Why do men enjoy giving an enema to a woman?

I just wondered what men find to be arousing about administering an enema to a woman? I've never received an enema from a man and I would really like to experience this some day as I have sub tendancies, but I wanted to understand the psychology on the side of a male enema giver....thanks y'all and happy new year when it comes!

Ummmmm ...... that's a hard one to answer.

The reasons are many.

Power, control, and the enjoyment of your excitement and submission ... that you will endure this for me. I think it is the same the other way.

I have given enemas to 20 women in my life so far and the vast majority of them were for sexual reasons. they turned us on. personally, I love the intimacy of the moment, me instructing her, coaxing her to take more water, rubbing her belly and clit, her full and moaning, pregnant with enema. I love to enter my lover while she is in knee-chest position still holding a full hot enema as I stand behind her and pound into her. also going down on the lady as she fills really gets most women off.

Tenessee21, what do you find appealing about doing something to a partner (massage, handjob, blowjob, whatever) that brings them pleasure but might not bring you a great deal of physical pleasure? Same applies for enemas. Add to that the psychological bits on control, penetrating "private areas" and the like.

Nothing is more beautiful than sliding a well lubricated nozzle into a tight female rectum, then filling her with warm solution while you eat her pussy and clit or finger her to orgasm. To share the most intimate places of her body is better than sex. I once had a lover tell me: "You know, I have had sex with several men, but NO MAN has ever given me an enema before this! This is much more intimate than just sex." You know...she was right!

The most intimate thing you can do in my opinion is to give an enema. It is more intimate than sex because you are invading that secret place that no one ever sees. It takes a lot to bare your bottom and feel your cheeks spread and know he is gazing on your browneye. Nothing better. So damn hot!

Because I'm a switch and always have switch GF's, and I enjoy being given and forced to hold erotic enemas so much that I want to return the favor when my partner wants to be sub. I enjoy listening to her moans and groans and begging just as much as she enjoyed mine when I was sub to her making me do things. Win - win. A few months into our marriage, my ex told me that her most secret desire was to get enemas from her husband. She had a first husband who passed away before I met her, and she could never tell him that desire. I was delighted. Switching and trading enemas with her was especially exciting and satisfying.

Eric

Intimacy, bonding, trust....just for starters. Comfortable with each others nakedness. Surrendering your most private areas and bodily functions. Then add a relaxing massage to build the erotic response as the water slowly flows....it's electrifying. It's not for everyone, but when two klismo's hook up it's real magic.

Trust, punishment, submission, and anal.

Because down deep they don't trust us to be independent and want to believe they are "Caring for" us by doing things"For" us that we should be doing for ourselves!!

Because it feels good when a woman gives us an enema, so why wouldn't we want to give the same pleasure back to someone we love?

Goodness, gracious, what a question! When two people love one another as much as my husband and I do, giving me an enema is a gift that shows how deeply and sincerely he cares. If he is aroused, that's fine with me. I'm happy after all these years that I still affect him that way! ?

Because down deep they don't trust us to be independent and want to believe they are "Caring for" us by doing things"For" us that we should be doing for ourselves!!

In most cases I doubt it. I am well aware that a woman can open a door but still will hold doors open for women. Shows respect and a desire to make her life just a bit easier even if it is unnecessary.

On the sexual level I can masturbate just fine, and I am inclined to suspect my my wife probably can too. That doesn't mean we don't want to share our sexual activity with each other.

It's an intimate action and can be enjoyable and sexual... let it be that.

Yeah, some men do probably do it because they want control, but not all.

I especially love the special intimacy I have when I give an enema to a woman.

One woman said I was the only one to ever give her an enema besides her mother and grandmother. The trust involved is very special. This has been, for most of us, our most intimate secret and sharing that with someone, stranger or not, takes a lot of trust and guts. We spent 12 hours together with her on top of my table for her enemas-just like her mom and grandma gave them to her. I even spread the little Disney blanket that my daughter used for her enemas when she was little. that seemed to especially turn her on.

