Have you accepted you will always have to wear nappies?

I am incontinent and dependant on nappies I decided long ago the best way forward was to accept and embrace my condition. Now I honestly wouldn't want life any other way. I am "Truy happy in a nappy"

True, I have been in diapers 24/7 for over ten years. I always wanted to wear and use diapers for last sixty years, now I can and have to and I am okay with it.

I'm going on seven years of wearing diapers 24/7 because of my incontinence. It took me a good while to accept the fact I had no choice but to be diapered 24/7. Even though I accepted the fact, its a part of my life now. I no longer mind wearing diapers because I'm simply used to them now. If the day ever came that I was no longer incontinent I would not miss wearing them. I live a normal life as an incontinent person can.

It took me over a year to accept my control problems and to overcome some of the feelings I had inside of me about having to wear diapers,and I was very ashamed of myself. I was wondering how I could adapt to live with incontinence,I had to accept the fact that accidents will occur and that the frequency and severity may or may not be under my control.Only my wife is aware of my condition and my need for diapers because I have kept her secret and I try as best I can to hide my diapers in public.More than at the beginning, my wife insisted that I wear diapers at night so as not to wet the bed,

It took me months to be comfortable in bed and to accept my situation, she made me understand that it is better to wear diapers rather than having to wear wet pants every day of the week,

I think my wife does everything so that I feel comfortable wearing my diapers 24/24, because she really treats like her big baby, I was very embarrassed and humiliated to have you put on a diaper and panties plastic like a baby and getting up in the morning with my wet diapers in front of my wife.Since I adopted my diapers today and I think it helped me adapt to my situation. I found that diapers were a great source of comfort and safety.That after I discovered the ABDL community and other people with the same pee control problems and other similar people to me, requiring their obligation to wear diapers,

I felt surrounded by the same feeling. Today, I consider myself lucky to have the opportunity to enjoy my diapers and all that they bring to me. I like talking now with other people who are incontinent.Especially those that their spouse or wife requires them to wear diapers and plastic baby panties for their bedwetting!

My "thing" started long ago with more of a mental dependence of diapers/nappies. I was late out of them as a child, very clearly recalling being diapered in the evening, feeling the bulk in my pajama before drifting off to sleep and being taken upp and changed in the morning by my mom's part-time housemaid or Mon herself.

In that time - around 3-4 yo - i was never let out without a diaper on, and my mother took me by the hand to go out shopping, me always wearing diapers and plastic pants which must have been very obvious by the padded butt.

Once in the hospital i was teased by the other kids in the ward for being the only kid there still in diapers, being walked and carried in the corridors by nurses between different examinations. I remember sitting on one nurse's arm, feeling her warmth on my thighs and compressing my diaper.

It was never a big thing for me, but when Mom decided to train me out of them, i missed them and asked if I could get them back.

Long story slightly shorter i did try diapers again in my adolescence, and quickly got caught in a mental dependence. This proceeded to a physical one. Now I have heard and read that this isn't an actual incontinence, that it might be possible to train me out of them again. But i have adapted to them and feel safe in them, and at my age 67 i can't really see the point of that. Age makes me also feel more accepted this way, and since long I don't give a second thought if my diapers are visible under clothes, which I know they often are. Though i don't specially expose them, I am the diapered man to the surrounding world.

I wake wet every morning but with a clean dry bed. Why wouldn't I like it that way?

Well I don't HAVE to wear them, for me it's all for kinky sexual fetish "fun" when I'm able to do it (when I'm home alone with no chance that anyone (especially family) will show up. Like right now, I'm sitting here in thick soaked cloth diapers and Lollidots plastic pants...wink wink).

But I accepted about 30 years ago that I'd always have to wear them for the above reasons, in order to keep myself sane, because all of this is just part of who I am.

After accepting it, life became much easier. Prior to that it was the guilt / binge & purge thing. but finally in my mid-20s I just accepted that whatever else may come along in life I'm going to always find time to wear and love my diapers. It's amazing how the act of accepting it makes it so much more enjoyable!

And in my case, accepting it then paved the way for me marrying a girl who accepts it...!

Yes.

I was incontinent from birth to 8yo, from 12yo to 14yo, and from 22yo to now (24yo). I'm not going to bother trying to get out of it now. I'm used to it and I'm comfortable.

Working on it, the sexual side actually adds a degree of challenge.

Yes.

I was incontinent from birth to 8yo, from 12yo to 14yo, and from 22yo to now (24yo). I'm not going to bother trying to get out of it now. I'm used to it and I'm comfortable.

