Masturbation Techniques

I'm interested in knowing how people Masturbate. Boys and Girls, whatever age. How do you do it? When and where? Do you just go for it whenever, do you have a ritual or a build up?

I read once of a guy who used a complex system of dice rolling, each score referring to a chart or list of things he had to do to himself. He would roll his dice at set times during the day, and by the time he got home he had a full procedure to follow.

I also once heard of a masturbation club, where guys would meet for a social evening, genitals out on display. The rule was that a guy could fondle any set except his own, and nobody could avoid fondling. At a set time relief was allowed, but again, only by somebody else, and the owner of said cock and balls had no choice over who attended to him, or how!!

So... Tell me your methods... The weirder and more challenging the better!!

As a diapered guy in a whhelchair I just put electrodes on penis and estim anytime I want ,with variable settings I can do anything from flaccid to fully erect to climax .obviously ejaculate is just another body waste that diapers are expert at containing and controlling. Being it's hands free anywhere anytime .

How do you do it? When and where? Do you just go for it whenever, do you have a ritual or a build up?

Usually I pick a time when I'm not likely or least likely to be disturbed. I sit in my chair in front of the computer and arrange some images on my screen. I choose a jockstrap to wear, based on my state of cleanliness. I imagine being on display in my jockstrap as the folks in the images are looking at me. I may be standing, and as I look at myself in a mirror off to the side, I'm imagining it is their views of me. I imagine my hands being tied or cuffed behind my back, so I can offer no resistance to them feeling me up and fondling me over my jock as they please. Occasionally when conditions are right, I'll actually cuff my hands behind my back as I face them.

At some point after this makes me hard, I imagine them grabbing hold of my waistband and pulling down my jock to expose me to them. Then i situate myself in the chair. It may be a game, where they take turns stroking me, and the one holding my cock when I cum is the "winner". They enjoy the humiliation they are bringing me, and taking advantage of having the power to jack me off and make me cum. Especially that point where I lose all control and start ejaculating.

Any time I feel the need, I find privacy and then masturbate. Sometimes when I have been reading posts on here it really stirs interest and I have to attend to it by masturbating.

Usually naked or pants down to my ankles, on my knees on the bed, head down. Reaching back between my legs with my hand to caress my balls as I fantasize about a woman, maybe a former girlfriend or a classmate I used to daydream about or a colleague who I see everyday at work who has no idea I lust after her. Once hard I usually stroke myself against a tshirt, fucking it until I come. Eyes closed the whole time, imagining that I'm in her mouth or pussy or ass.

Usually lie on my front with a t-shirt on but undressed on the lower half and drape a cover over myself. Put my hand over my vulva and grind into it against my bed. Now I've been on hormones for a while (I'm trans) my clit has grown a lot, so I have to make sure that it's between two of my fingers. Siding it up and down against them helps too. I often have a butt plug or my tail in.

While I'm grinding into my right hand my left is usually under my t-shirt - exploring my hairy stomach or occasionally tweaking a nipple.

I sometimes lie on my back and just pull / stroke my clit but this is how I masturbate the vast majority of the time.

I need to wear underwear to masturbate, because the friction from the underwear itself is what stimulates me. Rubbing my bits through my underwear is actually a leftover childhood habit that started as just a way to relax, but after puberty, became a sexual act. I'll just rub and squish my bits against my crotch from outside my pants. If I masturbate often, I'll need to do laundry more. But at least I never mess the bed or the floor.

How does a man have a vulva and clit?

How does a man have a vulva and clit?

The member is transitioning from female to male.

The post says

Now I've been on hormones for a while (I'm trans) my clit has grown a lot,

I'm sorry my friends. Call me cynical but my Bullshit Meter is going off in this thread.

I almost always masturbate in bed. I am usually naked or in just a big tee. Sometimes while watching porn or reading erotica, sometimes reading something here or cybering with a “ friend”.

Almost always I am on my tummy and start by gently rubbing my pussy, grinding into my hand, as I get wet I will rub up and down my slit then slip a finger into my vagina....once I start to get really worked up I rub my juices into my clit, small circles around and around, a finger on each side, then when I am getting close and my clit is swollen and throbbing, I will rub directly on my clit with a steady pressure, hips grinding, all the way to the finish line ???

