Cuckolding, Cheating, impregnated....

Susie, Bridgett, Ms Lila and a lot of the other skanks/sluts/whores on this site have more moral fiber.

"Other" as opposed to Susie, Bridgett, & Ms. Lila ? Or "other" as opposed to Miriamvee ?

I want to make sure I don't misinterpret who is implied to be a "skank/slut/whore".

Nothing beats a skank/slut/whore with "moral fiber".

@gwhap said

Lots of people on this site have cheated. I have seen some pro domes - not for intercourse but for a sexual fetish. I consider that cheating. Secretly having an affair to get impregnated is deceptive and draws in several innocent potential victims. Susie, Bridgett, Ms Lila and a lot of the other skanks/sluts/whores on this site have more moral fiber. They don’t do things that could involve and hurt others.

Except Susie, she likes to inflict physical pain!!

I do like to inflect pain 😁 , but only if you like pain, I like you, and I think you are worthy of my time.

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@enemasubgirl said

blah, blah, blah. . . . The one thing I know for certain is NO ONE has a right to judge what a woman does with her body or her reproduction, ever.

Are you kidding? I am certainly for freedom of choice in all respects of what a woman wants to do with her body, but EVERYONE has the right to judge other people. You may not have the right to do anything about what they are like or what they do, but you certainly have the right to judge EVERYBODY, and no, you do NOT have to walk in their shoes.

I couldn’t disagree more. If you’re going to do something like this _ do it up front . The secrecy has serious bad outcomes. Stupid!!!

Holy shit ! Hold up here.

Yes woman get pregnant and don't tell the dads. Yes other men raise other babies on their own. Yes, there are different situations and blended families. Yes, people cheat. All the other examples in these posts too. NONE OF THIS IS RELEVANT!!

A man and a child were purposely deceived! They each have every right to know the truth. IT IS WRONG! Thats it. It can not be any more cut and dry for me.

A plan was pre meditated, carried out and continued to be a lie.

If it was not wrong then why not tell the husband the truth?

And then to think you did this man a favor ? You have some screws loose ! Making an excuse to justify your actions. The more you comment the more of a disturbed and disgusting person you are to me.

Yes I am judging

If you don’t like it you should not have posted the story AND tried to pass off As you doing this wonderful thing.

For anyone to think this is ok put yourself in the childs or husbands shoes.

Nothing about this is ok.

@gwhap & @JTMac, I will proudly take the Whore with moral fiber ! I am in good company ! ????

Good thing I luv ya G ! Lol

I cheated on my husband - no shit no sugar, I cheated, and I knew I was cheating, and the fact he had been cheating means nothing to the fact that I was cheating. None - and if I hadn't worked it out or learned what it was I wanted or how to communicate that with my husband, and had been caught, then whether I stayed married with this wonderful lil bow legged man would have been because of what I did and no one else. I had my reasons - played mind games with myself, but I flat out cheated. I made the choice to fuck this other man - but I still loved my husband and I made a decision, for myself, about my life, and began to communicate with my husband that I needed and wanted certain things to make myself happy and did he want to be happy too? Neither of us - were happy when it was all said and done, but we left each other out of the loop, which is dumb as fuck.

Me, myself, and I - alone, no one else, not the man I was cheating with, or my husband, or friends, would be responsible for causing what happened because of decisions and choices I made. That isn't saying - by any stretch, that I would be the only one to feel the pain or the pleasure, but I would be the one to cause what happened and what would be felt. But I did - finally after I knew what I wanted, laid it out there for my husband to see and I was ready for him to throw a bitch fit, or walk, or watch his heart melt, or help US move forward. I was ready - to leave my cheating behind if that was what it took BUT only if my husband was prepared to walk it with me as I needed him to do. I wasn't going to continue - with cheating OR being married where I was not happy with my life.

All that aside - I was the one who had to know what I wanted, how far I would go to get that happiness, how much I would risk for MY happiness. At that point - ONLY my husband had that 'option' to continue with my cheating ass with the promise that our wedding vows that were shredded BY ME would now be first and foremost with the added word COMMUNICATE WITH NO SHIT NO SUGAR from then on. But it all came down - ultimately between me and the man I married and adore. The cheating slut and cunt that I am - got lucky beyond what I deserved and my husband and I now communicate on EVERY single level, and choices I now make do involve what I want, but he is very much part of why and how I ultimately make my choice and decision.

@Miriamvee I see - that English isn't your first language, and a shit load gets lost in translation, I get that and appreciate that. The nuances - inflections, subtle shades of everything can make or break the meaning of what you want to say. So I have to remember that - and still, the examples you gave about the woman getting pregnant from another man and passing the child off as his, WRONG! As a cheater myself - I know this is wrong, no shit no sugar and no excuses.

@enemasubgirl said, 'Women are as free as men to have relations outside their marriage. I don't know the situation with their 'vows' and I don't really care or think they matter. I certainly don't feel the need to pass any judgement on what women do with their bodies. If this woman wanted to have a baby, then so be it. It's her body. She always has the right to fuck whomever she wants for whatever reason.'

