How often do you have sex

@Sexy_Librarian said

As often as possible! 3-4 times a week at the very least,, but we are always thinking about it. We have been married 30+ years and for lots of years I was not as interested as he was, but 9 years ago I had a hysterectomy and that actually started us back on an upward swing! He also started doing more around the house - laundry, dishes, etc. so I would have more time to relax and be in the mood. There is something about knowing that the dishes and chores are done so I can turn that off in my mind and focus on the fun things! He also started putting more effort into being romantic and just spending time with me.

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I often sleep naked now just for him, because I know he is looking at me while I am sleeping. We sort of keep each other in a constant state of arousal, because we figured out that sex does not start 2 minutes before bedtime. It is something we tease each other with all day. I tease him in the mornings as I get dressed and he often sends me erotic pictures and text messages throughout the day to turn me on. He tells me often that the most important sexual organ is the brain and because we spend time during the day teasing each other, it is only natural to want to satisfy our cravings when we are back at home together!

The first thing I need to say is, what a fantastic post @Sexy_Librarian! I most thoroughly enjoy reading the things you share. I look forward to reading more of the things you share with us.

I believe your hubby is a very lucky and blessed man and he realizes it himself. You are the most important person in his life and I am sure he enjoys showing you that in every way he can, not just in the bedroom, kitchen, living room...or anywhere else you two decide to have sex. 😉

You are worth the time and effort he puts into nourishing the relationship and I am sure he does not see it as effort at all, but more of a pleasure.

What an incredible couple!

How often do you have sex ?

Is your partner satisfied with this rythm ?

How often do you have sex ?

Is your partner satisfied with this rythm ?

I have sex with my husband at least once or twice every day, often it is more if it is a day or a night when he is not working. I think we have good sex drives that match each other which is good.

@Amethyst ,

Whaou, I am impressed??

@Amethyst ,

Whaou, I am impressed??

Not half as much as her lucky husband is! 😉 😈

Not enough?

Can empathize, @Wolfgirl66.

Not enough?

Anyone who doesn't give this answer shouldn't really be on Zity ... ha ha ha

How 20 years not my choice. Been married over 40 year and never once strayed except in my mind. Not sure I would know how to act. That said it is what it is . At least there are friends here that understand and support and I thank everyone for that.

We were married 1977 and sex was several times a week. After children 4 over 8 year time period, she was not as interested as before children (understandable). When to weekly and then monthly, then three or four times a year. After my vasectomy, 1990, every stopped. Divorced 2006. I have not be with anyone since 2006, so all up 31 years.

2x months maybe 3

At least 2 to 3 times a week but thats full sex. We have play sessions that don't necessarily lead to sex more often

Not often enough

Hmm, time for me to re-visit the Sexless Marriage thread… wow, I posted allot there. Recapping - sex ended between my gal and I back in 1999… the same year I discovered the Internet … my gal's lessening sexual desires couldn't complete…