I start the masturbation with the 3 finger method, that is. Middle and index fingers of the right hand on the bottom of the penis and thumbs up. This is best because at my age, (73 years) the penis does not get stiff so fast anymore. Then when the excitation potential increases, I take as before the whole hand. I always push the foreskin back and forth the whole stroke. That's just the advantage of masturbation that you can satisfy even without a full erection.

As a lubricant, butter has been found to be best over time, but I used to use a fat cream that is not so good on the skin in the long term. Above all, it is important to wash the penis well after use, cleanliness is very important for a habitual masturbator like me because the penis must always be in good condition.

Occasionally I use the electric masturbation to orgasm.

I am 73 years old and have so far masturbates about 27,595 times 42years ago , I have my frenulum removed themselves what is praeputii I had good success without scarring.

My problem is that I unfortunately can not masturbate every day like I'm used to it . The reason for this is the erection fails and the stimulation to orgasm is not enough. The sperm production is however still at high levels , which leads to tension and a feeling of fullness in the prostate area. So I looked for a way the sperm often possible to derive .

It looks like I have with the electrical stimulation found a way to achieve my goal .

I bought a Vita Tronic TENS device with the following technical data.

Output voltage: idle 0 to 80 V

With terminating resistor 500 Ohm

Pulse Amplitude: measured at 500 ohm termination resistor , 0 to 90 mA

( max. output power )

Frequency: 1-250 Hz

With this device, I manage to trigger an orgasm.

The one electrode I mount under the foreskin where my frenulum was (or I push a metal rod into the urethra ) , and the other electrode I push , Insulated to the front of the anus. With this arrangement I can stimulate the prostate optimal.

I masturbate now for 63 years, always alone and so I would leave it.

I start the masturbation with the 3 finger method, that is. Middle and index fingers of the right hand on the bottom of the penis and thumbs up. This is best because at my age, (73 years) the penis does not get stiff so fast anymore. Then when the excitation potential increases, I take as before the whole hand. I always push the foreskin back and forth the whole stroke. That's just the advantage of masturbation that you can satisfy even without a full erection.

As a lubricant, butter has been found to be best over time, and I used to use a fat cream that is not so good on the skin in the long term. Above all, it is important to wash the penis well after use, cleanliness is very important for a habitual masturbator like me because the penis must always be in good condition.

Occasionally, I also use the electric masturbation to come to orgasm.

I am 73 years old and have masturbated about 27595 times so far 40 years ago I have removed my Frenulum praeputii even what I managed well without scarring.

My problem is that unfortunately I can not masturbate every day as I am used to it. The reason is that the erection is missing and also the stimulation to orgasm is not enough.

I lie on my back fully naked with my legs spread wide. I trace my nipples with my finger tips and gently work my way down to my clit. Gently rubbing and then introduce one, two and three fingers to my vag. I sometimes use my rabbit vibrator too. I fantasize about a large heavy man holding me down and penetrating me hard and thrusting deep filling me with his cum.

I strip completely except for a pair of white briefs and lie supine on my bed. I typically like thinking about physical examination experiences, so, I am dressed to simulate the exam experience. I slip down the briefs to upper thigh level, completely exposing and freeing the penis and scrotum. I usually watch a video of a man receiving a handjob or an exam video, either an educational video or a Dr. Dean film. I work up to full erection by stroking the penis with the right hand and stimulating the balls with the left hand. I usually masturbate with no lube, moving the skin on my shaft up and down as much as I can, but occasionally, I will wear an exam glove and use lube to stroke the head. I position my hand with the thumb on the top side of my penis and the rest of my fingers underneath. Ejaculation is onto chest and abdomen.

I’ve had ED and low-T for about the last five years. The first year after, I was totally inactive sexually--no more relationships, right up to the present time. My only sexual outlet has been masturbating.

