I originally labeled myself on Zity as heteroflexible because although I have only been with women, I can admit to myself that if my girlfriend wanted to include a male in our bedroom play, I would at least consider it. I’m “hetero” but “flexible” in my thinking as opposed to strict.
Then I was viciously attacked here on Zity for replying to a particular thread which some members felt I had no right to reply to because of my “heteroflexible” status. I tried to calmly explain my reasoning, but essentially I was made to feel that I do not get to determine what I am or how I label my sexuality, and that I did not understand what “heteroflexible” means.
Months later I changed my description to heterosexual since that describes what I have experienced in fact, although I remain open to other possibilities. From my personal perspective, it seems there’s no one term to encapsulate both my factual past sexual experiences and my potential possible future sexual experiences.
Your sexuality classification should be about how YOU feel about yourself and your sexuality. And not how society labels you. Mostly on this website, I have found folks are a lot less judgemental and labeling as the outside world.
That said, your sexuality is about how you feel and define yourself. Any opposition to that is an opinion At BEST, moderator or not. Though if you want to say you enjoy sucking cock, then claim to be a heterosexual male, then okay, there are obivous flaws in your self classification.
Ultimately, don't give too much of a fuck how others choose to label you. Keep in mind, it may not be a universal thought among readers. Unless you find yourself badgered by responses, what 1 or 2 people say and how they choose to "judge" you should not mean anything in the grand scheme of things