Doc or Patient?

I have only been patient. I enjoy being the patient. I probably would not be able to do doctor role. Any female Want to give exam message me.

I like both roles but it seems I have more opportunities to play the role of the doctor. Harder to find a play doctor than a play patient in my experience.

I like be a patient.. just a patient..

In online RP exams I enjoy both roles, depends on my mood whether I'd prefer to be patient or doc first. Also depends on the other guy and what he's into - some only want to be patient, so I'm doc, and others only want to be doc, so I'm the willing patient.

On balance, with another guy who also enjoys switching, I prefer doc role first, then letting him examine me as patient, but I'm not prescriptive! Any MM RP which involves genital exam is hot!

I really like a bit of both, yet generally love being the doctor in a play exam

I like both, but haven't actually been a patient yet. Currently looking for a “doctor” to give it a try.

I like being both. Maybe being in control as the doctor. telling the patient what to do. taking as long as I want to examine.There is work to being the doctor. Patient doing whatever is asked. The feeling and touching of my body of a doctor. Wonder what will come next. Maybe the overall exam and attention

I prefer patient overall but have done a bit of both.

@Kiri Always the doctor for me. Nice to meet you.

Always been the patient, but lately thinking of switching to the doc role. It'll take some planning, etc

I honestly enjoy both. i do love being the patient because of giving up the control. However, being the doc is a bigger turn on because of the control and because of how much my patients enjoy it.

I almost exclusively enjoy the doc role. And it is certainly the power exchange that others have mentioned that is the driver for me.

Without a doubt doctor.

In-depth and realistic exams, but with an end game, of course.

Always the patient!

Patient/sub as medfet completely is under the BDSM umbrella as a form of BDSM. If one takes on the role of patient, they are taking on the role as a sub as they submit to a Dome/Domme/Master/playDoc. It’s that simple.

I like to be just a submissive patient

When I first saw/heard a boy getting an interesting medical treatment -- rectal suppository for anesthesia for operation -- I was in for appendicitis, he was in the next bed -- I thought long & hard about whether I wanted to be the one doing it or the one getting it done.

I definitely came down onthe side of the doctor in charge of the procedure . . . but it's my way of enjoying the passive role vicarious, making sure the pateient feels all the anxiety, submission, penetration feels. 😉

1970's boy

I've posted about this elsewhere, about what draws me on for my medfet, but having just had my first play appointment last weekend I might have some new perspective (for my own position).

For me, my medfet has always been grounded in control and submission, even objectification.

In real life (in adulthood at least) I've usually either been the guy in charge, or if not formally the leader, the one folks look to for direction. In my medfet, while I have been intrigued by the possibility of being the doctor, it's the role reversal... the reversal of the power dynamic as the patient that draws me in.

At my play appointment last Sunday, one of the greatest moments (among many) was the least remarkable: I was lying naked on the exam table while my play doc & nurse discussed me and the next steps in the examination as if I wasn't in the room.

I guess this had been a common thread:

- I've been a nude life drawing model for years.

- I was recently invited into a CFNM community for events as a NM.

- I've been introduced to (and I guess willingly recruited) into a local BDSM club, where I am finding the sub side of things the most appealing.

Almost everyone that has stopped at my house has wanted to be the patient because of my hydraulic exam table, so I get to play the doc quite a bit of the time.

I prefer to be the patient but I also switch roles sometimes

I’d like to be a patient as I’m a definite exhibitionist and after working as a life model, have discovered that I really enjoy having every inch of my body looked at closely.

I've predominantly been the "patient" in medical play, but have been in the "doctor" role as well in the past. I've found now that in my early 30s, have a little more of a 60/40 split in interest in patient vs. doctor, rather than a 90/10 split previously.

As the patient, definitely being in the more vulnerable position, naked in front of the doc, and the doc touching you in a very intimate way is a huge turn on for me. I also love the feeling of sitting on an exam table w/paper, the feeling of a stethoscope on me or being made to listen to my heartbeat, and more invasive examinations like prostate exams and hernia checks.

What does attract me more to the doctor role is the idea of making an exam a pleasurable and sensory rich experience for the patient. I would be remiss to say that being able to, at the end, make the patient cum in this more medical environment unto itself is a huge turn on too. Placing the stethoscope over the femoral artery, examining the breasts (male and female), placing them in frog legs position to examine their genitals, and tools like pinwheels all really add to that ambiance and still feel "medical" at the same time.

Initially liked the patient role, but as I have thought more and expanded my interests the doc role is just as enjoyable. As the doctor you are in control and can dictate what is happening. Whether I am caring, treating or dominating, it all leads to new experiences and excitement.

Almost always I am the doctor, as it’s my natural talent and I enjoy being in the dominant role. That said I do occasionally enjoy switching up to patient with the right person

I don’t think I’d care to be the doctor. For me the naughty thrill of being the patient would be getting naked for a man I know is enjoying the view, I “have to” do what he says, that he’s going to get up close and personal with every part of my body, especially when he tells me to spread my legs so he can take a look.

@cherryblur sounds like you like the objectification and helplessness of the situation.

I enjoy both role equally. So nice to observe the arousal of the patients. Then l know the treatment reached its objectives.

I like the evil creepy handsy doctor things, ideally as part of an interrogation or prison scene.

So that's what floats my boat.

100% Patient!

Always patient 😃