Her dad was a trucker and was away from home a lot. That was the only time her mom would give her enemas. She told me she could hear her mom downstairs in the kitchen clearing the table for her to get her enemas. She would masturbate in her room, waiting for her mom to call her downstairs.

Hot stuff!

Intimacy. (And maybe the "control" aspect.) A man giving a woman an enema is much more intimate and personal than sex! When you're young and given an enema, it's most often the parent, grandparent or another close family member doing the honors. Anything having to do with bowel movements is about as close as two people can get! And "making" someone have a bowel movement is the ultimate of closeness and intimacy. If it's your husband or someone you deeply love giving you the enema, it is BONDING in a way you never thought possible!!!

I really enjoy giving enemas to women. I've given them for different reasons; health, punishment and erotic stimulation.

My wife loves to have me give her an enema. While she does take them on their own, if I'm around she will ask me to do the honors, but Sharon also knows that my giving her a good enema gets me really very horny. Of course, afterwards she will accommodate that problem in a way that only she can.

I like it because it gives me control over my wife, which turns me on greatly. I like to know she is constipated and nothing and no one can help, except me. I love to hear her say, as she sits on the toilet, "I've been pushing and pushing and it's not coming out." I love it when she says she hates the feeling of the enema as it's squirted into her butt, so I press the bulb real hard to cause more pain, while saying, "Well, that'll teach you to not hold your poop in for so long!" I love to make sure she holds the enema in as long as possible, telling her "You'll have to wait to get a good cleanse. If not, you'll get a second one." That's a good incentive for her to hold it it. I love to watch as she squirms as the familiar sensation of needing to poop grows.

And when she finally goes, with me watching of course, I love it as she goes "ngggggggggggggg" as the head of the turd emerges and give a loud flomp, ending with sigh that goes "urrgahhhhhhhhh".

Not sure but I did find out by experimentation in a few foreplay enemas that my husband does become sexually aroused seeing me in Simms position.Not sure why, but maybe that, combined with the fact that enemas are completely submissive.

You may also whimper or groan during injection, and men get off on that. Must be the "conquest euphoria"from a time when men were hunters

It's a high form of dominance.

Not sure but I did find out by experimentation in a few foreplay enemas that my husband does become sexually aroused seeing me in Simms position.Not sure why, but maybe that, combined with the fact that enemas are completely submissive.

Sim's is sexy even without the enema. I've seen my wife in semi-Sims a couple times, usually with her clothes on, never with an enema or any other thing like that, and it's still sexy. Something about the curves and the fact that it is sexually suggestive but not in-your-face... it's a nice position to see her in.

Don't get me wrong, I like doggie and on her back and pretty much any way she can be, but there's something about Sims.

I asked hubby last night (after reading this thread) did he enjoy giving me an enema. His first response was, "well, I don't mind doing it". When I probed a bit further and asked if it turned him on, his reply was an emphatic "yes".

Then I asked him was there anything specifically that contributed to turning him on. And his reply was that the whole process turned him on. He quickly followed with the remark that knowing enemas gave me significant pleasure was an ingredient that added to his enjoyment. Seeing me lying in the Sims position on the bed or bathroom floor was sexy (especially if I was wearing his favorite high heels) and then the little groans and verbal cues that I am known to emit; seeing my tummy swell from the enema and the tightness of my nipples seem to make the experience hyper sexual.

As a result of our conversation last night, I have a date with hubby and our enema gear in about 30 minutes. I can hardly wait!!

Have fun and play safe!

Deb

And his reply was that the whole process turned him on. the little groans and verbal cues that I am known to emit; seeing my tummy swell from the enema and the tightness of my nipples seem to make the experience hyper sexual

There is nothing more sexy to me than a girl with a nozzle in her ass squirming and moaning as she takes her enemas like a good girl. I've never considered heels although that sounds hot too. Have fun. Be sure to fill us in(pun intended)

Dominance? I'm not feeling that, not with my guy. What I'm feeling is a closeness that we only experience when he's inside me. I never thought of this before, but when he has inserted an enema tube into me, I'm feeling a bonding between us. Maybe he feels the same way. We've never had that deep of a conversation. I'll leave that talk for another time. He'll think it's too weird.

