Anal vs vaginal penetration

Guys, do you prefer to have anal or vaginal intercourse with a woman? If so, why? What does it feel like to penetrate a woman's ass?

Although it is by no means exclusive, my preference definitely is anal. Everything is just right. The fact that it seems to be considered just wrong by many people (or maybe it has long been, at least) just fuels the fact that it's something right. I'm an ass man, and when an ass attracts me, it's not only its exterior. To me, everything revolving around ass play and sex involves a level of trust and connection vaginal sex doesn't have.

I know this question is directed to men but I want to add to what @PervertedOrthographer said about anal sex involving a level of trust and connection that vaginal sex doesn’t have.

While when in my teens many of my friends had anal/oral sex to either keep from getting pregnant and or to do what some other girls wouldn’t ( word would quickly spread) I felt anal and oral was much more intimate. Something that not only required trust but was “ saved” to share with someone you felt that special connection with.

I have only had anal sex with two men and will wait for that special 3rd to give that part of myself to.

I agree it is very intimate. My wife hated all things anal and we never got there. There is nothing more intimate than penetrating a willing bung.

I don't think oral is more "intimate" than vaginal. It's foreplay and a way to get ready. I do agree that anal is more intimate and requires more trust than vaginal. So when you do it right - slowly without pain - it is more intense than vaginal sex. Some say anal gives the best orgasms. For myself - the orgasm is pretty much the same - the connection is definitely better. Can't say how a woman feels - only that my wife loved anal sex. But I do think it takes a lot of trust or whatever on the receivers part to accept anal. That makes it special.

While I love ALL forms of sex with a woman (oral, vaginal, anal, enema), anal is really my favorite. Most times having sex will include oral (me on her) and usually vaginal as well, but I do like to get in her ass and will most likely orgasm inside her there. My preference and pleasure from anal sex is twofold.

Mentally, it just really turns me on. It’s still ‘taboo’ in society (even with all the porn), it’s in the ‘dirty’ place, it’s still something most people keep secret from others. And as @bridgette points out, its ‘special’. Every woman having sex with a man allows entry into her pussy, but ONLY a special lover willl be allowed to penetrate her ass. There’s the caring and trust required for her to allow him to go there. She has to TRUST and feel SAFE with him, since pain and damage can result with a non-caring or non-skilled lover. It’s also special in that I’ve mostly been either the first or close to that with the SOs I’ve done it with. I introduced them to anal play with my tongue, then fingers, maybe toys and finally anal sex. Its a wonderful mental feeling when I arouse them in this new way that they never considered or had previously dismissed. Every time I have anal sex with a woman, I still get that feeling of ‘Wow, she’s letting me do this, she wants me to fuck her ass, she’s allowing me into her most private orifice!’ While not a testosterone fueled narcissistic, it does boost my ego when I open them to anal play and eventually they want/let me enjoy anal sex with them.

Physically, anal sex is just as amazing as mentally! I love the slow entry, the gasp I hear as my head pops in, the tightness of her ring slowly sliding down my shaft as I move into her. When fully buried her walls caress me as I poke into the other side of her rectum. I love how she stays so tight as I begin to move, even though her muscles loosen up as they get used to the stretch. After some anal experience i ask her to push out and pull in, so that her anal canal can give me an internal massage which feels amazing, whether I stay still inside or slowly pump into and out of her. I love the look of anal, like in doggy where I can see well. Her spread ass opening up for me and swallowing my cock is an incredible view! I also love pulling all the way out, maybe seeing her gape a bit, or even if not, just having her open enough that I dont need my hand to get back inside - she just accepts me into her open, wanting hole. Its simply magical!

So I could rattle on endlessly about my love for female rear ends and anal sex, butt I think thats enough for now!

Much prefer anal. More intimate, naughty, memorable, and the feeling of being gripped like that as I'm cumming oh my god. A long slow lead up to the intercourse with tongue and fingers, mmmmmmmmmm. I love being fucked in my ass almost as much as I love fucking a woman's bottom.

I prefer anal sex with a woman. It's like going into a tight and warm tunnel. You can also get a better sense of their reaction, because you can feel the body temperature rising, and the full force of the orgasm. Anal sex is for the adventurous. Vaginal is fine, but it's what everyone else is doing.

Anal sex is for the adventurous. Vaginal is fine, but it's what everyone else is doing.

I have absolutely nothing to base this on - just a guess on my part that a lot more vanilla people enjoy anal than we would suspect. They just don't talk about it.

The foreplay I have described in my earlier posts get Carla very loose, making the physical sensation soft, slick, and caressing. It's been so long since we had vaginal that I can only recall anal has always been better. Part of that is psychological, our wonderful, anal-only marriage and the memory of how awful sex was with women who grudgingly had anal as a loathsome accommodation to a man they eventually hated. Carla's anal eroticism is at least half of the pleasure, because her "open end" assures me she enjoys it just as much as I do.

Jack, you're a lucky man.

