I am getting old a baby boomer--so I grew up in an era when guys got spanked/paddled frequently. Like my friends I got an occasional paddling, bare butt, from dad during high school. It hurt on my bare butt but had no sensual element. My football coach spanked my bare butt and made it hurt and I got hard---totally different from the reaction to dad paddling me in high school. I was humiliated he saw me when I got up after the bare spanking and he saw me hard. It was one of the most humiliating experiences of my life. Any other guys have same reaction?