Today is my last enema...

... for a while...

First let me say that I know many people here never have the freedom or privacy to take a comfortable relaxing enema, so this post will seem like whining... but anyway...

After today, family, living and job situations are changing which will leave me with no privacy (ie house alone) to have a nice enema/masturbation session, perhaps for 6 months or so. Since I began playing with enemas about 22 yrs ago, almost that entire time I’ve been able to indulge whenever I wanted, either having the house to myself or a partner that played with enemas together. I worked from home most of that time and could easily use my lunch hr for an enema, instead of wasting time eating. 😃

I know in the past I probably had a few times where I would go a month or a few without one, but that was just due to interest; it wasn’t being imposed on me. This is different. I might be able to sneak a quiet one here or there, but will not have the freedom of walking around naked with my full enema bag getting it hooked up and things ready. Sometimes I might insert the nozzle but stil forgot something, so I carry the bag, nozzle in place, to get what I needed. Freedom and privacy is nice!

So, has anyone else had to have a life-imposed ‘ban’ on enemas for a length of time? I cant really do anything ‘special’ today (enemas to me are only really special with a partner), but I certainly will enjoy my ‘last’ one today... very soon!

Too bad, hope you can find a way now and then.

What caused this change and WHO are the specific people and their relations to you who are invading your space?

If I had limited space for privacy in my house, I might just tell them to live elsewhere.

Tell the others to just GO AWAY because you like your privacy.

If nothing else, I would make an excuse to go somewhere, and get a motel room. Or...find some other Zity member in your area and work out something with them. Eventually, you will figure out a way to have a session now and then.

Dan

I used to travel fairly frequently on business, and would on occasion take my enema equipment with me to enjoy on those trips that involved over-night travel. My wife never had an interest in anything involving enemas, even though she knew I enjoyed them. About the only time I could realistically enjoy an enema at home was if she was gone for at least several hours, or for an overnight stay elsewhere.

Where there's a will there's a way!

Sorry my house my rules not going to a hotel or motel it’s my house

"Me time" is very important for our psychological and physical well being. And you can never get back lost time.

It sounds like your private time was relatively easy to get and now that has changed. Like others said, you really have to be proactive and find a way to enjoy yourself. I don't have any great suggestions but it does sound like time outside the home either sharing enemas with others or finding a place to self indulge is a must.

Do it for yourself. You'll probably regret not doing something as time goes by and you find your life lacks some important happiness and tranquility.

Wow! That's a bummer...It sounds like maybe you need to rent a small studio flat somewhere just to get away from it all, regardless of what you do with the space.

It sounds like maybe you need to rent a small studio flat . . .

Maybe you could rent a hotel room just for a few hours of enema play? Not exactly sure of what happened for your change in circumstances so can't say how well that idea would work.

Yeah, it’ll be a bummer for a while but not too long. I might be able to sneak an enema in here or there, but will miss the total freedom I’ve had over the yrs. The circumstances that are changing are of my doing, so no, I can’t kick anyone out! And they aren’t bad at all, in fact its from good things. Hopefully all will be settled by summer.

Just walk out with your bag and hose and say you are looking for bears in the woods. 😎

@CJ1999 I lived with my parents for about four months during my divorce. I found time here and there when they were gone to get in a bag or two, usually once a week because they had some meetings that were set, and I knew they would be gone X amount of time. I had to hide the bag while it was drying and then keep it hidden with my stuff, but it worked. I was fine with the schedule and changing my routine because I knew it wouldn't be forever.

I also often enjoyed the freedom of living alone. That was good. I was able to do anything that I wanted. However, it became too usual and tended to be boring. Conversely, when your freedom is constrained by your housemate, the freedom when your family goes out occasionally is precious and exciting. Let 's enjoy it. Since I also live with my family now, my privacy time is so llimited during a day. So I'm looking forward to such occasions to enrich my enema variation.

@CJ1999, I hope you'll be able to eek out some time for an enema...just keep your eyes open and your desire on simmer and sometimes, when you least expect it, an opportunity will arise.