Bullshit - just bullshit. There's the kiddo - WHO is THE result of the 'cheating', cheating between the husband and wife no matter why or how come or how noble. In the - 'pissing contest' between a woman's reproductive rights, right to body, right to happiness, etc., and the husband's 'rights' or expectations, the only one who will get wet in that pissing contest is the kid. Even when I was cheating - the people I worried the most about, or really ever considered in what I was doing, were my kids. The only thing I never cheated on - was where they came from and whether or not they were conceived in my marriages, and that they were and are very much loved and wanted. No matter - how fucked up their parents were, they know who we are and why they are on this planet converting oxygen into carbon dioxide.

@enemasubgirl - you can take that for what it is worth from a cheater and when you do, you are making a judgement as to whether I am right or wrong. It's your right - but I won't give a shit.

@Lora_C, that was a GREAT post.

@gwhap

'Lots of people on this site have cheated. I have seen some pro domes - not for intercourse but for a sexual fetish. I consider that cheating. Secretly having an affair to get impregnated is deceptive and draws in several innocent potential victims. Susie, Bridgett, Ms Lila and a lot of the other skanks/sluts/whores on this site have more moral fiber. They don’t do things that could involve and hurt others.'

Why, thank you @gwhap. 😧 🌹 😁 😁 😁 I see that I am in the company of @SwitchableSusie and @bridgette as one of the skanks/sluts/whores and so I will take that as a compliment. 😉

@Lora_C. You go to the TOP of my "skanks with class" list!!! 😁 😁 😁 😁

Great post!

Lots of people on this site have cheated. . . . . Susie, Bridgett, Ms Lila and a lot of the other skanks/sluts/whores on this site have more moral fiber. . . . .

I resemble that comment. 😁

I haven't cheated. When my husband and I had sex with other people, we each approved and knew who the other was sleeping with.

I resemble that comment. 😁

I haven't cheated.

That's true, but for all the other kinky, dirty things you do with enemas, encapsulation, bondage, orgasm denial and gawd knows what else,.... you still get a high spot on the Skank List. 😄

That's true, but for all the other kinky, dirty things you do with enemas, encapsulation, bondage, orgasm denial and gawd knows what else,.... you still get a high spot on the Skank List. 😄

@SwitchableSusie - own it because it is true, SkankableSusie. 😁 😁 😁

@SwitchableSusie

'I resemble that comment. 😁

I haven't cheated. When my husband and I had sex with other people, we each approved and knew who the other was sleeping with.'

You 'slept' or did you have sex? 😁

You 'slept' or did you have sex? 😁

OK, you got me. There wasn't much sleeping going on. We had sex!!

Hard, dirty, debauched, disgusting, really messed up, wild sex.

OK, you got me. There wasn't much sleeping going on. We had sex!!

Hard, dirty, debauched, disgusting, really messed up, wild sex

Oh, regular sex then. 😈 😉

Hard, dirty, debauched, disgusting, really messed up, wild sex.

The BEST KIND !!!!

Oh, regular sex then. 😈 😉

Yes.

It was "regular sex" for people who know how to do it.

Yes.

It was "regular sex" for people who know how to do it.

You must mean deviants

You must mean deviants

@Moppys_jalopy I believe @SwitchableSusie was clear on her answer about it being regular sex for people who know how to do it.

@Moppys_jalopy I believe @SwitchableSusie was clear on her answer about it being regular sex for people who know how to do it.

Susie does a lot of things that are a walk in the park for her. Regular my ass

Susie does a lot of things that are a walk in the park for her. Regular my ass

Bend over. 😈

@enemasubgirl said, 'Women are as free as men to have relations outside their marriage. I don't know the situation with their 'vows' and I don't really care or think they matter. I certainly don't feel the need to pass any judgement on what women do with their bodies. If this woman wanted to have a baby, then so be it. It's her body. She always has the right to fuck whomever she wants for whatever reason.'

Bullshit - just bullshit. There's the kiddo - WHO is THE result of the 'cheating', cheating between the husband and wife no matter why or how come or how noble. In the - 'pissing contest' between a woman's reproductive rights, right to body, right to happiness, etc., and the husband's 'rights' or expectations, the only one who will get wet in that pissing contest is the kid. Even when I was cheating - the people I worried the most about, or really ever considered in what I was doing, were my kids. The only thing I never cheated on - was where they came from and whether or not they were conceived in my marriages, and that they were and are very much loved and wanted. No matter - how fucked up their parents were, they know who we are and why they are on this planet converting oxygen into carbon dioxide.

@Lora_C Thank you for your reply. Yes, @enemasubgirl post is BULLSHIT! Cheating has nothing to do with women’s reproductive rights. When you marry, you take a VOW, a PROMISE that, among other things, you wont be fucking others. Its that damn simple. It might not be illegal, but it is ‘immoral’ and wrong in the sense of what our society has deemed right when it comes to promises and vows.

Now many people all over have cheated. Each of their circumstances and reasons are different. I’m not sure its ever really justified, but things happen. While its wrong, I appreciate people like Lora and others who OWN their own actions, right or wrong.

