Spanking and erection

@reddevil ……….Missed opportunity??

One of a few…. perhaps for the best….

If one of my older brothers and I got in trouble, and we both got spanked, they would go first. I always popped wood watching them getting spanked starting at around 13. My first ejaculation during a spanking was either 14 or 15.

Sorry to be a party pooper. Erections can be caused by fear or embarrassment. It's a chemical called Nitric acid the brain makes that triggers an erection Excitement not necessarily good or pleasurable stimuli can trigger its production. It just happens and can not be controlled by most people. So being spanked by Dad may not have turned you on just was scary and shaming. I hope this may make someone feel better about themselves.

I dont recall this ever happening to me. At least not a full erection. I was definately stressed, scared and embrarased at times, especially when I was older but I'm sure I would have been aware that I had a full blown erection going. I was always bent over a bed so an erection would be in the way with all the squirming and twisting I would be doing while getting my butt whipped. If it did happen, it was likely only a partial erection and my mom or dad never said a word about seeing anything.

Long before I started HRT, when mistress would spank me I would definately get an erecton

@ Bad Princess: if you want to make someone feel better about themselves, don't say things like that.

My younger brother always had erections when being undressed for his spankings, It always popped free when my parents would pull down his underwear.

I had the same problem as your brother - I often had an erection when I pulled my underwear down.

I started getting erections during spanking and enema sessions around 10 or so sometimes depending on the the burning and sting on my bare bottom my erection would start to go away but quickly returned upon competition of the spanking, during an enema it would remain rock hard throughout.

I didn't have an erection during the enema, even though I felt a little aroused during the preparation. However, during the spanking, I had an erection the entire time.

My first ejaculation during a spanking was either 14 or 15.

I have never ejaculated while spanking despite having a strong erection.

I never ejaculated during a spanking either, despite having a strong erection.

I got erections just about every time I got a naughty bare bottom spanking. I got a wet bottom spanking from my swimming coach, and I also got an erection when my step dad would take my pants and undies down to paddle my Ass. I was embarrassed a few times when I climaxed while being punished.

Yes a spanking and erection happens to me. While I am semi - erect as I am being bared . In the beginning when men spanked I came quite early while over their knees. Now can last up to an hour before I come.

@Andrew_Finklehouse

@ Bad Princess: if you want to make someone feel better about themselves, don't say things like that.

I never ejaculated during a spanking either, despite having a strong erection.

from @Bad_Princess Note the way it is typed with no empty space. I would have responded to you earlier if you had typed correctly or just clicked the drop down box.

I just stated the brain chemical responsible for erections and what causes it to be produced. Once the chemical is triggered by good or bad emotions there is no stopping the result. An erection.

If some found being spanked by their Dad or other males to be a bonding Homo erotic experience that's fine. It was a positive trigger that made them feel good.

If some found being spanked by their Dad or other males scary and or embarrassing it was a negative trigger. They may have been feeling confused thinking they might have liked it while knowing they did not like it at all.

I thought the scientific information would ease their conflict and help them heal from the abuse they suffered.

What do you @Andrew_Finklehouse have to say to help them feel better about themselves?

I got spanking by my dad when i was young and teen whit wooden spoon on my bare ass and i never got a erection.

It so painfull so i dont understand how a men can get a erection ?

@Bad Princess: Why not say that the spanking did turn them on because it felt good and not say the erection was caused by fear or embarrassment? I think saying that makes people feel worse rather than better.

I got spanking by my dad when i was young and teen whit wooden spoon on my bare ass and i never got a erection.

It so painfull so i dont understand how a men can get a erection ?

For me, corporal punishment was also painful and unpleasant. An erection during a spanking does not mean that the boy feels pleasure. I reacted to being spanked with an erection. I did not have an erection during genital examination or anal penetration. There are people who have an erection during such activities.

As said before it is not that obvious with girls.

My dad although a strict disciplinarian. Would only spank us once.

When he caught us misbehaving at home, he would take off his slipper and throw it at us. We had to bring it back and knew this slipper would be used to rap our knuckles. Just 1 swift, hard smack across back of hand. Before sending us to the corner for corner time , facing the wall, hands on head.

As I found out he was a fan of spanking and BDSM I wonder if he did not pit us across his knee for this very reason. ( to avoid arrousal)

@Andrew_Finklehouse

@Bad Princess: Why not say that the spanking did turn them on because it felt good and not say the erection was caused by fear or embarrassment? I think saying that makes people feel worse rather than better.

Try typing @BAD then clicking on @Bad_Princess in the drop-down menu

I am quite clear in stating Excitement not necessarily good or pleasurable triggers the production of Nitric acid resulting in an erection.

I am presenting the trigger and chemical cause of an erection. Most people like your comment above demonstrates relate an erection with pleasure. This assumption is wrong. I am not interested in propagating it but rather in squashing it and giving a reason why it is wrong based on science.

Both Positive and negative exitement can trigger an erection.

So to return to your statement. "Why not say that the spanking did turn them on because it felt good" If someone is terrified and or crying and experiences an erection that indicates they are actually enjoying the experience. This is what you are telling me. If I am the one being spanked and terrified I am certainly not enjoying it.

This is one of the most ridiculous things I have ever looked at. Unfortunately, your Statement reflects a social conditioning that has caused many people a lot of emotional pain and social stigma for years. It has to be stopped. It is wrong based on science and common sense.