Eric

When I was younger the vagina was it . Now much older I enjoy ANAL more now then ever !!! Same with the wife !!! So for me it’s ANAL

There is a difference for me, my partner is always up for either but prefers anal during her time of the month more than other times. It feels much tighter and more intimate with anal over vaginal. We were out on my boat a week or so ago and decided to play a bit, I ended up starting in her vagina and after a bit she asked me to move back and finish in her bottom. I suppose we put on quite the show for anyone else on the water

I definitely prefer anal sex to vaginal sex.I its tighter,hotter and of course more humiliating to the woman!I like to hear the woman scream and even cry under my body. the butt hole is much more private than vagina,and giving it up to your man is more submissive than anything in this world!I loke it.especially with girls who have big round butts!!

From a pure pleasure POV, both vaginal and anal produce intense orgasms for me. But my own anal eroticism has me focused on all things anal. So for me anal sex tops vaginal sex. It does feel different from vaginal sex- starting slowly to let the anus slowly open up and relax but still tight right through to orgasm which is so pleasurable. My wife and I have had anal sex over the years but its not her favorite thing to do so when it happens it is such a turn-on for me. She enjoys it when we are doing it, but rarely initiates it.

I like the tight feeling of anal, and also the fact that it requires lots of trust between my wife and myself. Plus, my wife feels it's very naughty. It however requires some preparation and a lady in the right mood. It's not spontaneous. Vaginal is more for daily use.

As much as anal sex has always been an exalted prize, the sensation of vaginal sex is just as good if not better. The vaginal walls were designed to stimulate penile skin and the warm velvety softness is sublime.

The snugness of the anal canal is great, but that’s just it; there’s no real texture to the walls, just a smooth elastic cuff. Then it opens up into the rectum which is warm and moist but not tight. I can basically feel the anal ring sliding up and down my shaft as I plunge in and out, and that does feel good along with the different angle of penetration, but the sensation just isn’t the same as vaginal sex.

HOWEVER, anal sex is much more visually and psychologically stimulating.

Visually, i think the anus is much nicer to look at than a vagina (not that a vagina is ugly, a neat and tidy pussy is a beautiful thing). A perfect little clenched orifice just waiting to be penetrated and softened. It looks so hot stretched around a thick shaft, and it is visual representation of the ultimate sexual goal at the deepest part of the crevice. A woman’s hips and buttocks are there to advertise sexual availability, so for me, her anus is the place where I go to literally stake my claim. (You can’t penetrate a pair of tits, no matter how big and soft they are.) How amazing is it to watch a pair of upturned buttocks rippling and bouncing off a thrusting groin??

Psychologically, it just doesn’t get any more intimate than when a person’s ass is being penetrated by someone else. It’s THE MOST private area on the body, and for the penetrator, he or she knows that this is it, the recipient has given up their last and most prized region of their body. They have submitted and surrendered. What an incredible accomplishment for the penetrator!

For the bottom, the thrill of surrendering, of being invaded, of being taken by this person...it’s very fulfilling and satisfying. Like a deep dark void has been filled inside. Still, it feels lewd and wrong, raunchy. My wife (although she doesn’t let me anymore) said it made her feel like a “bad girl”. It’s that whole “right because it’s wrong” thrill.

I personally don’t think that the aforementioned experiences are as intense with vaginal sex, if they even exist at all, although I wouldn’t know about receptive vaginal sex from a woman’s point of view since I’m a man.

Visually, i think the anus is much nicer to look at than a vagina (not that a vagina is ugly, a neat and tidy pussy is a beautiful thing). A perfect little clenched orifice just waiting to be penetrated and softened. It looks so hot stretched around a thick shaft, and it is visual representation of the ultimate sexual goal at the deepest part of the crevice. A woman’s hips and buttocks are there to advertise sexual availability, so for me, her anus is the place where I go to literally stake my claim.

You took the words out of my mouth.... could not said it better.. 😉

For me when I was younger it was all about getting pussy !!! Now many years later it's more anal for me !!! But know both the wife and I love anal can't get enough of it !!!

Unfortunately I have only had anal sex with one woman one time. While it was amazing you cannot properly judge the first and only time for anything. Anal sex with my wife has always been absolutely taboo. I love vaginal sex and especially oral on a pussy. It certainly isn’t just foreplay. That all being said I would love have the opportunity experiment and give you guys a more educated opinion.

I prefer anal for physical and emotional reasons. The closeness you feel for the woman who is opening-up to you in that way, the tightness during penetration and thrusting, the eroticism associated with viewing a woman's asshole being entered by a penis, and the "naughtiness" of it all, definitely tilt the balance in favor of anal.

I definitely like both but there is certainly something special about penetrating a woman's 'taboo orifice'

Anal is the best for me, even if she likes it ...

Anal is the best for me, even if she likes it ...

Meaning that you usually have anal sex with women whether they like it or not?

Meaning that you usually have anal sex with women whether they like it or not?

When a person's native language is not English, one has to make allowances and try to figure out the intention.

Anal is an addiction 😄

I had a Lady friend who loved anal. We had some great fun at times

For me this is a no brainer - anal! The sexiness and beauty of a nicely shaped woman's rear along with a crack that seems to smile, keeping the hidden treasure waiting to be found and entered - yea, that's what I crave!

I love anal 10x more than Vag. Its tighter, more erotic, I love giving some pain as a DOM !!

Does 'Oh yea baby, fuck my ass' count as a DOM instruction by the ass fucking recipient?