Ladies: anal play vs anal intercourse?

I enjoy both anal and vaginal intercourse. Most of the time my husband instigates anal intercourse. We usually communicate non verbally. If he wants anal intercourse with me he puts my enema bag in the shower before he leaves for work. If I want anal I leave my enema bag out in the bathroom for him to see it in the evening and I lay out my anal toys.

Re pegging - If I want to use a strapon on him, I leave my harness and dildo out for him to see it or he will take it out and leave it for me to get the hint he wants me to do him.

I orgasm during anal intercourse but I have to play with my clitoris to get me there. During vaginal fucking, I almost always orgasm when my husband begins to ejaculate. I seldom need direct clitoris stimulation during vaginal intercourse.

As stated by others anal intercourse requires more preparation so it is a plan ahead thing, at least for us. I do have to say wearing a large plug all day to stretch me out a bit is a turn on for me. My mind is totally preoccupied with what my husband will do to me later. Clean up after is a big problem for me. I get gas after and fart out a lot of mucus, lubricant and semen for several hours after.

Dita

I get gas after and fart out a lot of mucus, lubricant and semen for several hours after.

I'd suggest to change your lubricant - try something else and see how it goes...

I enjoy anal play. Anal intercourse can feel amazing after the initial discomfort of penetration has passed.

I much prefer anal play to anal intercourse. Anal intercourse HURTS.

There should always be anal play as a lead up to every occasion of anal intercourse. And why not? ... it heightens pleasure for man and woman alike.

However, if your GF feels you're having "too much of a good thing" by fucking her anus more frequently than she prefers, sessions of anal play alone can be a great alternative for both partners. You can tease both her and yourself by rimming her, inserting fingers and toys ... just make sure you keep that throbbing penis out!

You can press your erection along her butt crack, and even press your cock-head against her sphincter while resisting the powerful urge to plunge into her tight familiar depths. The tease is even more effective if neither of you knows if this is to be an occasion that is going to end up as one of your full-blown butt-fucking sessions, or whether this is to be one of your 'rest days' for her over-worked bum-hole by instead spurting into her ass-crack (or pussy, or mouth/throat). Try it, and let me know how you get on!

When my wife wants sex, usually anal, she pre-sucks my cock which turns her on and gets both her vagina and ass wet, along with her doing some finger stimulation in those areas. When she's ready for penetration, that's it. She gets naturally pre-lubed. I'm no pencil dick when erect, and it slips into her ass no problem with no lube!

She happens to be one of those women that really gets turned on with a cock in her mouth and fairly well into her throat! Makes her wet!

My wife enjoys anal play during intercourse, yet only occasionally. We have tried anal sex with her enjoying it once or twice, the other times it was too much. I love it when we do, the feeling is amazing, sometimes it's all I think about. Definitely need to discuss what each other likes more often.

'Good-one' quotes "I think it’s important to note that many people have insecurities about their butts because of the fear of something coming out. I’d strongly suggest having that conversation with your partner that anything that happens is OK and won’t ruin the mood."

My ex-GF and I were enjoying anal intercourse only about fortnightly at first. Then about 6 months into our relationship she said that although she liked anal as part of our love-making mix, she only did it when she knew she had a squeaky clean butt. She said she was terrified in case any brown flecks or smears appeared on my penis, let alone if any bigger surprises emerged when I withdrawal it. As you say, communication is a good thing. I said I really wouldn't think badly of her at all, even if her worst case scenario happened. After all, the mess she worried about is native to her rectum whereas I'm sure nature would say it's my cock that's the alien there! With that assurance (plus the right lube, foreplay and care), we enjoyed anal sex twice a week for the rest of our relationship. Btw, I think it's great that you gals are telling Zity your thoughts in this way as it helps both men & women improve in sex.

I can finally answer my thoughts to this post. Last Wednesday I had my anal intercourse since 5 years again, and first time ever in my new female body. I loved it.

Although I still prefer anal play the best, becouse I love the feeling of stretching. The wild rough penetration he did to me felt great, and next time I think I let him fist me, since his hands aren't super big and just slightly bigger than my fist toy's.

Anyway I say:

Anal play 1

Anal intercourse 2

Do I have to choose between anal play and anal intercourse? Because both are equally some of my biggest turn ons and greatest sexual pleasures. I do think that anal play alone without anal sex might feel a bit like unfinished business; but not anal sex because with or without foreplay it will always end in waves of earth shattering orgasmic bliss.

Do I have to choose between anal play and anal intercourse?

Being fully isolated from my GF through the virus these past 2 weeks has caused me sleepless nights, waking up and lying there trying to avoid getting an erection and adrenalin rush through thoughts of wanting to fuck her. But my chances of going back to sleep are the most completely hijacked if thoughts shift to licking her puckered hole and doggy-styling her up her ass, squeezing my straining bulbous head through that amazing little anus, and pushing it all the way in until her sphincter is clamping tight round the very base of my erection and my entire cock has been swallowed into her butt. So if my GF had to choose between anal play or intercourse, it's pretty clear I'd want her to go for butt-fucking. Once we're back together, I'm optimistic it'll be her ass that I end up exploding into, though I'm sure I'll do my share of licking and playing with her anus first, and would hope her pussy and throat would join in the action somewhere during our first few days back together!

My lady and I only ever do anal now. It is a foregone assumption and I don't think vaginal does anything for her anymore. So she always bends over the bed to receive anal and once used to the first penile invasion, I re-lube us both, enter again and we start. Her orgasms are intense, deep and hard and come very quickly and seem to last a long time. Once she has rested we start again, usually her on all fours and she will have a second and sometimes a third orgasm. We are both totally uninhibited about our anal desires and she had never tried it until well into her 60's. We are both early 70's now and it is always something exciting to look forward to. If I give her an enema beforehand it actually heightens her orgasmic pleasure.

For me, especially as I get older I don't mind a finger or small toy but I absolutely hate anal sex. Once in a while I met let my husband but it's just not my thing.

My lady and I only ever do anal now. It is a foregone assumption and I don't think vaginal does anything for her anymore. So she always bends over the bed to receive anal and once used to the first penile invasion, I re-lube us both, enter again and we start.

Same for me. I don't enjoy vaginally penetration. Anal is much more interesting.