swinger parties. I’ll watch until I start getting aroused and will then play with myself. Rubbing my clit and if I have time to spend my nipples, edging for a while. If i don’t have time to spend I’ll get the vibe right away and go for relief.

New masturbation method at the age of 75

I have been masturbating regularly for 66 years now. Now at the age of 75, my urinal system is so dull that I can only trigger an orgasm with great difficulty. This is important to me because I want to pass the ejaculate out. That's why I developed a new masturbation method for myself. I masturbate as before with the 3 finger method, using the entire stroke of the foreskin up to the glans. In addition, I insert a 10mm ball dilator through the prostate. This allows me to stimulate my prostate and urethra during masturbation by moving the dilator back and forth. The dilator is thin enough that I can ejaculate without any problems. Because I get a 13mm dilator into my urethra. 😄

https://www.erotikforum.at/galerie/penis-mit-frenulektomie-und-meatotomie.451851/

Jagtstein,

What is a ball dilator? A urethral sound with a ball on one end? You push the ball in first far enough in to reach your prostate and stimulate it from within? And then hand masturbate?

Thanks,

Eric

I don't post to Zity too much any more. I've been on and off several times over the years. But, I do get on and read the posts fairly regularly on enemas and masturbation. My two greatest sexual pleasures.

I'm 70+ and have have been a serious masturbator for about 62 years. And that's just about the time that I developed my love for enemas also. Of course I've slowed down on both but the desire is still there. I guess we all probably masturbated every day for years and then things sort of slow down but I still masturbate a couple of times a week. Difficult to get a super hard erection but I have to have some good vids to watch and some hot fantasies to think about. In recent years I've resorted to different vibrators and put them right on the frenulum if I've having a difficult time in reaching orgasm. You don't have to be super hard and that method will bring you to orgasm quickly and the intensity of the orgasm is really amazing.

Other than that I just masturbate as I always have encircling the shaft with my hand and moving the skin over the glans. Edging is something that I continue to do a lot and it brings on a much stronger orgasm if you can delay cumming. Takes a lot of willpower but the payoff is worth it. I also like to have something in my anus as I'm very sensitive. A lot of that comes from masturbating while taking an enema. I'm glad to be able to continue to enjoy and love masturbation and would hate to no be able to feel the ecstasy of an orgasm.

I enjoyed reading everyone's post especially the ladies. Female masturbation might possibly be my greatest turn on especially if they love enemas too.

I pushed a urethral vibrator straight into the urethra and into the prostate, no problems with a 10mm diameter. Unfortunately the vibration is too low so that I cannot trigger an orgasm. So I also have to masturbate. 😄

These days I use a nice dildo in my ass, nuzzling my prostate, and hold a wand vibrator against my cock which is tucked between and behind my closed thighs. I don't need to get hard and after a while I start moving back and forth and then explode in an incredible orgasm.

At 76, I still do it mostly the same way as the first time at 12 - in the shower in the morning while soaping myself up. Something about the hot water, steam, slipperiness of the soap on my body, imagination racing through fantasies old and new, opening the shower curtain and studying the image of my aroused body, glistening wet, in the mirror, watching the expression on my face as climax approaches.

Other than trying to have a plug in my ass when I masturbate nothing else really but I remember when I was a teen I would right down names of people i knew on small pieces of paper, through them in a box then whoever I picked out of the box would be the one I had to think about while I masturbated.

I have two ways of masturbation:

1. Stroking my uncut penis up and down. This is the most common technique.

2. Doing a spinning movement on the glans without retracting the foreskin with right hand and pulling the foreskin down or rubbing up and down with left hand. Lying on my back. Most of the time I do this semi nude. Just before sleeping.

I have many techniques and use them often;

A vibrator attached to my penis with or without a condom

A needle or toothpick point stroking the underside

Rubbing the pee slit

One finger on the frenulum

My small Fleshlight

All of these are sometimes done with a condom

I Inserted three prostate vibrators with a diameter of 10 mm and a length of 8 cm through the urethra into the prostate.The result is disappointing, unfortunately the vibration strength is not enough for me to trigger an orgasm. I use a Hegar dilator so that I can get the vibrator into the prostate or urinary bladder. I now leave the dilator in the urethra so that the vibrators don't wander out. Thanks for the tip. Unfortunately, the vibration is not enough for me to ejaculate. But experimenting is still fun. If I create an orgasm with additional masturbation, the ejaculate can easily flow out past the vibrators because my urethra is expanded to 13mm. 😄

I replied about my regular place on a similar thread. For technique a for many years it has been the shower, ideally after my workout.

I’ve done it a few times at the gym excitingly being close to others though usually not visible nor audible: behind a flimsy slightly see through curtain. Once there was no one in the shower bay so I have done it without pulling the curtain. That was a huge turn on.

But at home I can indulge more.

I’ve a good shower with different sprays. I often start with a cold shower to liven up the senses then gradually raise the temperature. Playing the water on my penis, balls and anus is a wonderful sensation.

My ex wife watched me a few times but she had the expressiveness of concrete so we couldn’t share the experience as such. Therefore I’d really love to be watched again. As I reach my climax thinking of someone watching usually tips me over the edge. Though occasionally I’ll video it or contort myself to come on my face.

I thought this would be a common technique but unless I’ve missed it I don’t see such detail on here. By all means correct me!

Even though my gal is okay with my jerking off, I keep it somewhat hidden - doing it while sitting here at my desk such that you can't really see what I'm doing. I have to be looking at women in panties, girdles, or pantyhose while doing it, and I use a pair of nylon panties..

@curtina This thread might be of interest to you. You’ll see my favourite technique is similar.

I like to pamper myself with terry towels. Different towel structure brings different sensations! Accordingly, like a wet towel, these are some sensations, and dry fluffy - quite another! As for the technique, I like to cover myself with towels, caress the head of the penis with another fluffy towel! Although I use other techniques; of the simplest - wrapping the penis with a towel and performing appropriate movements; to other options! It all depends on the imagination that sometimes arises during the process!