I’m here for some weeks now. It was curiosity that pushed me to sign in, read some posts, look deeper in a Fetish that is part of me from a long time now.
In the Short Time i am here, I had the opportunity to write with few people about their lives, about their whys of their fetish, about their past. In therapy I tried to understand the motivations of my fetish, the way it was created, and learned to accept it as part of the whole that is me today.
I learned that everyone has his story, some similar to mine, some through single experiences, some through pain, abuse and suffer. I also learned, that even though a community is made of people with a similar orientation (LGBT+) or a similar fetish, it is made of accusations, misunderstandings and discriminations.
I’d like to thank those few people who openly talked and still talk about their lifes and past, sharing intimate moments, even when some of them hurt, or even if they often have the sensation that they’re not understood.
The psychology behind fetishes was always a big thing to me, primarily because I try for years to understand the complex triggers behind mine. So talking to some of you is a great opportunity.
If anyone would like to share the reason behind their fetish, the beginning, it could be mind opening for many.