How often do you have sex

I am very curious - how often do you couples have sex? And what is considered normal? Once a week? Once a month.

My wife and I have sex approx. 1-2 times a month - and I think it is not enough. She knows I want more - but I have, and always will, accept that she does not have the same sexdrive as I have. But anyways - how often do you do it?

I have sex with my husband at least once or twice a day, it is more when on some days when he is not working.

I have sex with my husband at least once or twice a day, it is more when on some days when he is not working.

Ah to be young again. That is outstanding but try to beat Susie's record of 36 days in a row. She said the they were sick of it after that and didn't do it for like 3 days!

Ah to be young again. That is outstanding but try to beat Susie's record of 36 days in a row. She said the they were sick of it after that and didn't do it for like 3 days!

I think it is no good if we have NOT had sex for 36 days in a row, we do beat that. 😜 😁 lol

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Ah to be young again. That is outstanding but try to beat Susie's record of 36 days in a row. She said the they were sick of it after that and didn't do it for like 3 days!

Someone misquoted me. That isn't a statement that I made.

I would like to know where that quote originated.

Someone misquoted me. That isn't a statement that I made.

I would like to know where that quote originated.

So what were your exact words praytell

So what were your exact words praytell

If I knew, I would have searched for it and posted the correct quote!

I could not find my post where I discussed the 36 days in a row experiment.

I admit I made up the 3 day part of it. I don't remember the exact number maybe it was 12 hours

I admit I made up the 3 day part of it. I don't remember the exact number maybe it was 12 hours

You faked my post?? 😮

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OK, I found the original post:

While we are both perpetually horny, there is a limit. Several years ago, we did an experiment to see how many days in a row we could have sex. Yes, it was my idea. The premise was we had to have sex at least once in every 24 hour period and we each had to have an orgasm. This was really fun for the first three to four weeks. We continued. By the 28th day it was like, "do we have to have sex today?" and one of us always said "yes" we have to complete the experiment which became a marathon. By 30 days in a row, there were days neither one of us wanted to fuck, get oralled or even jerked off. By that time, there was no love left in having sex and we were just doing it for the sake of repetition and to see how far we could go. I said let's do it for 36 days--an even three dozen so that's what we did. I would say that for the last 20 or so years we have had sex 3-4 times a week about every other day on average, so there are times we go daily for a week and the next week it may be only once or twice. The thing is when we do it because we want to, not because we are in a marathon, we have a much better time and we hug and hold each other more. I really love hugging and being tangled with his body and that is why my husband should be good for me forever.

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You faked my post?? 😮

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I got the 36 days part right. I'm old give me a break.

I got the 36 days part right. I'm old give me a break.

OK, you are redeemed. 😁

@SwitchableSusie you have just had your first "senior moment".

Or brain fart.

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Now to hit the "Post" button.

Hemmelig: Our habit was once a day (well, every night) unless tired or other circumstances. Then we had children, which tired us a lot. Now that they are older and less time consuming, we are back to every night unless special circumstances.

One difference with Susie's marathon is that there is no obligation that we both have an orgasm. We may stop with neither having an orgasm, or only one. A common case is my wife saying that she will not reach orgasm but asking me to give her a good shaking.

Also - unless we are separated (e.g. I'm travelling for business, or she is), no masturbation till orgasm, keep your sexual energy for the spouse.

My wife perhaps has "unrefined" views on this - oral, fingering, etc. are all good and dandy as foreplay, but only vaginal (or, at times, anal) fulfills her.

The difficulty these days is that since her career took a hit due to the pregnancies and children, she's trying to make up for lost time and has accepted responsibilities that involve lengthy conference calls in the evening.

I'm not going to tell something so private the world to see, but I remember what my grandfather used to say when someone brought up the comment "Did you get any today," and he was always say "Yes, my wife and I have sex almost every day ... almost on Monday, almost on Tuesday, etc." Then he would laugh ... we'd all laugh ... grandma would blush.

We are very active, sexually.

My husband and I sex leading to an orgasm for one or both of us at least every other day during the week and more frequently on weekends or when we are on vacation. I am actually the instigator of sexual activity more frequently than my husband is. We usually use non verbal cues between us to signal each other. I guess that started when the kids were younger. I use a diaphragm for BC and I leave the storage compact open on the bathroom vanity as one of the signs I want sex. I also wear a particular bracelet that I only put on if my diaphragm is in and I am ready. One of his cues for a quickie when he comes home from work is to give me a hug and press his hand on my butt. I just go put it in and wait for him. Most of the time I just bend over a bedroom chair and he fucks me from behind with no foreplay; slam bang thank you mam and it is over in at most 3 minutes. I seldom orgasm from a quickie without fore play. If I am not too busy I usually finish my self with my vibrator.

Dita

Every day my maid satisfy me orally. Once a week my female friend D. came with me to spend the night. Once week I go to my male friend Dr. we spend a wild afternoon together. I am very satisfied with the current state.

Last time was Christmas eve 2007,i could not perform up to my personal standard ,it was then that I choose celibacy ,since then my function has improved but my G/f has no intrest in it.