Throughout my life up to that point, I mainly stuck with the pumping-by-hand technique, embellishing it with a good deal of stroking and occasional lube with soap and water. Nowadays I bounce my dick up and down, as if I were trying to hold a hot sausage. I’ll then alternate this with shaking it rapidly back and forth, just like my dad did shaking his long wang after a piss back on the farm. I suppose this feels a lot better for uncut guys than we two, as most porn videos I watch has their shaking leading them to a good jerk-off. (I guess this is what’s also known as “spanking the weasel.”)

In any case, it’s what brings me to orgasm.

At 79 with a wife who has spent her whole life discouraging sex I no longer get an erection but I masturbate a lot. Masturbation has been my main source of sex for most of my life anyway. I still have a foreskin but I desensitized my glans close to 50 years ago so I can play with it. I have no frenulum so I can pull it all the way down leaving my whole shaft covered with very enjoyable inner foreskin without pulling on the tip of my penis. I pull it all the way back and clean the whole thing, inner foreskin and glans, with rubbing alcohol. When that dries there is no stickiness and my fingers can slide over the whole dry thing easily. I pull back and forward on the inner foreskin for a delightful feeling. Then I go for sliding them up and down over the glans holding it tightly and paying special attention to the groove behind the head. I can play with the glans for as long as I want before going for the big "O".Then I put one of my socks over it to catch the semen but also for the feeling of the material rubbing my glans. Another variation is rubbing the glans between my thumb and fingers in a twisting motion. All that is done dry but I've recently found that rubbing it with baby wipes feels nice too and they catch the semen also. But mainly I just do the dry rubbing and sock method.

I stopped using the hand stroke about 10 years ago or so. I became interested in "hands free" orgasms and thought it would be interesting to try. I really didn't think it was possible but I wanted to experiment. I knew I could always end by hand anyway. I saw how well a vibrator, during sex, brought my wife to the finish line and was thinking that a woman's clitoris is similar and as sensitive as the head of a guy's penis and wondered if it would work the same way on myself. The first time I tried with a Hitachi Wand, I thought it was a waste of time but I persisted to go for the Hands Free orgasm. Finally, after a few times, it worked! I blasted an incredible, long lasting orgasm, one of the best I ever gave myself and I really didn't touch myself. I tried again next time and it happened again, I was hooked! It took a bit of practice but now it's the only way I fly! I now use a "Miracle Massager", turn it to low vibrate, and keep it close to the penis head and it works every time. It's discrete as well, I can use it fully clothed, just holding it in my zipper or over my pants. I sometimes wear thick undies or plastic pants to help with the ejaculation mess. I also used e-stim, but it's no where near as reliable. Now I only vibrate, it's so easy to control and it's "plug and play". When you feel the climax coming you just vibrate and let it happen!

67.5 here, Bad ED, some dysorgasmia possibly from decades of AD meds, possibly just aging. I get almost no erections except occasional partials when I see or read something especially erotic. I use combinations of all my kinks (rubber, sneakers, anal, enemas, D/s, bondage) to mentally and physically stimulate enough to orgasm with vigorous hand work, made more difficult and less satisfying from very soft tissue. Still orgasming but not sure how long it will last. Prostate massage is still very good too, sometimes instead of regular masturbation.

I'm uncut with very mobile foreskin so as usual mostly pull FS up and down over the glans for nice stimulation without normal rubbing friction, no lube required. It's rather like the difference between a tire rolling over a road but not skidding or dragging the rubber over it. My FS just "rolls" over my glans for very pleasant stimulation. Alone for a couple of hours now, so sitting here in one of my favorite almost new/clean canvas and rubber sneakers, reading Zity to get stimulated for an orgasm pretty shortly.

To all you younger folks out there with no genital or orgasm problems, I encourage you to enjoy it while you have it. It won't last forever and it's a terrible thing to waste. Enjoy.

Eric

From time to time I like using my fleshlight.

But my absolute favorite way to masturbate is to strip down (I hate clothing anyways), while sitting in my chair facing the tv, watch something sexy.

I'll wear a condom so as to not make a mess, and slowly stroke myself just to the edge of cumming and very very lightly touch and caress my cock to keep right at that edge.