Prior to hubby retiring last spring, I had the relative freedom to enjoy an enema most anytime I wanted one. Some weeks I'd indulge in some enema play several days in a row. Other weeks, maybe once or twice. But with hubby around, my routine changed pretty drastically. For one, although he has acquired an appreciation for what an enema can do, he's still not as into them as much as I am. Secondly, I now have some one else sharing the house with me most all day and who wants to do fun things that don't center on the bathroom.

So, after a period of adjustment and a little conversation, hubby has a better understanding of those times when I'm indisposed and not quite ready to spend an afternoon with him on the golf course! He enjoys "helping" me occasionally, but I don't impose. Plus, sometimes, a solo enema is just what the doctor ordered!

@CJ1999, I hope you can find times to enjoy some enema pleasures.

Deb

Ready for a laugh?

So, my situation for the moment is staying with a relative. On Tuesday I found out I'd have the house alone from 8 to about 10am on Wed. So, I immediately thought ENEMA TIME like every other kinkster would. 😄 But although I've been doing this for over 20 yrs, mistakes can be made...

First I overslept. I don't sleep well so if I ever CAN sleep, I do. I woke up at 9. OK, still have an hr, it won't be as relaxed, but still can be done. I had my bag and only the standard douche nozzle, which should have been fine. Unfortunately relatives houses DON'T have great places to hang the bag! I figured I could use the hinge of a bi-fold closet door. Unfortunately that's too far from the bed, but there was an old recliner closer. I hadn't ever done an enema in a recliner so I figured I'd try it. Put down an old towel, got my tablet with a nice Collector video playing, and enjoyed my semi-rushed enema orgasm. Its 9:30, plenty of time.

I push the chair down and stand up. I hear water flowing! I've never had trouble holding an enema so I'm very surprised! I clench my ass tight - still water! I reach for the clamp to make sure its closed and see water hitting the carpet! The damn hose came off of the nozzle! So now my ass has a tunnel to spray water! In a 'panic' as I see the carpet darkening, I quickly put my finger over the tip and push it all the way up inside me. Oh, that might not be so good! I run to the bathroom to sit and push to get the nozzle out. OK, did that and released some water to relieve the pressure. I go back to the bedroom to survey the damage. Ouch! A small puddle on the carpet, a 'line' of water where it poured out, the towel on the recliner chair was soaked, pick it up, oh shit! A softball sized wet spot on the fabric!

Rush to get paper towels and use the towel to soak it up. Luckily it was 98% 'clean' water, but it was still a mess. Now its 9:40 as I'm carefully patting the spots to soak it. Oops! I still have a quart or water inside me! Sit on toilet to release more, then back to cleaning. Use a spray cleaner and a facecloth to wipe the seat of the lounge chair, but wow, does that fabric change color when wet!! Soak up everything with paper towels, and clean a few 'spots'. Quickly clean up and hang the wet bag in the closet out of sight. Cover over the chair cause it would look SO obvious and plan to uncover it at night when it can dry. Luckily that chair will actually be going into my kids gameroom, so I didn't mess any good furniture. Then back into the bathroom to clean up the mess and drops of water all over the floor... AND sit to finish expelling! Ugh!

Made it with maybe 2 minutes to spare...

I've been an 'expert' enema giver and taker for over 20 yrs... but every now and then, the water wins!

We've all been there, CJ. Had that happen, also stood up under the bag and knocked it off over my head, lots of fun. Sort of makes me wonder about the characteristics of a mythological "enema god" - definitely occasional mischief and practical jokes would be an attribute.

You may very well want to go back to them some day.

WHATEVER YOU DO DON'T DITCH ANY EQUIPMENT!!!

I still have some equipment that was originally purchased for my mother in the early 1970s

Properly stored and cared for equipment can last several generations.

WHATEVER YOU DO DON'T DITCH ANY EQUIPMENT!!!

@LisaK Of course not! I’m in a temporary situation, and all my bags and bags of equipment are in storage... awaiting a ‘worthy’ partner to use them on/with!