It's about love and trust. My wife trusts me to do something to her that is as intimate as sex, but different. The love to provide her with a cleansing pleasure. Her laying there on her back with the coffee enema inside her churning away while I eat out her pussy. Or on her hands and knees while it does its job and were having sex.

The same would go for her. Sharing an intimate loving time together. Laying across her lap in a diaper getting breastfed while the enema does its job. Her sucking me off while the coffee churns away inside me.

It's not so much about domination, but about a level of love and trust that gives up the most basic bodily function to someone who unconditionally loves you.

Wow, might as well ask why WOULDN'T a man enjoy giving a woman an enema - what's not to like!? A few of my reasons :

- Very simple - she’s naked. I adore the female body in all its curves and soft spots and hidden treasures. I’m never going to see my lover naked and NOT enjoy it or be aroused!

- It involves her butt. I LOVE female asses, so ANY activity thats focused on her butt is absolutely going to arouse me! Soft cheeks, spreading them open, exposing her sexy rosebud, touching it, playing with it, sliding first a finger (to fully lube her of course!) and then the nozzle going in... Mmmmmm.. delicious!

- It's SO intimate! It will cause a loud, messy, bowel movement, something that just about everyone is embarrassed or secretive about. She’s opening herself up for my eyes and ears to BE with her as she performs her most private intimate act. (I like to be with her as she expels, rubbing her tummy, massaging her breasts, holding her, kissing her, easing her through any cramps... SO intimate and bonding!)

- It can be controlling or dominating, if you want to make that scene. What could be more controlling that to ‘force’ someone into performing a most basic private bodily function, in you presence, against their ‘will?’ And she’s LETTING me do this to her...

- It can be ‘torture’ and pushing someone to the edge, if you want it to be a punishment. And again, she’s letting me do this to her, submitting to me and any form of control I want to hold over her.

- It's submissive. Even if its not a real D/S or punishment enema, it's still submissive to be so vulnerable around your partner. Knowing that she wants to share this very intimate act with me, wants to be this close to me, wants to experience something sexy and kinky and naughty and taboo with me is so very exciting and enjoyable.

- It's orgasmic. I like playing with my parter with my mouth, tongue, fingers, toys so that she orgasms during an enema. And I LOVE helping/watching her cum! A woman in the throws of a passionate enema orgasm is just the sexiest thing ever!

- It leads to sex. After my partner has some experience with orgasmic enemas I will turn the enema session into sex, by entering her pussy as she fills up with water. I’ve written here elsewhere how fantastic that is for both of us.

- It can be caring/nurturing. I’ve only given a couple of non-sexual enemas and they were enjoyable as well, but certainly not as much since the reason was due to her discomfort with constipation. So while it wasn’t "sexy" I enjoyed caring for my partner and helping her feel better.

- And finally, it just looks SO DAMN SEXY! A woman with a nozzle and tube up her butt, a bag hanging nearby, waiting to be drained into her bowels... then seeing the bag empty, the bulging pouch of her full tummy, knowing the warm sexy pressure she feels within... damn, it's just SO erotic and sexy!

So... I think that's enough reasons for men (or mainly me) to LOVE giving a woman an enema! Now if I could only find one... LOL

CJ expresses my feelings too

Wow, might as well ask why WOULDNT a man enjoy giving a woman an enema - whats not to like!?

So... I think that's enough reasons for men (or mainly me) to LOVE giving a woman an enema! Now if I could only find one... LOL

That was nicely done. I couldn't have said it any better myself. Thanks

Agree with many that have posted before me. It’s about trust, intimacy and vulnerability. Hard to think of something more intimate or vulnerable than allowing another person to administer an enema. I believe it’s more intimate in someways than sex.