When I was returned to diapers as a mutual agreement to keep things dry.I have adjusted and it saved a lot of accidents.

My major concern is being taken OUT of diapers. Not that I see that happening. Besides, with literally thousands of dollars in my diaper stash, it would be a gross waste of money. Can't do that!

I will always wear a diaper. It has been several years and I'm comfortable wearing them.

I will always be in diapers for the rest of my life. There's no ways around it and Diapers are always gona be part of my life. I'm so comfortable in them that it's very normal for me

Yes, because ever since I became partially incontinent in 2010, my problems haven't gone away or gotten better.

Also my body is trying to tell me I shouldn't have been taken out of diapers in the first place, something I have touched on in earlier similar replies about this subject also I have accepted that I need diapers just to stay healthy that is to say emotionally physically and psychologically speaking because all three are connected to my inner child.

I have also come to terms with the implications of choosing this way of life and have wholey accepted that my life is diffrent to what it was prior to 2010 and from now on diapers are the new normal form of underwear as specially at nights when I need them the most just to stay dry.

Yours sincerly

Chinababy888.

I will never like wearing these thing's I fought my way out of them 6 year's ago and now I'm back in them . I don't like the rash on my rear or in the crease of my legs . I don't like my room smelling like stale pee . I really don't like that I have to plan around my change's to go anywhere . I tried catheter's and they were MUCH better until the tip of my penis became raw and bleeding and looked like I had a S.T.D. . My late wife liked to keep me shaved smooth just for her self , now I have to just so it doesn't smell or get infected . I don't like the cost , 80 to 100 dollar's a month . It has put an end to my love life . It limit's my friendship's it really cut's into my time gold prospecting . I used to put miles on my quad prospecting { 50 to 100 miles a day } now I cant do more then 5 or 6 miles until I have to change . So I don't see any reason to like or even get used to them .

Nytwatch1, I understand your frustration of wearing diapers and what's all involved with it. Just think and remember that you are not the only one wearing diapers for a medical reason. When I became incontinent due to a spinal cord injury I felt the same way. I also started out using catheters from the beginning and had nothing but trouble. I dont know your situation. The best thing I did was accept the fact I had no choice. I tried many different brands and types of diapers to find what worked for my needs and lifestyle. Yes it does take planning through out the day for changes and etc. I got myself on a pretty good schedule which works good. As time and learning went on all things involved became much easier. I agree with you it PLAIN SUCKS! I came up with a little saying for myself when I'm upset about wearing diapers. I'm alive and healthy, living life as normal as it can be. Always remember that there are less unfortunate people. I hope this helps and there are many good people here that will help and talk about it if you like. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP MY FRIEND.

Thank you Indiana for you're understanding . I am lucky that I have a good friend that has had to were them for many years and has helped me to choose the one's that are the easiest to were . Although when I get it wrong and have problems and he start's laughing I want to slap him up the side of his head .

About 23 years ago , I thing the hardest part was getting what I needed, when insurance said I could not have the diaper I needed with a Velcro closure ,back then that was a premium diaper search of cloth,plastic pants,onesies "Docker's for the disabled diaper wearers" ,i bought the best money could buy all new diapers and clothes that could accomodate my changing needs, both in diaper terms and the changes in my physical health and what I could and couldn't do. For better or for worse diapers are here to stay .

I'm 25. I've been urinary incontinent since 18yo and faecal incontinent since approximately 22yo. These are mostly sequelae to a birth defect, but with a significant component of simply not trying to maintain my continence due to being in diapers.

I tried toilet training a couple of times and actually had moderate success the first time, less the second time. At this point, however, it's unclear I would get any success from that. Remaining medical intervention options are limited and I'm not really willing to risk them because I think the risks of them going bad are worse than being incontinent has been (for me as an AB/DL who already had significant experience being incontinent).

I realise I'm going to be in diapers for the rest of my life and I'm not really particularly mad about it.

I'm going on 2 yrs in diapers, and have excepted it.

Being a long term nappy user with over 26 years of experience I have come to the conclusion that I need to wear so I might as well enjoy it wich really makes it "no big deal" and makes life easier and more enjoyable and I have the support of the wife who is very understanding.

Yes the house is always full of nappies in every conceivable hiding place but even if you knew me I doubt very much you would know or even suspect what underwear I use, even the wife has never seen me in just my nappy.

So accepting-YES

Happy with the situation-YES

I do not have to wear diapers and will not have to wear the rest of my life; BUT, I have accepted the fact I WANT to wear diapers and plan to always wear them. I fully expect to never wear regular underwear ever again. I like my diapers.