Sometimes I'm not successful as there are times I can't take the self torture, but if I can hold off I'll end up with a mind blowing orgasm.

I never use my hands directly. I hump a pillow or a corner of a bed. Doing a self-paddling simultaneously😃

I never use my hands directly. I hump a pillow or a corner of a bed. Doing a self-paddling simultaneously 😃

Now that would be fun to watch. 😉 😜

I am at least twice a day and sometimes more. Probably because I am single. But I have masturbated all over my home. Sometimes I start with my nipples and sometimes outside of my vagina soft. I may do that until I get pretty wet and then use the wetness to lube my clit. But I don't like direct stimulation on my clit. I like it just above it. Then when I start to have an orgasm more direct stimulation. Sometimes I will use my rabbit or other toys and a lot of the time something on my ass and eventually going inside. That is if I am clean.

I think that the build up to masturbation is just as important as doing it. It is also best if you have a fantasy that you can masturbate to. When I have a "session" I like to get all my equipment ready as I like to exploit the pain/pleasure balance. Getting everything ready is a real turn on. I normally do it on a very firm cylindrical bolster pillow as I must be one of the few women around that does not really enjoying touching themselves.

As a footnote I would like to add that fortunately, masturbation has not had to be on the agenda while we had lock down due to Covid-19, as my hubby and I have been able to share each other far more often.

I learned at an early age. During diaper changes, my big brother would either put his big cock in my tiny vagina or anus or he would mastrubate me until I orgasmed.

I thought that was just the way diaper changes were supposed to go.

Now everytime I change my diaper, I use that time to also mastrubate. It may be that hump my wet/dirty diaper or that I use my fingers and a catheter or anal beads.

I masturbate at least 4 times a day. Lots of times while reading comments on ZITY. Would love to find a "partner" of mutual fun, either by phone, or actual meeting and doing it together.

I lay on my bed naked from the waist down and begin with three fingers until I’m fully erect. Then I stroke it very intensely and methodically.

I am naked at the masturbation from the belt, so I can see the penis well.

Occasionally masturbate even before a shaving mirror. There I can see my penis magnificently enlarged. Stimulating it for me when I see my foreskin glide over the glans. Also I can then change the angle of view, and thus observe the penis times from a very different perspective. Of course, I have also made many pictures of my penis. Looking at these pictures excited me a lot.

When I was in college back in the 1960’s, I used to masturbate most evenings after dinner. It was a needed break from the stresses of the day where I could just relax and unwind for about 15-20 minutes, before hitting the books. I would find an unoccupied toilet stall in my dorm (which was always a busy place with 10 stalls lined in a row) and take a seat on one of those nice elongated, “open front“, contoured toilet seats which offered extra room up front. These open front seats allowed plenty of room to spread my legs and fondle my dick while being comfortably seated there. I’m sure other guys were doing the same thing I was, because I often heard some heavy breathing going on....but no one ever talked about it! Anyway, this “quality time” was ESPECIALLY nice as I usually took my daily shit at the same time. The BEST feelings occurred when I was a bit constipated and could hold a large turd “hostage” in my anus while stroking my stiffy. Passing slow moving large, firm turds was MOST pleasurable and always resulted in a massive ejaculation in my hand! I always released my loads into a wad of TP so I could watch the rhythmic squirting of my massive, involuntary cum shots. Now, it’s all just a memory as I have terminal ED as a result of “old age” health issues. Oh...the memories of my younger years. Now, the only sex I get is from my plugs and a dildo up my ass!

When I dry hump at office toilet stall, I use my ball sack folded between my hand and the penis bottom to reduce friction. Works well. I also use condoms when masturbating otherwise with a fleshlight. Again, to reduce friction and no decrease sensitivity. Any other ideas on how to fap but reduce chance of insensitivity in long term?

Masturbation technique? My first choice is to have a nozzle up my ass with at least three or four quarts of water flowing into me when I ejaculate. If that's not possible, I will imagine my wife getting f***** by one of her past lovers and I will do it without water. I'm flexible but I prefer water.