I see. You think that just because you, personally, didn't enjoy it then other people shouldn't. I had a feeling that was coming. And using "science" to justify saying that? That's a sign of the times if ever there was one.

Both Positive and negative exitement can trigger an erection.

Back when in grade school, I remember a few kids getting laughed at after class, because when they had been called up front to answer a question, they were seen (by other classmates more astute than myself) to have an erection, probably because they were very nervous. I know I listened to the laughs and joking, but at the time I was something of a dweeb about sexual things and besides, I know that I too had erections at times when having to go before the class to give answers. I thought no one noticed and besides, I wasn't aware at that age what erections actually were.

So yes indeed. I have experienced negative emotions (nervousness) trigger an erection. I find this nothing odd or hard to believe.

Back when in grade school, I remember a few kids getting laughed at after class, because when they had been called up front to answer a question, they were seen (by other classmates more astute than myself) to have an erection, probably because they were very nervous.

I recall getting hard-ons in grade and middle school lots of times, some times while standing up in front of the class. It never occurred to me at the time, but they certainly could have been triggered by the fear of public speaking or being humiliated, a negative emotion - or I could have just been a normal kid going through puberty with raging hormones! 😀

I knew a college gymnast who was afraid he would get a hard-on when he was called up to compete. That was definitely due to the negative pressure and fear of not doing well triggering an erection he also had an urge to pee just prior to competing. Similar responses

On the other side of the coin, the Tampa Bay Buccaneers quarterback recently said: .”….My dick got hard as soon as I saw him running in the motion back there”. That’s a positive trigger.

Seems erections can be caused by either positive or negative triggers, or for no reason at all.....they're all good and no reason to get upset about it! 😄

@Reman i understand what you say and i think you have right.

I dont know the reaction of my dad if i got a erection before my spanking.

It should be very embarassment.

I see. You think that just because you, personally, didn't enjoy it then other people shouldn't. I had a feeling that was coming. And using "science" to justify saying that? That's a sign of the times if ever there was one.

That’s quite a jump in logic. If you can call it logic. There was no “if I, then you” implication other than what you tried to imply. @Bad_Princess ( I used the drop down menu) simply stated that erections could be caused by the same neurological response to two different stimuli. She didn’t (IMHO) imply anything.

@Andrew_Finklehouse

You’re totally misunderstanding or misrepresenting what @Bad_Princess said. She said erections CAN be triggered by negative emotions, and that someone who is crying and upset yet is also erect is clearly NOT erect due to enjoying it. She didn’t say no one who gets erect during a spanking is ever enjoying it.

You are actually doing what you are accusing her of doing by implying anyone with an erection is enjoying it. Just because you might enjoy doesn’t mean a 15 year old getting the belt from his dad is…

@Rigel I recall getting hard-ons in grade and middle school lots of times...

Sometimes the fear of it happening would bring it on! Like my dingaling having a mind of it own and is out to get me 😈

@oldskoolotk

When I said I enjoyed it, I meant that I enjoyed it when I was 15 (or even younger). That was why I started seeking adult spanking for pleasure once I turned 18.

@oldskoolotk

When I said I enjoyed it, I meant that I enjoyed it when I was 15 (or even younger). That was why I started seeking adult spanking for pleasure once I turned 18.

That’s you. That’s not every 15 year old who ever had an erection during a spanking episode. That was the point being made.

Believe it or not your life experience is not the only valid one. Maybe read a little more slowly or try to understand what is being said? No one is saying your story is false, what is being said is that there are other stories that don’t match yours that are just as valid.

Sorry, but I don't trust people who post what they term "scientific information", especially when it describes something that doesn't apply to me.

Having lost my mom very young, and my father being a workaholic, I was basically raised by an aunt, who was very old school about discipline. I remember her taking my shorts down when I was 13 to spank me, and my reacting to that moment. I think that was the first time it ever happened, since I am sure I would have remembered if it happened before then.

It did not save me from the spanking, and it didn't save me from standing in the corner when she was done. But starting then and after that, when I got spanked, I was no longer over her lap, so I guess she took my reaction into account.

Although I have never gotten an erection from being paddled, I would think that some might get an erection because of an erotic response but I also think that some might get an involuntary erection simply because of physiology. The pudendal nerve and its branches in the mid to lower section of the buttocks controls the anal sphincter and provides information to the perineum, scrotum and penis. I would think that the solid paddling of the buttocks might certainly stimulate the pudendal nerve when the buttocks are being struck causing an erection without any erotic involvement.

I once got an erection immediately after had received a very painful caning from my Father. The pain was retreating and he put a hand on my buttocks to feel the damage he had inflicted. I was confused and, for some reason, thought he might want to penetrate me. That thought, I think, caused the erection and also caused me a lot of future pain and embarrassment. After that, if I got an erection during punishment, I would be sentenced to an extra stroke on my next punishment day.

The vast majority of my spankings were bare butt and more likely than not, naked as well. I sometimes got erections associated with being spanked, either before (when I was sent to prepare for my spanking) or after (recovering alone in my room). I don't remember an erection developing during the actually spanking however and never ejaculated. Correction: I do remember two. Once when I was spanked naked while lying over my aunts silk slip, and another bent across my bed's new corduroy bedspread being punished by dad.

Of course, erections were more likely during my teen years when I might develop an erection just because 10 minutes had lapsed since my last one. So was it the spanking that triggered it or just time for another erection?