2-3 times a week. Sometimes once a week, sometimes 4 times, but usually 2-3 times.

I have only been living with my boy friend for about 4 or 5 months. I do not keep count but I would put the conservitive figure at A LOT! I must admit that I do like sex and I do like my boy friend so I can be ready at a moments notice. LOL

We may go weeks where we might have sex once or twice a week, ever so often where we do not have sex at all. Then we will go a week or two where we cannot keep our hands off each other. And to be honest it is turning into one of those weeks. ????

More than the numbers of Christmas at the year.......lol

About three times a week,i masturbate a lot too.

Sorry .. long answer .. and little stories.

I'm a pilot and she's a flight attendant, so often our schedules can be complete opposite, or we can be lined up and actually fly trips together (working vacations 😃 ) So we have sex when we can and when we want. It can be 3-4 times a day, or have 20 days in between or 3-4 times a week. All depends. Our record is 27 orgasms in 24 hrs for her, that was just an amazing mind blowing day. Or we can have INSANE nights of sex, that leave sheets bloody from her shredding my back with her nails. The other side of the spectrum. We have the record of going about 2 weeks of not having sex despite being together. And that was wonderful too. It just happened and we both loved it. Just tender weeks of being together and holding each other. Still being nude together etc.. just we were in the mood for being. Or we will masturbate together over the phone if we want. We both tell the other when we cum without the other. So there's secrets. So freeing.

We have a rule between us. If either is extremely horney and the other is not in the mood we WILL have sex or allow the other to please themselves for the pleasure of the other. And that's because we both insanely want to please each other but understand that life gets in the way. And I tell you it so freeing. To be honest its been very rare that either of us has flexed the rule, but has resulted in some crazy sex.

Couple of examples... one night I came home from a very long trip and was exhausted and she was INSANE HORNEY.. I felt so bad but was exhausted. I showered and hoped that would wake me up. It didn't and asked if we could just sleep, she smiled and said she was executing the "rule". Ok lover, I said. I fell asleep while she was sucking me. That didn't stop her she was loving my member. Not sure how it worked but I was hard enough for her, she rode me .. I'm in and out asleep. That wasn't enough, so she swallowed me again after she finished herself, she tells me. I woke up the next morning after being passed out for 11hrs. But anus was sore.. hmm I asked her what happened, she said with a huge grin "oh that was probably the three fingers I had in your ass to get the cum I wanted"

The other was the opposite .. I was home waiting for her (she was on a trip) and we were teasing each other all day! Sexting is fun! Unfortunately her flights were delayed and delayed. When she got home I was crazy horney. She showered and tried, but was exhausted. So she told me to "use my body as you wish.. make sure you cum!" So I was all over her amazing breasts, licking her deep and loving it then I notice she's snoring. What the! So I continue, my attention turns to her tussy. She's relaxed and my tongue went in easy. I'm hard so I grab the lube and start opening her more with my fingers. I slid deep in, and enjoy the warmth and tightness. Eventually I can't hold out and cum deep in her. I pass out. The next morning morning she tells me "you were amazing gentle fucking my ass, thank you! "

So we communicate alot and get what we want! But the frequency is random and we are stupid happy with our sex life. Often we'll ask.. "how's your sex bucket? If low the other knows the other needs something.

I had sex with my wife a couple of times a week when we first got married. We didn't at all during her pregnancy. I tried to get our sex life going again after the baby but it just never happened. About 7 years later I tried again but it just felt weird by then. I just went back to masturbating and we haven't since so really, we dont

I would say 2-3 times a week with one another but I am not counting masturbation by either of us. Denise

I could have sex everyday but my wife isn't so horny all the time. I would say we have sex at least once a week, usually at least two. But certainly not as often as I would like.

Probably about every day. We both like sex and when an enema is introduced, it really turns me on so there will be sex, if not me given an enema.

Early on in our marriage we had sex 2-3 times a week. I wanted more but my wife has always had a low sex drive. I. The last decade sex has slowed and now we never have sex. My sex drive is still strong so I have to resort to masturbation. It sucks but it is what it is.

As often as possible! 3-4 times a week at the very least,, but we are always thinking about it. We have been married 30+ years and for lots of years I was not as interested as he was, but 9 years ago I had a hysterectomy and that actually started us back on an upward swing! He also started doing more around the house - laundry, dishes, etc. so I would have more time to relax and be in the mood. There is something about knowing that the dishes and chores are done so I can turn that off in my mind and focus on the fun things! He also started putting more effort into being romantic and just spending time with me.

For example, for many years I would go to bed early and he would stay up until the wee hours of the morning in another room watching TV or surfing the net. Now, even when I go to bed, he comes and stays beside me. I often sleep naked now just for him, because I know he is looking at me while I am sleeping. We sort of keep each other in a constant state of arousal, because we figured out that sex does not start 2 minutes before bedtime. It is something we tease each other with all day. I tease him in the mornings as I get dressed and he often sends me erotic pictures and text messages throughout the day to turn me on. He tells me often that the most important sexual organ is the brain and because we spend time during the day teasing each other, it is only natural to want to satisfy our cravings when we are back at home together!