And, I do love hearing from all the kinky skanky slutty women of zity! I’ve had a few submissive women under my hand and I’ve proudly called them sluts, and they loved the designation. It was never said as an insult; it was a term of endearment!

Thanks to everyone who wrote something on this subject. I did not even expect everyone to agree with me. But I thought I would have more support at least by women.

According to statistics I found😢 not online)

There are about 1 to 3% of children in the world who are not children of the parents they live with. There was a replacement at some stage of life. Example: This happened very often until the bracelets with the number for mother and child were introduced.

1 to 2% of fathers are not a genetic fathers, but father is someone else.

Are you trying to make errors from misidentification and deceptions acceptable? A mistake is one thing but to purposely make a baby switch is entirely different and is a crime.

Hospitals have been using patient identification bracelets for at least 60 years in the USA.

Everything I wrote is exactly the way it is, and I do not regret or want to change nothing . Everything I did then, was at my best. I am a very positive person and I try to make people around me happy, then and now. I do not like to make people unhappy, because it will come back as well. When I was young and inexperienced for many things I said: it was inadmissible, I will never do it I, condemn it ... As I grew up I learned that there are more standards in the world, and that it is possible to measure everything with one scales. I have learned to accept people around me as they are. Otherwise it would be a totalitarian dictatorship. Not everyone is perfect, we all have some of our features that are not acceptable to somebody. When we write or criticize something. then, apart from describing this event, we describe our seeing of things as well, and we unconsciously we describe ourselves as well. I do not want to argue with anyone, I just want to write my stories. If you like it and you are curious, then read and enjoy it. If you do not like it, the internet is wide.

As I announced in post no 1 that this is not just one case I know, I will write another story.

Once upon a time when DNA did not exist, occurred this story. At that time I worked at the hospital.

A civil servant (official.) came to me and asked:

-Official: could you determine paternity.?

-Me: For now it is impossible with 100% certitude, but we can exclude a father, or assume that he could be a father. This works in our service laboratory, in one department, and the search is quite expensive and is still not completely reliable.

Since all parties agreed, mother and father, there was no problem with sample delivery. Slowly, I learned all the details. Mr G. worked on a highly-positioned state service. He had a family and children, but he also had a mistress. His mistress Sue gave birth to a child and she sued him for alimony. Mr. G learned that Sue had another lover and hoped to prove he was not a father.

After all of the blood samples were given, and Mr. G also gave sperm samples, the laboratory conducted the analyzes that came to My table. I had to hand them over to the officers. As I am curious by nature, so I looked a little more in details there. Mr. G could not have been a father. Mrs Sue has therefore got her child with another man. But there was still a large Catch-22. Mr. G. was completely sterile, due to illness of childhood. The thing began to be complicated. How then did Mr. G have his children? I had to be very careful and watch out for which data to give, and to whom to be disclosed, because I smell a big scandal in the city. I called Ms G. I spoke with caution to him.

-Me: I suppose you would not want to be the father of a child who has Sue?

-Ms G: This must not happen. Sue told she take anti baby pills, so I'm not a father. Or she lied then, or deliberately wanted to give birth to a child with me. In any case, it is not fair.

-Me: All right, I hope I can manage it for your satisfaction.

-Mr. G. I would be very grateful to you, and I would never forget it .... Even if You could convince my wife W. in that I do not have nothing do with this ...

-Me: Your wife also found out about this your affair. Can you send she to me for a conversation. I think I will easily convince her, you're not guilty.

The next day, Mrs. W. came to me. She is a very important person in our town.

- Me: You know why we invited you, What do you have to say to Me, Mrs. W.?

-W .: I do not know either., whether my husband is a cheater or an honest husband. We have a family, two children. If my husband was with that woman, I'll kill him or I'll break up, and I'll make a big scandal in our town.

Me: Settle down. The whole story is very strange to me. You have 2 children with Mr G. Did you know that Ms.G. had never been able to have children?

-W: Hmmmmmm It mean you know .....

-Me: Will you tell me the whole story, if I find out what I need, I hope I can help you.....

to be continued....

@Miriamvee said

Once upon a time when DNA did not exist, occurred this story. At that time I worked at the hospital.

A civil servant (official.) came to me and asked:

-Official: could you determine paternity.?

If this is a description of true events, then it should simply be a concise account without all this dialogue, which won't be accurate anyway if being half-remembered decades later.

If it's a fictional story, it belongs in the Library.

@DrZ said,

If it's a fictional story, it belongs in the Library.

In my opinion, fictional or not, this story belongs in the library. I see absolutely no point to have such in the discussion forum.

I actually think all it does is ruffle feathers here on the discussion board as has other similar stories.

@Lora_C owned it at https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1005256

You are awesome. 🌹

Miriamvee said

Once upon a time when DNA did not exist, occurred this story. At that time I worked at the hospital.

Once upon a time. . . . THAT'S HOW ALL FAIRY TALES START.

You aren't going to change anybody's mind about how terrible your original post was or how you tried to change it to make yourself appear less culpable.

We aren't buying it.