Uneven inner lips

My gf had her smear and 2 fingers tests today.

When she got home she took off her clothes to shower away the lube. Her long minora usually hang down together but after the test they dangle apart. I was teasing her (not in a mean way) about one lip being bigger than the other. One is around 4cm and one being about 3.5cm.

She laughed and told me that mine are different too it's just less obvious as they don't stick out. She's right! I do have one lip longer than the other!

Do most of the girls here have this?

I think a lot of women have got one a bit bigger than the other but my inner labia are just the same size and the same shape. My mum's labia are the same size too, we just look the same.

@Annie204 and @Amethyst, if anyone doesn't appreciate being able to see you in the nude, why care about what they say? 😈 I am betting they won't get that chance again.

I like what I have got @Cedar, I like having mine the same size. But I think it is just as normal if they are different sizes too.

That is a popular question on a health site I visit. It's mostly young girls asking but they are so worried something's wrong with them because their inner labia are not equal. Another big worry is that they hang out past their slit. Of course ignorant young boys don't help any calling them meat curtains and whatever other derogative names they may have heard. Also telling them they must be whores to get them stretched like that.

It appears they come in all different shapes and sizes: long, short, even, uneven and not even there.

Guys balls are usually different sizes, so I don't think a females lack of symmetry is abnormal.

Short, long, big, small, I love them all!

It's perfectly normal to have two different sized inner lips, as two different sized breasts, feet , hands and so on. I have three daughters and this question has came up over the years, very interesting conversation to say the least.

It is normal to have slight left to right differences. Just look at the differences between left and right breasts in many people. The same goes for faces. Take a look at photos of a full face and right and left mirror images pasted together. They look like three different people--the actual photo, left halves merged and right halves merged. Who cares if one lip is a little different from the other.

If you notice changes where one lip changes and becomes different from the other, get it checked out by a REAL doctor. Vulvar carcinoma isn't fun.

As you mentioned two halves pasted together. Faces look weird when they are symmetrical. We just don't realize we're used to the sides being different.

Totally normal. I've noticed it with my own breasts. Your lover should love you moles and all. I say.? Heck, people in general should love you for you. You should NOT ever have to change for them unless it is risking your health, but that's a different story.

HUGS, Megan

Seriously? People actually worry about this? For real?

I've never seen mine so I don't know if they are the same or not. Don't much care, either. If any partner has a problem with it, he knows where the door is.

My wife’s inner labia are very long, different lengths, and different shapes. They dangle well outside her labia majora. I think the differences are fascinating and beautiful. I love to see them hanging, I love to play with them, and I love to suck them into my mouth. Yum.

-H

As has been stated, most women (and men) are NOT symetrical in any part of their body. Labia minora might be a bit easier to see, but breasts also often can be noticably different. I LOVE giving oral to my partner and part of that first fun trip down her tummy is to see what kind of pussy she has, closed and small, puffy and full, longer and dangling!

While I have loved giving oral to every woman I have, I do admit that having some extra ‘lippage’ is extra exciting! I love pulling them into my mouth, playing with them, sucking on them and running my tongue all over and between to find their clit. The vagina (vulva more accurately) is a BEAUTIFUL thing, in all its many shapes and sizes!

Def not bothered by 'uneven labia lips' but I really like when they are a little longer than normal, love to pull and play with! Nibble on!!

My ex wife’s breast were not symmetrical and neither were her labia minora. Her labia minora could be easily seen just inside her labia major with her pubic hair trimmed. While in college, she started having issues with frequent urinary track infections and on the advice of her OB/GYN, she kept her pubic hair trimmed way back or shaved, to help prevent the frequent infections. By the time we started dating the urinary track issues were no longer a problem, however, she preferred to continue the practice well after we got married. Over the years of frequent sexual interecourse and having two children, her labia minora slowly became visible above her labia major when she was trimmed or shaved. She also perfected to trim or shave her pubic hair for easier oral sexual stimulation. As for me, my testicles are not the same size, one is a little smaller than the other.

It’s normal, we are all different in one way or the other, the fun part is finding out how uniquely different we are.

One time when my gf and I were getting out of the hot tub, I was being pretty open about where I was toweling off and she noticed one of my labia is quite a bit longer than the other one. (Not sure why she hadn't noticed that before.) I told her I used to rub and pull on the long one when I was little while I sucked my thumb. Just kidding; I never sucked my thumb! But I am surprised by how many women are having labiaplasty now. Kind of like getting a nose job or liposuction. If it's really that important to you, you should probably do it I guess.

I have only seen two girls pussies, girlfriend while at college and my ex-wife's.

Both inner lips were slightly different on each girl and each girl was different. But when aroused their outer lips opened and their inner lips came out to play.

I don't care too much about size, but sucking on larger inner lips does feel better in my mouth.

My testicles are different size with the left larger and hanging lower. I fathered four children to my wife so they worked well.

I can say that mine are innies. I have seen mine in a mirror and on a disk. If I bend my knees and let them fall to the side I am open. My sister has large labia and one is longer. Her girlfriends are normal and she has one a little longer. Same with her niece. I used to joke about my sister robbing me because she is two years older has bigger bubbies, a bigger ass, and bigger labia. Sometimes I will still joke with her about it. She was seriously wanting labiaplasty for years but she is over that now. If she puts on a bikini she always looks and asks if we can see anything. Even in certain pants and shorts, you can tell.

I hate the idea of a woman wanting labiaplasty based on appearance. I like how it looks when the lips stick out, but I do also understand. I went to a nude lesbian pool party and was comfortable enough with my shaved innie on show. I got fingered behind a shed by my then gf and my inner lips and clitoris swelled and stuck out afterwards. I kept wanting to strategically place my hands to cover my vulva when anyone came close after that, yet my gf with 4cm long inner lips dangling down was dancing on tables etc without a care in the world!

Mine look pretty similar to each other. They’re pretty small and don’t show unless I spread wide.

Do people actually take a rule to measure their labia? The only thing that has always always bothered me is that my inner labia are both too long for my outer ones!! Yes, I did try stretching them in my teenage years.

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...... I told her I used to rub and pull on the long one when I was little while I sucked my thumb. Just kidding; I never sucked my thumb!

..... but you weren't kidding about rubbing and pulling on the long one???

I think it's nice to see the inner labia, no matter how long they are.

Any of the newer ladies comfortable describing their lips? Or any guys want to describe their partner's lips?

Thank you ladies for all your reassuring posts. I am sure they may have put some younger members minds at rest. Would have been nice to see some pics of your lovely differences. 😃

Personally, I love them all. You ladies are all unique in your own lovely ways.

Thank you ladies for all your reassuring posts. I am sure they may have put some younger members minds at rest. Would have been nice to see some pics of your lovely differences. 😃

Personally, I love them all. You ladies are all unique in your own lovely ways.

I’d be willing to start a picture thread for people to add to. I personally think the differences are fascinating. If I did, would some of you contribute?

I asked. Sounds like joint albums are not a possibility. Oh well.

I couldn’t do a joint album but here’s me. I encourage anyone who wants to share to do so as well. let’s make this about positivity

https://en.zity.biz/gallery/image/210951

Any of the newer ladies comfortable describing their lips? Or any guys want to describe their partner's lips?

Lips?

What's that?